Have changed the title 😄
Satya's past is revealed. It is clear that the relationship never materialized because of a great difference in social status and Girija drank poison.
"Tum ho saare fasaad ki jad" takes away the cake for me though. Blaming someone for something that is not his/her fault is irresponsible and immoral.
The difference in social status reminded me of Sai Virat marriage circumstances. Chavans always wanted a pure 96 kuli marathi and they got that in terms of Pakhi.
Satya cuts his fingers while chopping onions. Amba sees this and then also witnesses him talking to Girija.
Some lady hasn't shown up for work and Amba's SIL is worried and Amba is crying. SIL consoles Amba.
"Aap toh aise keh rahi ho jaise koi ladki humare ghar ke bahaar aakar khadi ho jayengi"
And Sai comes at the gate.
SIL assumes her to be the late lateef working woman and asks her to grind the spices. Reminded me of spice grinding scene at CN preleap. There Sai was fuming with anger having to reach clg late. Now she is composed. I guess that's what age does to you - embrace every moment with grace. Sai doesn't spend time in clearing the misunderstanding - it gets cleared with time when Satya's sister is trying Satya's phone and it rings in Sai's purse. So she has come to return his phone.
Girija's father pointed out about Satya's unknown parentage. I'm assuming this to do with his father. No one knows who his father is. Again if Harshad will be retained for long, there are chances for him to turn into chavan.
Why I changed the title?
@Sherry would like to take our discussion from here. Read your reply on other thread. You are right Virat won't be able to do much now after so much water has passed. He is still practicing in front of mirror on how he'll break the bad news to Patralekha 🤯. But what caught my attention was "kandhon pe bojh".
I'd like to connect this with Vinu and Satya.
For me what Virat referred to as "Kandhon pe bojh" is actually "atma pe bojh". It is said there's always a limit to your wrongdoings if you are in touch with at least 0.1% of your soul. The realization comes late but it comes for sure. And Virat is exactly in that state.
Why do people say think positive, think good?
Because your thoughts ultimately shape up your mind, then actions, habits and character. Then the destiny of course. If at all you are not on the right track. You had difficult experiences that resulted in a chain of negative thoughts and that rope has not only gripped your mind, but it now also has control over your heart.
Why do people meditate? Or why should people meditate?
Above any relation of a man, his identification of soul is supreme. And every soul is here to attain moksha. You give good thoughts to your mind, love and compassion to your heart and silence to your soul. That's their fodder!
When one meditates regularly, it is often observed that thoughts are first to disappear, breath becomes deep and slow. Next step also includes one having out of the body experiences. Because silence given to soul is its fodder that makes its journey to the Almighty easier.
How does this relate to Virat, Satya, Vinu?
Amongst everything, soul is the only reality. Though your soul is never touched by death, life or any outer influences it is true when one is at their level of complete awareness, karma always binds it - and to release these karmas we have to learn new lessons and that's how reincarnation happens.
"Tumhara adhikaar toh keval karma par hain. Phal par adhikar toh hain hi nahi."
"Mann ka mile toh accha aur na mile toh aur bhi accha!"
"Jo hota hain acche ke liye hota hain."
Each of these quotes signify the liberation of soul from the cycle of birth and rebirth.
Once you become a karmayogi, the next step is bhakti yoga. And one has to mention "satvaguni sampatti or daivi sampatti" here (attaining the near perfect version of the Almighty) Iss par bhagvad gita mein ek shlok hain.
Significance -
Only karma can bind the soul if results are expected out of your actions.
Why do people change? And why is it difficult for them to change?
Few years ago, a hypnotherapist busted my complete understanding around the concept of change. I always felt people change with time and it is natural. But the truth is people hardly change. Like it or not. They may have a better vehicle, better house, better health than before but the core nature of a person hardly changes.
Also, one can only change when he/she is willing to change. And that will power is the soul. Ever heard an astrologer talk about sun in your chart? Sun represents soul.
There are 3 gunas - satva, rajas and tamas.
When a soul decides to change, that decision is to move upwards from the layers of rajas and tamas to satva.
Now considering the characters one by one -
Virat -
I'm stuck with Virat's yday's dialogue - mera dil thak gaya hain or smthn smthn.
The fatigue - may it be physical or mental or emotional is often a signal from your soul that you have learnt your lesson, released your previous karma, now's the time to change. That was Virat's state yday.
Why do they ask us to do punya?
"Paap aur paap karvaata hain. Punya aur punya karvaata hain"
This is a string of pearls.
For long, Virat slogged on his relationship with Pakhi. Bhavani served the first few breaks bas ho gya bas ho gya. Only the false case opened his eyes. He is now stuck in a weird transition phase where now if his soul falls weak, he will be back in the darkest dungeon.
Satya -
I changed the title purely bcz of Girija's dialogue. Satya is not letting go of the past. He cuts his fingers in pain unknowingly. That's how deep it is. Your pain has indirectly started to affect your life on the physical plane. When one transits in the levels of gunas - Satva is the highest because it is light, it is bliss, where pain doesn't exist, where joy doesn't exist. It is grace.
Other symbolism with Girija dying due to poisoning -
When the pain surpasses all limits - it first only affects the individual emotionally, then mentally, then physically and finally the individual transmits that poison in his surroundings. Kehte hain na "vishadh yog". Pain becomes poison if held on for too long.
Satya's memory of the past is too strong. He hasn't forgotten the comments on his parentage, him being the problem, his social status. Everything stored in his subconscious.
" Tum toh mere paas hi ho"
The longer Satya keeps Girija in his heart, the longer he takes to let her go, it will deteriorate his possibilities to change. Girija was right. Won't you let me go? If I don't go, how can someone new come in your life?
And interestingly enough the ladies understand this. In Virat's case it's Bhavani. In Satya's case it is Amba.
If they don't let go of the pain that is the burden slowly it will become poison that will only kill them. Virat's case it has already shown its effect, Satya ka beginning hain.
Vinu -
Why Vinu?
It is said till 7 years of age, a child's subconscious patterns are formed. One needs to be careful on what reaches their mind and what not. Bcz these patterns once formed will govern their entire lives.
Unlike the grown up men, Vinu is still in the mind phase. Poor lad! It's only illusion for him.
From his toddler phase he has seen Virat and Pakhi.
Virat was always an indecisive fellow. Pakhi never revealed much on the surface of what she really wanted. She is manipulative. And Vinu has become a weird mix of these 2 personalities.
Cmn to Virat one more point - he was indecisive. How come he is now becoming decisive?
When a soul has learnt its lesson and released the previous karma the soul nudges the person to take a decision for his/her next stage.
And there's a wonderful description on what parmatma is towards the end of gita in gyaan yoga - "Main nishchay hoon"
But the challenge is - "divine timing"
Nature takes its new course only after it has run its previous course. Nothing is sudden. Nothing is a catastrophe. It happens as it has to.
For all the three characters - it is simmering. Everyone's at a different stage. But whose divine timing is to play first? Whose soul will whisper first? And who will listen to it first?
The transition is for everyone, and this phase will be ugly.
P. S : This is no prediction. It is only a theory.
Chill!
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