Originally posted by: aardhan
I feel a lot of times they don't support her fully because, at the sight of any problem, she leaves them in a lurch and becomes uncommunicative.... this season started with her 3 year absence when she didn't keep in touch too much... then came the one year with kairav, where again she didn't keep in touch and this time, she kept pushing back on meeting them for 6 years. this behavior of hers is more than just what happened 6 years back. her trauma goes deeper than that, where she is acutely conscious feels like she is living in a fishbowl, and feels she is a burden to her family. neither has she expressed that plainly to them nor have they understood what the real issue is.
on that d-day, until they were present at bh, bp and bm were holding her, they were constantly with her and worrying about her health, so they were supporting her till they left bh... they even wanted to take her., but she didn't want to go anywhere. when she left, she left when no one saw her. she sent a voice note and just vanished, and they had to trace her after that. bp followed her to bring her back and just because he spoke about the incident with her friend, she decided to not even meet bp. he was just narrating what happened, and he was not accusing her.... so now if her condition for staying with her family is that they should never tell her anything, ask her or question her, then how is that a family? elders do ask questions, they are not enemies if they do.
having said this, i agree they are not the best maika, they supported ar more when they were kids.... and this is the root cause for her trauma, but running away as she does and avoiding all discussion about problems will not solve anything. how long can one keep running? how long can she keep making excuses for not confiding in them every time she faces a crisis? itv wants to show complex personalities but are technically not equipped to do it.... they should just refrain from showing flawed characters if ultimately they are going to make such characters to be the most misunderstood.... only the likes of holier-than-thou characters like aa work on itv....
sorry for the rant... ak triggers too many questions.
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