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Is it me or anyone else felt that Brar never guide her regarding marriage and rules and regulations or anything. Today I find her too young for this relationship with Angad, she is mature but she is very young in this thing where her mom never guide her.

I guess gurleen has to guide her that Angad is her husband and certain rights she has to give in, certain duties she has to perform as DIL. Sahiba is very introvert and not that kind of domestic giro whi would understand marriage so easily, because she never wanted too. I felt garry was somewhere right though, Sahiba has to convert herself as ideal wife for this family as she can't say no to any duties.

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Is it me or anyone else felt that Brar never guide her regarding marriage and rules and regulations or anything. Today I find her too young for this relationship with Angad, she is mature but she is very young in this thing where her mom never guide her.

I guess gurleen has to guide her that Angad is her husband and certain rights she has to give in, certain duties she has to perform as DIL. Sahiba is very introvert and not that kind of domestic giro whi would understand marriage so easily, because she never wanted too. I felt garry was somewhere right though, Sahiba has to convert herself as ideal wife for this family as she can't say no to any duties.

I agree. She is new. Toh these guys should have told her about rules and regulations especially when they have so much

Originally posted by: averma4583

You are right Ayu! Sahiba sees herself as a breadwinner, not someone who has to mind all these social norms. Too bad Manvir won’t guide her. I hope that from now on if she has any doubts she can go straight to Bebe and Gurleen. It was unfortunate that she was left to fend for herself on her first day. She knows now what a two faced jerk Jassi is. She also knows Prabhjyot and her husband are both mean, along with Manvir and Inder at this point. Her only support system is Gurleen, Veer, Daarji and Bebe to some extent. Jaspal is neutral as of now. He has not sided with either Angad or Sahiba. In every house, there are different norms. It is upto to ladies of that house to make the new one integrated by getting them involved. Sahiba knows she told Jasleen, but now she also knows Jasleen is a snake. So she has figured it’s best to not bother.

I was thinking that only that she is very young currently to understand and take responsibility of this marriage. Acting and pretending is still fine but reality will be different, Sahiba has been told about how marriages feel or etc. So here I would say she will learn from now that Angad is her husband and even Angad has to learn to respect otherwise she will shut your mouth like this. I guess Sahiba will take a while to adjust in this house as Dil and aa wife.

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Is it me or anyone else felt that Brar never guide her regarding marriage and rules and regulations or anything. Today I find her too young for this relationship with Angad, she is mature but she is very young in this thing where her mom never guide her.

I guess gurleen has to guide her that Angad is her husband and certain rights she has to give in, certain duties she has to perform as DIL. Sahiba is very introvert and not that kind of domestic giro whi would understand marriage so easily, because she never wanted too. I felt garry was somewhere right though, Sahiba has to convert herself as ideal wife for this family as she can't say no to any duties.

I felt everyone are rushing here with bombarding her with responsibilities. On one side Angad & Manbir declares they don’t want to do anything with her & Angad himself addressed her as house-help. Then one moment later they address her as there bahu & have certain expectations from her as there bahu. I feel even they are not very sure what they exactly want from there bahu? Sahiba was not completely wrong in rejecting the clothes and jewellery send by the Brars. She raised a valid point Angad doesn’t consider her as his wife Manbir doesn’t accept her as the bahu then why the hell should be trophy wife in front of public? Sahiba just demands respect. She can lead a loveless marriage but not a respect less relationship. On the other side I can understand brars too they got conned by Mongas and they don’t want to trust anyone from Monga family is understood. I blame Dadaji & Mongas (except keerat) here for forcing Sahiba into a marriage. As you said she is pretty young (hardly 22 or 23) not prepared for a marriage & married life, especially not to a family like brars. Since they knew the class difference as you said somebody from Brar family should guide her. You can’t expect a young girl from a middle class family to adjust within over night. She needs time she needs guidance & love. Here she is offered nothing. As Sahiba said everyone is just busy accusing her. How will someone feel when your husband and in laws accuse you 24 * 7 that too just after your marriage. Today Dadaji said if she had an issue she should have come to him. Now I don’t understand this. How can she come even to Dadaji when he himself never gave her any assurance? Yes he did support her in front of others. But even he didn’t see her in person and gave her assurance that he is there for her & she can come to him any time if she has any issues he is there to help. Normally only girls will not feel comfortable to go to your in-laws immediately after marriage if they have any issue. Then just imagine after a situation like Sahiba Angad’s marriage. However I did feel that Sahiba should have convinced her dad and keerat to go lodge a compliant rather than she going alone that too from Brar house immediately after her marriage. Or else she could have taken veer’s help. Sahiba knew veer before & got along with well. She did have his number. I think the issue with Sahiba is she been the guardian of her family for long. She yearns to run her house & takes the role of protector of family too seriously. But again the issue for brars were a women from there family going to police station all alone (they sounded like she went to some prohibited area). They hated the courage of an independent woman. They are not used to such women. They prefer mannequins. I feel even Dadaji’s issue was the same. I would have understand if it comes out of a concern. Like it’s not safe for a women to go out in our country at odd hours. But that’s not the case. They are not concerned about Sahiba but they are concerned about there reputation. Which is not completely wrong but then there is nothing wrong in taking the help of law if needed. A young women went missing & the increase rate of crime against women it’s natural for the family to think about her safety.
In today’s entire police drama I felt the fault is that of the officer. He just barked in to a high class party with media presence and he never bothered to clear the accusations going on in front of him. And the Brars are also too much. In stead of going back to the party everyone gathered around to attack the bahu. Didn’t even bothered that guest are there any one get a clipping of there behaviour towards there bahu they are doomed. They just lack common sense.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I agree. She is new. Toh these guys should have told her about rules and regulations especially when they have so much

