Doesn't Sairat & their kids deserve to be a happy family together? - Page 3

The barrier will never be removed now she'll be his ex wife? Where does she fit in? Only way SaiRat would reunite if Pakhi is removed fully from the equation this time which isn't ever gonna happen.

Kids deserve doesn't mean I'd be okay with a woman going back to a guy who married her tormentor, gave away their son to her both times, broke Sai in the worst possible way, sent her to jail, celebrated anniversary, tried snatching the daughter again, took his current to honeymoon knowingly Sai's alive & has a daughter with her, so on. I'd have been least bothered but now when there's a new guy an option is there I'd never be okay with it. Kids needed to be told what their father did to their mom. Lastly offscreen is another. When we've got Harshad who'll not show 1% inhibitions in romance on-screen why I'd be okay with settling down someone like NB who fakes sucking finger or kissing baby bump. When Harshad would do it all easily. We wanna watch real romance on the show which we never got till date probably will not ever get if SaiRat are endgame. Ab social distance romance se kyon hum compromise kare ya fake kissing on cheeks or whatever.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

@green - Even I come from one such family which is why I support Sairat's reunion because I know of a marriage where there has been a million of issues but when they make it together there's a lot they do for themselves and the children.

Im sorry you and I have very different opinion and they dont match. So lets just end it here. Peace

Originally posted by: The_aliciaa

Your last line....

The one who want sairat union see Pakhi as hindrance only whereas the one who don't want sairat union see Virat himself as the hindrance because he himself has given all the liberties to Pakhi to ruin lives of people associated with him(even kids) and I guess for ship to sail more than third angle it's important how two parts of ship behave and Virat is indeed crass unfortunately

Unfortunately, the problem is with the crass mindset of the majority of the women viewers.

They always find fault with the actions of the male characters but fail to see the faults of the female characters. It happens in every other ITV show.

This is what is called as pseudo feminism.

Anyhow I don't want to talk on it more.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

The barrier will never be removed now she'll be his ex wife? Where does she fit in? Only way SaiRat would reunite if Pakhi is removed fully from the equation this time which isn't ever gonna happen.

Kids deserve doesn't mean I'd be okay with a woman going back to a guy who married her tormentor, gave away their son to her both times, broke Sai in the worst possible way, sent her to jail, celebrated anniversary, tried snatching the daughter again, took his current to honeymoon knowingly Sai's alive & has a daughter with her, so on. I'd have been least bothered but now when there's a new guy an option is there I'd never be okay with it. Kids needed to be told what their father did to their mom. Lastly offscreen is another. When we've got Harshad who'll not show 1% inhibitions in romance on-screen why I'd be okay with settling down someone like NB who fakes sucking finger or kissing baby bump. When Harshad would do it all easily. We wanna watch real romance on the show which we never got till date probably will not ever get if SaiRat are endgame. Ab social distance romance se kyon hum compromise kare ya fake kissing on cheeks or whatever.

Well that's funny all for sake of watching real romance you want the storyline and the character sketch to go crap.

Anyhow that's your take. I understand.

I believe Sai deserves whatever the makers have planned for her.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Unfortunately, the problem is with the crass mindset of the majority of the women viewers.

They always find fault with the actions of the male characters but fail to see the faults of the female characters. It happens in every other ITV show.

This is what is called as pseudo feminism.

Anyhow I don't want to talk on it more.

Too quick of you to judge people as if you are known to our opinions about all other characters 🤣

If you can't tolerate anyone opposing your opinion,either don't open the thread or specifically mention it instead of making remarks on any gender.

Keep well.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

Well that's funny all for sake of watching real romance you want the storyline and the character sketch to go crap.

Anyhow that's your take. I understand.

What real romance? Romance is part of ITv & storyline.

What character Sketch you're talking about? The one who decorates of their bedroom with rose petals for another woman even after love realisation hugging that woman then flirting with his so-called love next moment in the car getting insecure of a guy.

Besides where are you seeing any hints of SaiRat reunion anywhere? They're setting the base of Sai & Satya, if SaiRat were about to come the first they'd do is uplift his charecter instead they're degrading him again after Satya's entry.

Virat deserves to go through every bit of the hurt & pain he inflicted on Sai. He needs to face his karma!

Lastly Neil can't offer anything except making heart eyes on-screen and those awkward hugs. He'll be ready to romance only his real wife. Why we should accept such ML? Harshad is a professional in all fronts.

Originally posted by: The_aliciaa

Also nothing is circumstantial but self taken decisions which ruined everything

Exactly the decision has been taken willingly by giving it a garb of Majboori...self inflicted majboori🥱

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I agree.

It would have been better if Sairat end up happily with their kids and Satya end up with Patralekha or Patralekha and Satya and just walk away without causing any issues to Sairat's family.

The main reason why Sairat aren't able to unite is Patralekha.

Patralekha isn't to be totally blamed upon here imo, it was Virat and Sai who allowed P to interefere in their marriage. Even when SaiRat were 'happily' married, V time and again chose P, he understood her miseries and insecurities but failed to see what Sai was going through, specially during the whole surrogacy fiasco, when he had been married to her for years, and when you have lived with a person and are related to them this closely, you kinda get to know what the person feels about a particular person or situation.

V didn't spare a moment to look at things from Sai's POV, from the very first day of their marriage. He couldn't see/ chose to ignore the way his family behaved with Sai (domestic abuse), brushed it under the carpet saying his family is traditional and strict, and every girl has to deal with such situations in her sasuraal. Heck they didn't even let her grieve for her father's demise, instead name called that person because of whom their son was alive. Had V have even an ounce of real respect for Kamal Joshi, atleast he would've stopped them then and their.

He knew exactly how loved ones and family meant to Sai, still let his family, his friend and himself call her orphan time and again. He literally snatched baby Vinu from her arms when she was herself such an emotional mess.

Pakhi might leave their lives someday, some other person or situation comes up, who knows if V has learnt from his past mistakes and wont behave like before? No guarantee at all.

Chavans, Bhavani to be specific, love Virat, for sure, no doubt, and that's the exact reason why they have FINALLY warmed upto Sai after so many years.

There are many points I haven't mentioned, as this post has already become very long.

They can be happy and at peace while co-parenting and living their own individual lives. What's the point of living together when you can't understand one another even after years of knowing each other. Constant disagreement and fights adds toxicity to children's environment.

Happy ending doesn't have to have them together under one roof. Happy ending should be them living cordially, leading their individual lives happily. I know when kids are in the equation, things get tough, specially when kids are as small as Savi and Vinu, but living in a non-conventional non-ideal family will still be better than living in a frustrated and toxic family, which affects the mental health as well.

Anyways, there is no point in discussing much as we know SaiRat will be the endgame, and they'll live together like a family.

Originally posted by: The_aliciaa

Too quick of you to judge people as if you are known to our opinions about all other characters 🤣

If you can't tolerate anyone opposing your opinion,either don't open the thread or specifically mention it instead of making remarks on any gender.

Keep well.

There wasn't even a counter reply to what I mentioned about what all Virat did to keep Pakhi in his life and instead I am being blamed for getting bogged down by pseudo feminism.

Virat simply chose Pakhi over Sai. No ifs and buts. But look, the majority of female ITV viewers are the ones at fault. Because we did not keep on our rose tinted glasses I suppose.

Like u mentioned, everything is reduced to gender very conveniently.