Virat's life : The worst life - Page 14

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Fats ,good to see you here . Lots to catch up with you 😊

In ITV the focus is only on FL’s pain as target audiences is women . I don’t think any ITV show has done justice to ML especially Vankar .

Nitu, you know why I stopped commenting here. This place is worse than Chavan Niwas.

I only post in this topic since there are some sane people like us.

You're right about Vankar. He's a creepy man.

Exactly!! Very true. It is indeed majorly the viewers fault of being partial towards the FLs because they the majority of the viewers are women they see only the pains and sufferings of the characters of their same sex.

And when it comes to opposite sex, the MLs even if the characters are tortured and harassed, there will be very less sympathy for him all because he is a MAN.

It is a pseudo-feminist thinking.

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At the end of the day, it is the man who rules the society and world.

Originally posted by: kavitha_r

At the end of the day, it is the man who rules the society and world.

And at the end of the day in the ITV world, it is a WOMAN who rules both inside and outside the SCREEN.

Originally posted by: Fats24

Loved your reply . It was on the point. I would love to applaud you for having so much patience with Sai's maniac fans. I don't have so much patience to point out all her flaws. But, still I don't think anything has gone in the brain. It's same as banging your head on the wall.

Even your reply is very true about Ash. He/She has so much of patience to explain each and everything.

I toh totally lack patience.

Many times I try to ignore but sometimes when they keep provoking, I get in baseless arguments and last time I did I got into trouble.

So now I decided I will not say anything no matter how they provoke us or mock us and call out on our character for supporting Virat.

Ash is really amazing for his/her ability to wisely deal with such people.

Btw, what is your name? If you are uncomfortable you need not say it.

hii guys,

a silent reader over here! The fact that people are still hoping for Sai and Virat to get together compelled me to write this. like seriously, my doods? Virat might have married Pakhi for whatsoever reasons, but even if he breaks it and comes back to Sai, it'll still be a living hell for Sai. Satya too is receiving unnecessary hate. Like bruh, he comes from a completely different world than what we've seen thus far; he appears ott is fine, but why hate?

Virat in Sai's life is like a closed chapter, her going back to him means she's gonna suffer all over again. Even if her heart still loves him, she should never return to the spineless man, a disgusting creature in the name of humanity!

Originally posted by: Clois_semperanc

when Samrat came and according to him when Pakhi was trying to move on with him and all the disturbance between him and Sai after whatever happened in Mahabaleshwar ,he wasn't able to live with the lady or specially share the bed with the woman who didn't even love him

He has no trouble sharing the bed with Pakhi though! 😉

He takes all the shitty decisions in life and Sai ends up suffering for them!

Why I am not really able to get is that whenever I get counter post wrt Sai or in favour of Virat it's like you know but then also you are asking I have posted such a long post to deal with that ma'am and she got to know the other scenario but you just pick a part to tease or hate Virat and asking this with no appendages around

But okay I will be talking and clearing about this also, when I said the above bite the whole diet was with the aspect of why did Virat take transfer during samrat's case when he was bounded to his family I just explained his end that's it, but as you pointed out these statements and related to that of pakhi let me tell you Virat always loved Sai and for me there was nothing wrong in loving her as they were husband and wives but this is what the Sai's side was, it is indeed beautiful to get showered by love but very tough to be the one who always gives and the one who always loved was Virat and Sai was just enjoying his love and all those gestures and reacting nothing forore than a year and insulted him in Mahabaleshwar only in her misunderstanding this what made him unable to live with her any longer and it is easily understandable with a neutral view and when you talk about the case of pakhi let me remind you of a 32 year old man whose wife and child died in an accident and he was having his whole life ahead waiting for him to move on but what he did he remained in depression for about an year trying to kill him everytime and stopped all that when he got kasam of his mother and fortunately got an orphan kid to be reason to live life and therefore a solution to move on but not at the same time with PL for around 7-8 when he literally didn't even touched his wife for once then how this can be a point that after all those post leap dramas when PL would have almost died and his parents are the one who joined his bed I don't think so this is a topic to be discussed.....

And when you are talking about Sai's ultimate pain you should know that Virat was not the one who decided to take the child away from a Father and break all relationships with Virat being so stubborn when you didn't allowed him to show his side or how he would have reacted further then who gave you the right to show monopoly on his daughter also and always crying by creating a negative image being so much judgemental and then later is like okay it was wrong of me that's okay

Every decision what Virat took infact none of them was like shitty but it was condition and the ones who belonged to it made it bad.

At the end of the day all his problems will end tomorrow if Pakhi drops dead (without him having to divorce her) and Sai agrees to live with him again. Basically everything falls in place without him having to lift even a finger.

