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aap ne aisa kya matured content daala hai post mein???😂 mujhe to kuch samajh nahi aa raha...😂

Originally posted by: India_TV

aap ne aisa kya matured content daala hai post mein???😂 mujhe to kuch samajh nahi aa raha...😂

I don't know who kaise ho gya and didn't knew how to remove also 😂😂

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

I don't know who kaise ho gya and didn't knew how to remove also 😂😂

mujhe laga rishte dekhte dekhte meri maturity kam ho gayee hai...ki samajh nahi aa raha...😂 waise bhi pre honemoon types cheezen nahi pata thi mujhe..😂

Hey Nisha dear 🤗 I am very good and I hope you are well too. Regarding abhinav I can only call him a good human only, because to support others in our surroundings is and should be a basic human trait. It's unfortunate that so many are getting into this "none of my business" mindset and showing indifference to other's suffering. Also agree with you that as a husband I think they are contrasting Abhinav character with AB character really well.

But my basic premise is marriage is for life, hence Abhira should get back after ironing out their differences and redeeming their mistakes, because life provides ample opportunities.

According to my husband we Indian women are used to satisfying others and accepting whatever little is being provided to us by our husband's as love and I agree with him. Tyaag/sacrifice is such an easy thing for us women folks. We enter our in-laws and put a lot of effort into all our relationships not expecting anything in return, so much that we sometimes forget our favourites but can definitely remember our family members favorites really well. IMO marriage is a holy union where we get to share the aspects of ourselves physically, physilogically, phylosophically and spiritually with our partner which is unfamiliar even to our parents and nature. Hence as husband Abhinav neither qualify as a husband, because I don't see any such relationship between Akshara and Abhinav.

IMO husband is supposed to support and be there and any girl shouldn't take insults lying down, Akshara in the first place shouldn't have left BH on white day.

Finally my gripe is for a mother nothing can cross her mind, when her child is in a life threatening condition, the fact that AK's thinking about KM insults and secret of Abhir birth depicts AK as a very selfish woman. Because now is not about AK. It's about Abhir health, when she knows that AB is a very good heart surgeon she should go to AB. Because it's not a time to think about consequences and nobody especially a mom can't risk her child's well-being for her foolishness . It's a severe shortcoming by the CVs. It should have been a moment of AK the mom, her baby boy Abhir, his wellbeing, not Abhinav, trying to instil some sense into AK the woman who was thrown away. The fact of the matter is Abhinav is not related by blood to Abhir and brought up relations take years to cement. Hence, they say blood is thicker than water and khoon khoon ko pukarta hai. I'm no Abhira pankha or AC lekin I'm all for the survival of family values and marital relationships. Especially in our family, DILs are treated like the most important person of the house rather than an outsider.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Rajiji,

Hope your doing good.Not sure what Twitter people think it can be different opinions or coming out of jealousy because the lead ( Abhimanyu) is being sidelined, and I dont deny that either. They only want to see Abhira together which eventually will happen too but they come with all this baseless things

I disagree that AK is not given chance to talk. In past few episodes she has shown her anger, love everything. Yeah I agree with you she is keeping other things forward in front of Abhir but literally she was thrown out of Udaipur and before she left her ex asked her back. So must be going through a lot internally and they are showing that struggle to accept that lie she hid all this years which will be out soon. She is basically exploring all options before they approach Abhimanyu.

And as far Abhinav is concerned just because what others think I am not going to stop loving him. It's very rare to find such positive mature characters. We can find faults in every single thing but sometimes better to live in peace and look for positivity around it. Think if they are toxic husbands, writers are showing other side as well. The way Abhinav takes care of Akshara understands her how many such husbands we get to see on ITV. He never dominates her, controls her or blame her. In true sense he has taken her character growth up.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hey Nisha dear 🤗 I am very good and I hope you are well too. Regarding abhinav I can only call him a good human only, because to support others in our surroundings is and should be a basic human trait. It's unfortunate that so many are getting into this "none of my business" mindset and showing indifference to other's suffering. Also agree with you that as a husband I think they are contrasting Abhinav character with AB character really well.

