Originally posted by: Nephy1
I agree he was hurt becoz she was so unlike meerub in front ruhail.
He always defined her with these adjectives but she was quiet there.
This quietness of hers hurt him beyond repair.
And mahi she didn't take stand for him jn his abscence also.
She just mentioned her marital status but than ruhail was going on badmouthing murtasim but she didn't speak up once ki he had no right to speak about murtasim the way he is becoz first he doesn't know him and secondly he is her husband at present but she was standing with her lips tight.
And if you will notice the fb he was remembering of how ruhail was claiming right on her first by saying all those things and than the way he was not letting her go,and meerub was all along quiet.
And on contrary how she rudely she took out his hand from murtasim's grip but requesting ruhail
And not even once she stopped all that touching of his while he was uttering that non-sense.
Infact she was not even aversed
She was very comfortable with Ruhail's touch.
Murtasim toh personal space mein bhi enter krta hai toh she pushes him away,bechare ke hath fracture ka bhi lihaaz nhi kiya tha,touching toh bahut door ki baat hai.
So there was clearly a big difference on her part in dealing with Ruhail as compared with murtasim.
And for these very same reason I fpund Murtadim-haya equation way different than Meerub-Ruhail.
Yeh sab maine ek ek karke kaal bola
Right wrong par ab aur na jana hein Mujhe. I saw people twisting murtasim's word according to their own wish, to bas ab ussi ko explain karne ki koshish kar rahi hun! Ki bad kirdar and kirdar banao par asmaan jameen ki difference hein!
And coming to your post!
1) that forced her into his apartment was a bluff! Direct jhoot ...gaslightng kar rahi woh
2) she was too easy with him , with all those touch, look how that leeche touched her again and again! Even after all those WB, nibba dialogue she didn't slap his hand away! Wtf! Yes she might show a lil uncomfortness but did she pushed his hand way the way she does with murtasim's touch? No.
Then logone justify kiya ki murtasim ki sath yeh uski (meerub) love language hein, yeh uska dhakka mukkha yeh sab sirf murtasim ke liye dil se feel karti! Uspar adhikar se karti hein...matlab jitne bakwas logic hein sab de diya :)
3) Yes she didn't defend murtasim! She told him her marital status, and why she can't leave him, and dhire dhire rishta gehra ho raha hein. She was all about their niqah rishta but not once gave him a slap for spitting nonsense about murtasim
4) that outside R house scene! That was hella rude!
But then again some are justifying it as her way of saying tumhe mujhe jabardasti lene ki jarurat nahi main khud gari par beith rahi hu :) matlab saar dard hota hein mera. Yeh samjhane ke liye us tarikhe se haath ka jhatka maregi???jhatke Haath jo kholkar raste par nahi girgaya iska sukr manana chahiye!
Injured husband ko dhakka marna, haya murtasim rohail meerub yeh sab leke bhi bohut bare bare essays likh liye. But its like hum to bhai duniya idhar udhar ki udhar ho galat sirf murtasim ko hi kahenge...aur meerub ko hi justify kar denge.
( koyi mujhse yeh na kehna main bhi ek tarfa murtasim ki side le rahi, haya ke gajra, kheer, soup, then garden mei touch karte dena arms ko, also gao incident ko leke maine murtasim ke saath saath uske 14 pusto ko bhi dho diye the! Purane threads par hi proof hein iski! So mera yehi bhi same manna hein, ladka galti kare to sab uth kar lag jatey hein, ladki kare to dard, galat samajh rahi, toxic ml blah blah gaslighting karna shuru kyu kar dete hein? Same treatment kyu nahi de sakti???)
Edited by mahiaana - 2 years ago
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