This is one of the best takes that I really wanted to say pls ans this, is Virat not that guy who is in a position when if he will gonna move ,you all will not be saying that why he is taking decisions when everything is all because of him and at the same time I am getting that you are saying that he wants everything without raising a finger, amazing points to be noticed are if will gonna find some left and right ways to do something audience will be like why you are doing things behind the back, he is not even allowed to go down in the earth people will be like why are you running from this issues and the last one when he will be opting for the upper path means god aai's kasam and all his responsibilities towards his parents and children come in the game so if he is only standing still in his position and allowing the time to be the one to lead the path towards clarification of problems and somehow let it to God only then what's the problem if he knows that there is no single path that will be allowed by all of the guys surrounding him so why he will do anything????
Sai has faulted at times & Pakhi is a certified chudail but this entire thread paints Virat as some poor, misunderstood ML whose decisions to play with two women's emotions wasn't actually the root cause of everyone's misery 🤔

Pls sister don't tell this that Virat played with two women's emotions if you really gonna see his side even once gonna to feel it you will really be the one who will be saying that what an Ips officer deserved when he had everything in his life but what he got......this is up to you to understand that PL knows Virat never loved her and Sai always knew that Virat always loved her then also if you are like he played with two women's emotions just see both the woman if you will gonna ask now what they want one will be like I want Vinayak and will leave with both of my children and the other one will be like Vinayak should not leave and Virat should start loving me but if you will gonna ask this man namely ,....Virat he will be praying for Sai and even PL for their life and their desires to be fulfilled not even a single time about him and according to you he is playing with these two woman great to see this yaar I am really like praying for Virat pls isse utha leee......

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Even your reply is very true about Ash. He/She has so much of patience to explain each and everything.

I toh totally lack patience.

Many times I try to ignore but sometimes when they keep provoking, I get in baseless arguments and last time I did I got into trouble.

So now I decided I will not say anything no matter how they provoke us or mock us and call out on our character for supporting Virat.

Ash is really amazing for his/her ability to wisely deal with such people.

Btw, what is your name? If you are uncomfortable you need not say it.

Actually I am a boy and sorry I will not be able to reveal my name as I said earlier Ash is the combination of my name and surname 😊.....

Thank you so much for your kind words and @fats24 also.....

Originally posted by: Vlover

Actually I am a boy and sorry I will not be able to reveal my name as I said earlier Ash is the combination of my name and surname 😊.....

Thank you so much for your kind words and @fats24 also.....

No no the name question was implied for @Fats24 only. I know you are not comfortable with revealing your name.

And I'm perfectly okay with addressing you Ash.

But when you told Ash, I thought it was the short form of Aishwarya.😅

Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Yes, you're right. Virat has always been shown as a normal, flawed human being. I agree with a lot of points you have raised in defense of Virat. Even I feel he is unfairly bashed many times while Sai is treated with more tolerance. Never saw her as a doodh ki dhuli as she is seen by many. She's got her share of faults that have contributed to the mess that is the life of the four.. Sairat and their two kids. She's definitely a very lovable character, but not immaculate. In fact in the beginning I used to find many things she did pretty ridiculous and unnecessarily confrontational. I mentioned in another post also that inspite of her fractiousness and the family's enmity, Virat going against his rule-bound upbringing, still falling in love with her was a pretty big thing. And the last fight pre-leap, I'm in a minority in seeing that fight as brought on by Sai's stubbornness and disregard of all other relations who loved her and needed her and had even stood by her against her haters in the family. She should never have left at that point. It was a critical juncture and she took a wrong step which has caused all the subsequent problems. And her staying away after losing the baby and then not even informing him of her pregnancy or atleast after birth, is even a bigger mistake. She did wrong.

Virat post leap is just being shown in a very bad way I think to drag the story bcz of which he is getting all the hatred. But in general his family bound nature is not hard to understand for me, bcz in old, traditional joint families in our country this is what happens. They do not function according to our modern, liberal ideas.. And a man caught between such strict customs and his own strong inclinations is definitely going to act like a bina pende ka lotha, till he gets up the gumption to strike away any one and stick to the other. So far Virat was trying to kill his inclination and fulfill his family's expectations. But he wasn't successful.. We can say he is a weak and cheap fellow or we can say his love was too strong to be overcome, depending on our pov. Now he has accepted that his inclination cannot be put aside but still he has to come to the point where he stands by that and cuts off the other duty/farz/promise whatever from his life. But that will take time bcz the makers need to lengthen the show, so Virat will continue to take the beating in this chakkar of increasing episode count.

AS for Pakhi, I don't agree with anything you have said about her pain.

He is not a cheap fellow man yeah you can say him sometime weak when it's about family and that but not this.... I will be opting for the other one but yeah you should atleast take a look of Pakhi's pain by being there when everything was neutral then also somehow she got into those things that she didn't deserve and I am not the one who like her infact hate her but not the mother inside her after being bailed out,etc....

I think the reason why I think Virat is spineless is because he is unable to draw his boundaries or take a stance for even his children. He is aware sayi has endured a lot but has heade amends no. He needs to take actions to safeguard the rights of his children and ensure His Pyari Cheez doesn't distress the children further.

If what he said in the confession box is true then why is he going pleading behind Pathralekha?

Why is he unable to recall all the villainous actions of Pathralekha?

He didn't feel an ounce of responsibility for Savi and planned his HOney moon. Had he not met the random couple the story may have been different and the man wouldn't have any qualms about it.