But my basic premise is marriage is for life, hence Abhira should get back after ironing out their differences and redeeming their mistakes, because life provides ample opportunities.

According to my husband we Indian women are used to satisfying others and accepting whatever little is being provided to us by our husband's as love and I agree with him. Tyaag/sacrifice is such an easy thing for us women folks. We enter our in-laws and put a lot of effort into all our relationships not expecting anything in return, so much that we sometimes forget our favourites but can definitely remember our family members favorites really well. IMO marriage is a holy union where we get to share the aspects of ourselves physically, physilogically, phylosophically and spiritually with our partner which is unfamiliar even to our parents and nature. Hence as husband Abhinav neither qualify as a husband, because I don't see any such relationship between Akshara and Abhinav.

IMO husband is supposed to support and be there and any girl shouldn't take insults lying down, Akshara in the first place shouldn't have left BH on white day.

Finally my gripe is for a mother nothing can cross her mind, when her child is in a life threatening condition, the fact that AK's thinking about KM insults and secret of Abhir birth depicts AK as a very selfish woman. Because now is not about AK. It's about Abhir health, when she knows that AB is a very good heart surgeon she should go to AB. Because it's not a time to think about consequences and nobody especially a mom can't risk her child's well-being for her foolishness . It's a severe shortcoming by the CVs. It should have been a moment of AK the mom, her baby boy Abhir, his wellbeing, not Abhinav, trying to instil some sense into AK the woman who was thrown away. The fact of the matter is Abhinav is not related by blood to Abhir and brought up relations take years to cement. Hence, they say blood is thicker than water and khoon khoon ko pukarta hai. I'm no Abhira pankha or AC lekin I'm all for the survival of family values and marital relationships. Especially in our family, DILs are treated like the most important person of the house rather than an outsider.

Rajiji your thoughts are very different here than mine. I see where they are coming from. Your from family where DILs are treated as must important person of the house. But akshara was never treated like that.infact she was treated as she is no one then why she should go back to that house. And she didn't leave on white day she was given divorce papers and thrown out. I am not denying all her mistakes but here situation is very different.

And I don't think just because Abhinav is not related by blood. It will take years to cement. Then there will never be adoptions or egg/sperm donors right. Chalo I feel Abhimanyu can know the truth and can co parent. But because Abhimanyu is related by blood and Abhinav not by blood out doesn't make him any better. Abhimanyu is extreme in everything. Look he never even gave Roohi speech therapy and give in to all her demands. And look how Abhir was brought by Abhinav.

And last marriage is for life so Abhira should be together. Where does this come from. If this was the case no one will ever divorce and stay in toxic marriage forever. Everyone deserves happiness na.

I don't know what changed your mind but I remember you used to see things that I didn't see too. I am surprised this all is coming from you but maybe just different life experiences.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

This would have been understandable if they had shown her as pining away for Birla like EK does with all her FLs but no she actually adamantly doesn't want Birla. They changed the narrative somewhere mid Udaipur track so this soul love thing isn't there in the narrative at least.

Abrohi marriage doesn't even impact her secretly anymore. If she knows what Birla propositioned Abhinav, she will actively be disgusted by him methinks

I guess my problem is that they've left quite everything open to interpretation -- which from a storyteller's perspective makes sense because you want all your doors open -- but from a viewer's perspective I still think they might keep abhira as endgame and are waiting for IPL to be over to gauge what direction to take with the story. They can probably work with a 2.1-2.4 range without IPL but the second IPL hits they need the trps to skyrocket so they can average around this number again. But then there's the fact that they've tried to write a post abhira marriage story twice and failed quickly both times. So a third time wouldn't make sense until they're ready for a gen4. Also, as far as PR is concerned, they've officially engaged neutral stan tt/other social medias with AkshNav and the abhira fandom is even more determined to make their ship win. It's like a proper battle out there for 'justice'😆 which is literally what the showmakers and PR team wanted and have no doubt engineered to some extent. Abhira fans would probably digest more even as they cry and crib because their endgame/izzat/harshali all's at stake and abhimanyu's faults have been brushed under the carpet seamlessly because now it's a triangle and one man vs another. very tribesy.

