Now let's count aksharas mistakes - Page 9

Originally posted by: Krinya

If they take the legal route , kamaal hi ho jayega...

Bachu Birla "khul" ke saamne aayenge😆 what will he do to prove akshu isn't a worthy mother ? Prove she's characterless? Prove shes negligent ? Prove shes financially incapable ? Prove shes mentally sick ? Prove her as a serial killer ?

Max abhimanyu can get is visitation rights ,, that too, if the mother of the child agrees. He can give some money.

He burnt all the bridges , why are we blaming akshu here ? He burnt all the chances to be the father figure in abhirs life ..abhi aaj toh guilt ki starting hai..the real guilt will come soon..With abhirs truth.

Financially b kya hi prove karega kyuki they are living a good life only. Acche school mei padh hi Raha hei acche eduction ghr heu sab kuch hei luxurious milke kya hi karega jyda se jyada ? Without getting a good environment?. Upar se abhimanyu ka impulsive behaviour and all those stuffs. Kounsa court bete ko aise Peeta k pas bhejega?. Abhi clearly said he just does not want to know anything about child right.

Originally posted by: urmita

But life can't run on what ifs...Truth is Abhimanyu is bound by his mom's emotional atyachar, always was always will be...and that makes him not a great choice for father...kids deserve stable childhood and and every mother has a right to choose the correct upbringing for her kid if the biological dad is not a good option...Both are wrong, both have severe defects, both are bound by emotional atyachar from childhood by their own family and if u ask me, they both need extensive therapy, not marriage nd stuff...But phir bhi Akshu raised Abhir right even in poverty with a fake marriage and a non-biological dad...

Arohi and Abhi couldn't raise Ruhi a balanced kid even with all the love comfort and pampering...

They aren't poor bro they are shown as middle class ha yes rich nhi hei. Acchi eduction sab de hi toh rahe bacche ko.

Originally posted by: Krinya

The logic beats me..will abhir have a mental breakdown watching his father and grandmother blaming his mother for several deaths , will he be mentally healthy with divorced parents, possibly fighting for his custody ? Will he be mentally healthy watching his mother go through trauma, one after the other ...Or is he better now ?

If abhimanyu had known abt abhir , in 6 yrs , 3 baar divorce aur ho jaata . Who knows ? Bec abhimanyus core traits is chodo Pakdo chodo pakdo chodo pakdo chodo pakdo

Abhir ko samajdar dekhaya hei upar se AK has taught him to fight for what is right. So es moment mei it will effect him but still he will fight for right.

Originally posted by: Krinya

She doesn't get hurt , she keeps quiet when confronted ..she doesn't counter argue means she admits her mistake.

Pl refer to one scene where she said she did nothing wrong..twice during their confrontations she only said I also lost my babies and Neil, same as you , but you only thought about your pain.

If she admits in clear words that she was wrong that day while saving the girls , will abhimanyu not divorce her ? What exactly will change ?

@bold : if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day when she asked Neil to stop goons for good 15-20 minutes to save the girls , it would have shown 2 most important sides.

1. It had showed that she is acknowledging that she made huge mistake by expecting from Neil to stop goons for 15-20 minutes without waiting for police or any help. She has guilt for her impulsive choice. Akshara ke sorry se Neil wapas nahi aata lekin yeh toh dikhta ki woh janti hai ki usse galti hua hai.

Jaisa aj Abhimanyu ke realisation se Akshara ne jo suffer kiya woh undo nahi hoga lekin at least aj yeh to feel hua ki Abhimanyu ko itne saal ke baad bahot sahi realisation hua. Akshara ke case mai woh din aata he nahi.

2. Akshara apni galti ko acknowledge karti toh Abhimanyu divorce deta ki nahi. Muje lagta hai ki uss din jab Abhimanyu ne confront kiya tab agar Akshara ne bola hota ki usko pata hai ki sab kitna messy ho gaya hai and she feels genuinely guilty for risking both babies and Neil and for a time being woh birla house mai rehne ki apni zid chod kar bade papa ke paas rehne chali jayegi so matter thoda thanda ho jaye aisa kuch acche se express karti toh definitely yeh sab nahi hua hota . Uss din aisa nahi tha ki Abhimanyu ne direct faisla sunaya tha. He had asked Akshara questions but she kept mum in place of expressing the guilt of risking both babies in front of goons.

She is a mother. Thoda toh guilt hona chahiye ki kash apne babies ke risk par goon ke paas nahi gayi hoti toh shayad dusra baby bhi zinda ho sakta tha. Lekin strange isko kabhi babies ko goons ke risk mai dalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai abhi tak!

I have suffered miscarriage. Maine toh Akshara ke jaise kisi goons ke paas ja kar apne baby ko risk mai bhi nahi dala tha fir bhi guilt feel hota hai lekin isne toh khud apne babies ko risk mai daala tha fir bhi sirf dukh hota hai but no guilt. Akshara ko jo hua uska dukh bahot hai but guilt bilkul nahi hai! Surprising! Neil ka chodo , apne khud ke baby ko risk mai daalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai!