Plus, I am sure she will feel utterly uncomfortable to live with him as he is a stranger to her, plus her enemy and third she hates him and avoid him, so one of them has to mend their way to adjust in this relationship. Plus, I hope Santosh guides her because I feel she needs her mom currently. Santosh had to prepare her for this relationship... Otherwise it will take an ugly turn and people will misunderstood her more.

Originally posted by: Az07

I felt everyone are rushing here with bombarding her with responsibilities. On one side Angad & Manbir declares they don’t want to do anything with her & Angad himself addressed her as house-help. Then one moment later they address her as there bahu & have certain expectations from her as there bahu. I feel even they are not very sure what they exactly want from there bahu? Sahiba was not completely wrong in rejecting the clothes and jewellery send by the Brars. She raised a valid point Angad doesn’t consider her as his wife Manbir doesn’t accept her as the bahu then why the hell should be trophy wife in front of public? Sahiba just demands respect. She can lead a loveless marriage but not a respect less relationship. On the other side I can understand brars too they got conned by Mongas and they don’t want to trust anyone from Monga family is understood. I blame Dadaji & Mongas (except keerat) here for forcing Sahiba into a marriage. As you said she is pretty young (hardly 22 or 23) not prepared for a marriage & married life, especially not to a family like brars. Since they knew the class difference as you said somebody from Brar family should guide her. You can’t expect a young girl from a middle class family to adjust within over night. She needs time she needs guidance & love. Here she is offered nothing. As Sahiba said everyone is just busy accusing her. How will someone feel when your husband and in laws accuse you 24 * 7 that too just after your marriage. Today Dadaji said if she had an issue she should have come to him. Now I don’t understand this. How can she come even to Dadaji when he himself never gave her any assurance? Yes he did support her in front of others. But even he didn’t see her in person and gave her assurance that he is there for her & she can come to him any time if she has any issues he is there to help. Normally only girls will not feel comfortable to go to your in-laws immediately after marriage if they have any issue. Then just imagine after a situation like Sahiba Angad’s marriage. However I did feel that Sahiba should have convinced her dad and keerat to go lodge a compliant rather than she going alone that too from Brar house immediately after her marriage. Or else she could have taken veer’s help. Sahiba knew veer before & got along with well. She did have his number. I think the issue with Sahiba is she been the guardian of her family for long. She yearns to run her house & takes the role of protector of family too seriously. But again the issue for brars were a women from there family going to police station all alone (they sounded like she went to some prohibited area). They hated the courage of an independent woman. They are not used to such women. They prefer mannequins. I feel even Dadaji’s issue was the same. I would have understand if it comes out of a concern. Like it’s not safe for a women to go out in our country at odd hours. But that’s not the case. They are not concerned about Sahiba but they are concerned about there reputation. Which is not completely wrong but then there is nothing wrong in taking the help of law if needed. A young women went missing & the increase rate of crime against women it’s natural for the family to think about her safety.
In today’s entire police drama I felt the fault is that of the officer. He just barked in to a high class party with media presence and he never bothered to clear the accusations going on in front of him. And the Brars are also too much. In stead of going back to the party everyone gathered around to attack the bahu. Didn’t even bothered that guest are there any one get a clipping of there behaviour towards there bahu they are doomed. They just lack common sense.

Same, i dont understand why to bag her with responsibility when she is not that mature enough to handle it, she can pretend but in reality she is his wife and he id her husband, the reason Angad asked her to inform whereever she goes which was correct. My concern is that she needs a guidance about certain things if they are considering her as daughter in law. She has the very right ti oppose jewellery or etc, but i guess sahiba has to accept few things, Angad had to guide her also ... In og ml played a part to tell her that she holds certain right as badi bahu.

Officer is gadha... 🤣

Originally posted by: Ayu_12

Same, i dont understand why to bag her with responsibility when she is not that mature enough to handle it, she can pretend but in reality she is his wife and he id her husband, the reason Angad asked her to inform whereever she goes which was correct. My concern is that she needs a guidance about certain things if they are considering her as daughter in law. She has the very right ti oppose jewellery or etc, but i guess sahiba has to accept few things, Angad had to guide her also ... In og ml played a part to tell her that she holds certain right as badi bahu.

Officer is gadha... 🤣

ATM I feel it’s too early for anyone including Angad to guide her. They have assumed her as a gold digger & busy accusing her so I don’t c the guidance coming any time soon. Angad himself was not accepting her till the reception it’s during reception he announced her as his wife. So hereafter I guess she will accept and take the responsibilities. They have such a big list of expectations and responsibilities from there bahu so better someone inform her what exactly is expected from her & what they really want from there bahus. I don’t think santhu being useful in this matter. All santhu taught her beauty queen was to do make up & trap rich men so that the duo can enjoy life. Maybe Sudha masi can help her.