But then RS does a lot of things but never sidelines his og leads. So im in two minds right now. I really want to believe she'll whole-heartedly love him back. And I guess they've been bold enough to move in that direction but will they go all the way is a question they'll only answer post IPL I guess. I think IPL period will decide the direction for the team as well.

Originally posted by: Krinya

Like you said , I didn't expect the writers to take her at this level also..if they are not showing any soul love bakwas its for better..

Besides.. abhimanyu was her first love so it's always different and more passionate ..i don't want their relation to be like abhira but better than that ..kasauti yes..Mr Bajaj and prerna ..

This still feels cliche and poorly written at times but it's not a copy paste of the old writing and tracks! I actually like the show so much better after this leap but my confidence in this team is also at an all time low.

Originally posted by: Deltablues

This would have been understandable if they had shown her as pining away for Birla like EK does with all her FLs but no she actually adamantly doesn't want Birla. They changed the narrative somewhere mid Udaipur track so this soul love thing isn't there in the narrative at least.

Abrohi marriage doesn't even impact her secretly anymore. If she knows what Birla propositioned Abhinav, she will actively be disgusted by him methinks

Those nuances, those emotional beats are just not there in the story because Akshara's got to be so vague and muted which makes me think the writers have no idea how far they want to take it and are playing it safely rn. It does kind of take away from your enjoyment at times because you want a little more of those emotional components.

Hi Nisha, my philosophy to life is simple, LOVE alone can make everything OK. Love to me is the intent to stay with the person you love, the urge to awake every morning, be there with that special one at every opportunity, trying to become a better version of one's self, love is the comfortable space which stimulates individual improvement.

Also if you remember I am the one to have said a father who does nothing but be responsible for the conception of them is a "sperm donor" and hence Abhir should only call AB SIR like how AB used to call PB. But AB is shown to be having a deeper connect with Abhir. I think irrespective of the situation AB is entitled to know the truth that one of their children is alive and living with other person as their dad due to AB's foolishness. The power of truth supercedes everything.

Finally, the episodes now are about Abhir health and AK having to live with Birla's is seperate from Abhir getting his treatment from a capable doctor who is co-incidentally Abhir's biological dad. Being a mum I can say a mum can think about nothing but her child's wellbeing, especially when the child is unwell. I am saying this out of my experience as a mother and the things I had to endure for my kids😭, only god knows. The fact that AK was thinking about her past trauma with AB and his family than Abhir health makes me super annoyed. It's a severe lack of CVs understanding of motherhood and degrading a mother's power to be always truly powerful and selfless. Trust me hence we worship goddesses as maa/amma not as a sister or any other relationship.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

Rajiji your thoughts are very different here than mine. I see where they are coming from. Your from family where DILs are treated as must important person of the house. But akshara was never treated like that.infact she was treated as she is no one then why she should go back to that house. And she didn't leave on white day she was given divorce papers and thrown out. I am not denying all her mistakes but here situation is very different.

And I don't think just because Abhinav is not related by blood. It will take years to cement. Then there will never be adoptions or egg/sperm donors right. Chalo I feel Abhimanyu can know the truth and can co parent. But because Abhimanyu is related by blood and Abhinav not by blood out doesn't make him any better. Abhimanyu is extreme in everything. Look he never even gave Roohi speech therapy and give in to all her demands. And look how Abhir was brought by Abhinav.

And last marriage is for life so Abhira should be together. Where does this come from. If this was the case no one will ever divorce and stay in toxic marriage forever. Everyone deserves happiness na.

I don't know what changed your mind but I remember you used to see things that I didn't see too. I am surprised this all is coming from you but maybe just different life experiences.