Dukh hone mai aur guilt hone mai bahot fark hai. Uss din baki sab ke jaise Akshara ne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha aur woh bhi dukhi thi agree lekin dukh ke allawa apne babies ko risk mai daalne ka koi guilt usse aj tak nahi hai.

Originally posted by: neenzz

Abhir has a right to know. It better come from his parents (the ones he currently believes are his parents) than some stranger.

But yaha sab bol rahe hai ki abhir ki mental health par effect hoga so abhir ko kabhi kuch nahi batana chahiye so in that case out of court settlement kar ke Abhimanyu ko he apne sab rights sacrifice karne ke liye bol dena chahiye so step father can file for legal adoption process so in the future Akshara ko kuch ho bhi gaya toh abhir hamesha sharma family mai he rahega.

Ps : Akshara is biological mother that’s why adoption formality uske liye nahi hai. Adoption formality is only for step father to get complete rights on the child.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day when she asked Neil to stop goons for good 15-20 minutes to save the girls , it would have shown 2 most important sides.

1. It had showed that she is acknowledging that she made huge mistake by expecting from Neil to stop goons for 15-20 minutes without waiting for police or any help. She has guilt for her impulsive choice. Akshara ke sorry se Neil wapas nahi aata lekin yeh toh dikhta ki woh janti hai ki usse galti hua hai.

Jaisa aj Abhimanyu ke realisation se Akshara ne jo suffer kiya woh undo nahi hoga lekin at least aj yeh to feel hua ki Abhimanyu ko itne saal ke baad bahot sahi realisation hua. Akshara ke case mai woh din aata he nahi.

2. Akshara apni galti ko acknowledge karti toh Abhimanyu divorce deta ki nahi. Muje lagta hai ki uss din jab Abhimanyu ne confront kiya tab agar Akshara ne bola hota ki usko pata hai ki sab kitna messy ho gaya hai and she feels genuinely guilty for risking both babies and Neil and for a time being woh birla house mai rehne ki apni zid chod kar bade papa ke paas rehne chali jayegi so matter thoda thanda ho jaye aisa kuch acche se express karti toh definitely yeh sab nahi hua hota . Uss din aisa nahi tha ki Abhimanyu ne direct faisla sunaya tha. He had asked Akshara questions but she kept mum in place of expressing the guilt of risking both babies in front of goons.

She is a mother. Thoda toh guilt hona chahiye ki kash apne babies ke risk par goon ke paas nahi gayi hoti toh shayad dusra baby bhi zinda ho sakta tha. Lekin strange isko kabhi babies ko goons ke risk mai dalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai abhi tak!

I have suffered miscarriage. Maine toh Akshara ke jaise kisi goons ke paas ja kar apne baby ko risk mai bhi nahi dala tha fir bhi guilt feel hota hai lekin isne toh khud apne babies ko risk mai daala tha fir bhi sirf dukh hota hai but no guilt. Akshara ko jo hua uska dukh bahot hai but guilt bilkul nahi hai! Surprising! Neil ka chodo , apne khud ke baby ko risk mai daalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai!

Dukh hone mai aur guilt hone mai bahot fark hai. Uss din baki sab ke jaise Akshara ne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha aur woh bhi dukhi thi agree lekin dukh ke allawa apne babies ko risk mai daalne ka koi guilt usse aj tak nahi hai.

I don’t think Akshara feels that she is right, major problem with Abhimanyu was his lack of acknowledgment of his own mistakes, whereas Akshara seems to be aware of her mistakes. For Akshara most of her mistakes have a situational reasoning attached to it to support; for example, her not telling Abhimanyu about their son because he himself denied her multiple times and refused to listen to her, and if she goes now and tells him it would risk her losing Abhir’s custody (She does not trust him anymore, and does not how he would react at the news so her fear is honestly understandable); or her marrying Abhinav is because it was matter of need for her son, and its not like she forced him or something, he did what he did at his own will; impulsive nature, yes I agree, she is more impulsive and less rational while making decisions

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

But yaha sab bol rahe hai ki abhir ki mental health par effect hoga so abhir ko kabhi kuch nahi batana chahiye so in that case out of court settlement kar ke Abhimanyu ko he apne sab rights sacrifice karne ke liye bol dena chahiye so step father can file for legal adoption process so in the future Akshara ko kuch ho bhi gaya toh abhir hamesha sharma family mai he rahega.

Ps : Akshara is biological mother that’s why adoption formality uske liye nahi hai. Adoption formality is only for step father to get complete rights on the child.

Step parents ko India may legally adopt kerna hota hai?

Dekho, itnay major such kabhi na kabhi surface kertay he hai. Now that they have reconnected with their extended fam in Udaipur, that day is fast approaching. Thus, it's better he finds out from Abhinav and Akshara rather than an outsider.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day when she asked Neil to stop goons for good 15-20 minutes to save the girls , it would have shown 2 most important sides.

