TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT #45 - Page 39

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

I blame the director as well

they seem to have cut many scenes of M&M that the writer wrote

Haya ke scenes cut karne the

In a love story, I feel that we need to see the journey of the couple. We need to see how the feelings developed for both the characters individually. Here we are not sure exactly when Murtasim fell in love. We don't get to see Meerab's confusion regarding Murtasim and also her struggle between her heart and mind.

Originally posted by: mahiaana

Bold :- wow! Thanks :) its like someone just hit me hard on my stomach!

.......wooowwww! Failure????

Red :- if its a failure for her! Then what's stopping her to choose her past? Why this "unable to choose " feelings! Just step out of this marriage. Just like you made him sign that contract, made him sign the khula paper ( talaq to woh dega nahi) so khula de de meerub!

Like can you imagine what your spouse would feel if he/she gets to know that accepting the marriage is like accepting failure in life for you or thats how you sees it!!!!

Agreed.

💯💯

If doesn’t want him, chod de na, baat khatam.

If choosing him is a failure for her, mat karo choose, just him alone. 😒

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

As far as I observed meerab sees accepting her marriage/murtasim as her failure

Like rohail was keep on saying look at urself (her injury) how u became post marriage, how u forget ur freedom, dreams, murtasim loves u only because of his izzat obligation not genuinely.

All these r her vulnerable points. But she doesn't want to leave murtasim because of her unrealised feelings, so she gave him reasons why she can't leave him.

It's what I understand because the moment rohail talks about her past life, her expressions changes. She is unable to choose between past life and murtasim. It's unfair to murtasim. That's why her realisation is needed.

This is true!!! Like she wants to love him and she does but she cant acknowledge it, like you said if she does, she feels defeated.. its a constant clash between brain and heart!

she will come through and its her journey towards him ❤️

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

As far as I observed meerab sees accepting her marriage/murtasim as her failure

Like rohail was keep on saying look at urself (her injury) how u became post marriage, how u forget ur freedom, dreams, murtasim loves u only because of his izzat obligation not genuinely.

All these r her vulnerable points. But she doesn't want to leave murtasim because of her unrealised feelings, so she gave him reasons why she can't leave him.

It's what I understand because the moment rohail talks about her past life, her expressions changes. She is unable to choose between past life and murtasim. It's unfair to murtasim. That's why her realisation is needed.

Yes we have discussed this long back! Accepting Murtasim and this marriage is like accepting defeat whixh defies her whole ideals and identity!

But unfortunately they never show this aspect on screen ! She is shown receptive of his affections and then suddenly she pulls back , that’s why most masses are unable to connect ! It’s like why this pendulum giri .

Also like someone said, when she said Yes to marriage wasn’t it like she wanted his protection and shelter, so she was always thought he will get fed up of waiting and let her off ! But again isn’t it like they can marry multiple women in their culture so I never understood the logic ! As even if he wants to move he will marry someone and still keep her there !

Originally posted by: pressu

In a love story, I feel that we need to see the journey of the couple. We need to see how the feelings developed for both the characters individually. Here we are not sure exactly when Murtasim fell in love. We don't get to see Meerab's confusion regarding Murtasim and also her struggle between her heart and mind.

I think that entire dargah sequence was dedicated to Murtasim's heart slipping over.

That was the moment he set his heart on her. Marriage/living with her obviously strengthened his feelings. Men in love aren't that complicated 😆

With Meerab, they are taking it painfully slow. Plus, she has a a complex 'closed' personality and she comes with a heavy baggage

So basically, he’s like, become Haya 😂 Hamesha available. 😃

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Aapka ka hi intezaar tha. I knew jo answer aap dengi woh yaha koi na de paega. 🥳🥳

Or editing. A lot of it could have been them editing well directed/ written scenes because of time etc.

Originally posted by: pressu

If we see the writer's interview she explained few things like the walima scene, panchayat scene and also explained whenever Meerab wants to take a step towards Murtasim she always gets reminded of her suffering, and she takes a step back. This could have been directed well by giving us the point of view of Meerab clearly. I don't know whether she did not write those scenes well regarding Meerab's point of view or it was not directed well. Because she told that she wrote long scenes, may be they cut short the script.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CpNkRkqggR9/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Reminds me of old EK serials 🤣

Originally posted by: Heeba

This is true!!! Like she wants to love him and she does but she cant acknowledge it, like you said if she does, she feels defeated.. its a constant clash between brain and heart!

she will come through and its her journey towards him ❤️

This is so so soooo wrong to that person standing other side.

Once there's this feeling of failing! Being a failureA settle inside of you, this feeling will hunt you every now and then , whenever they will argue over small things,

whenever there will be any argues, opposition of thoughts, decisions ! That feeling of failure, may be in a clash of heart vs mind ( failure in life) i chose the wrong one. This thought will definitely arise!

So anything/anyone that arise the doubt of failing in life, becoming a failure into you! Just leave that thing! Just live it!

This "may be" " what ifs" will always hunt your subconscious sense , with every single downs life hits you with in future that includes that very particular 'anything/anyone!' Who caused those failure feelings once in your life!

I hope main apni baat sahi se rakh payi .....I'm not blaming meeru for anything...all I'm saying...agar baat is haad tak achuki hein tab ....chor dena chahiye. I know its a drama. But I'm trying to say...yeh real life mei hotey hei ...one can never be completely happy with that particular thing for which, once this kinda doubts or thoughts had came in their head !

Originally posted by: midniteangel

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CpNkRkqggR9/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Reminds me of old EK serials 🤣

I cant get over these scenes and to say we actually watched them 😬😬😂😂