All of this.
Divorce is still stigmatized in India and women are blamed for not keeping family together or losing a man or not fighting enough for marriage or not saving own ghar grihasti. This shit society never asks man to be loyal or hold grihasti or ghar together nor blames him if he has affairs or does domestic violence or loots dowry or spends no time with kids or family or ignores family.
They bash only women.
I see Rajesh Khanna fans still abuse Dimple and blame her for ruining his life and career and call her panauti and many trolls abusing Reena and Kiran or Bandra girls or highly educated girls (they were St Xavier's and Jamia grads) for 'not adjusting'. I have seen fans blame Vani and Sarika and call Kamal Haasan some misunderstood genius and fans bash Amrita and blame her for divorce with Saif.
I see fans give leeway to Dharmendra and Boney Kapoor and call it their family matter or justify affairs of Amitabh saying men will be men or anyone will have affair if they have a wife like Jaya.
What option does woman have, then in face of such pressure or stupid sites and YouTube channels and gossip editors calling them lonely or tragedy queens?
I hate how Karishma for eg is treated as some pity object by some sections of media and Amrita, Sarika, Dimple, Zeenat etc were treated as objects of pity by female anchors like Simi even if they never felt miserable themselves or moved on and healed.
Whereas no one makes a man feel like object of hate or shame or pity no matter what he does.
The pressure on woman to sacifice or adjust or tolerate or 'nibhao' is intense.
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