1. It had showed that she is acknowledging that she made huge mistake by expecting from Neil to stop goons for 15-20 minutes without waiting for police or any help. She has guilt for her impulsive choice. Akshara ke sorry se Neil wapas nahi aata lekin yeh toh dikhta ki woh janti hai ki usse galti hua hai.

Jaisa aj Abhimanyu ke realisation se Akshara ne jo suffer kiya woh undo nahi hoga lekin at least aj yeh to feel hua ki Abhimanyu ko itne saal ke baad bahot sahi realisation hua. Akshara ke case mai woh din aata he nahi.

2. Akshara apni galti ko acknowledge karti toh Abhimanyu divorce deta ki nahi. Muje lagta hai ki uss din jab Abhimanyu ne confront kiya tab agar Akshara ne bola hota ki usko pata hai ki sab kitna messy ho gaya hai and she feels genuinely guilty for risking both babies and Neil and for a time being woh birla house mai rehne ki apni zid chod kar bade papa ke paas rehne chali jayegi so matter thoda thanda ho jaye aisa kuch acche se express karti toh definitely yeh sab nahi hua hota . Uss din aisa nahi tha ki Abhimanyu ne direct faisla sunaya tha. He had asked Akshara questions but she kept mum in place of expressing the guilt of risking both babies in front of goons.

She is a mother. Thoda toh guilt hona chahiye ki kash apne babies ke risk par goon ke paas nahi gayi hoti toh shayad dusra baby bhi zinda ho sakta tha. Lekin strange isko kabhi babies ko goons ke risk mai dalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai abhi tak!

I have suffered miscarriage. Maine toh Akshara ke jaise kisi goons ke paas ja kar apne baby ko risk mai bhi nahi dala tha fir bhi guilt feel hota hai lekin isne toh khud apne babies ko risk mai daala tha fir bhi sirf dukh hota hai but no guilt. Akshara ko jo hua uska dukh bahot hai but guilt bilkul nahi hai! Surprising! Neil ka chodo , apne khud ke baby ko risk mai daalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai!

Dukh hone mai aur guilt hone mai bahot fark hai. Uss din baki sab ke jaise Akshara ne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha aur woh bhi dukhi thi agree lekin dukh ke allawa apne babies ko risk mai daalne ka koi guilt usse aj tak nahi hai.

Did we watch the same episode? I remember she apologized a ton. She was apologizing and Abhi started spewing hatred.

For what it's worth, I'm sorry for your loss. Sometimes, it's not even your fault. It could have been a chemical pregnancy or you could be suffering from something like metal toxicity. I hope you are doing well now.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : if she had admitted in clear words that she was wrong that day when she asked Neil to stop goons for good 15-20 minutes to save the girls , it would have shown 2 most important sides.

1. It had showed that she is acknowledging that she made huge mistake by expecting from Neil to stop goons for 15-20 minutes without waiting for police or any help. She has guilt for her impulsive choice. Akshara ke sorry se Neil wapas nahi aata lekin yeh toh dikhta ki woh janti hai ki usse galti hua hai.

Jaisa aj Abhimanyu ke realisation se Akshara ne jo suffer kiya woh undo nahi hoga lekin at least aj yeh to feel hua ki Abhimanyu ko itne saal ke baad bahot sahi realisation hua. Akshara ke case mai woh din aata he nahi.

2. Akshara apni galti ko acknowledge karti toh Abhimanyu divorce deta ki nahi. Muje lagta hai ki uss din jab Abhimanyu ne confront kiya tab agar Akshara ne bola hota ki usko pata hai ki sab kitna messy ho gaya hai and she feels genuinely guilty for risking both babies and Neil and for a time being woh birla house mai rehne ki apni zid chod kar bade papa ke paas rehne chali jayegi so matter thoda thanda ho jaye aisa kuch acche se express karti toh definitely yeh sab nahi hua hota . Uss din aisa nahi tha ki Abhimanyu ne direct faisla sunaya tha. He had asked Akshara questions but she kept mum in place of expressing the guilt of risking both babies in front of goons.

She is a mother. Thoda toh guilt hona chahiye ki kash apne babies ke risk par goon ke paas nahi gayi hoti toh shayad dusra baby bhi zinda ho sakta tha. Lekin strange isko kabhi babies ko goons ke risk mai dalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai abhi tak!

I have suffered miscarriage. Maine toh Akshara ke jaise kisi goons ke paas ja kar apne baby ko risk mai bhi nahi dala tha fir bhi guilt feel hota hai lekin isne toh khud apne babies ko risk mai daala tha fir bhi sirf dukh hota hai but no guilt. Akshara ko jo hua uska dukh bahot hai but guilt bilkul nahi hai! Surprising! Neil ka chodo , apne khud ke baby ko risk mai daalne ka bhi guilt nahi hai!

Dukh hone mai aur guilt hone mai bahot fark hai. Uss din baki sab ke jaise Akshara ne bhi bahot kuch khoya tha aur woh bhi dukhi thi agree lekin dukh ke allawa apne babies ko risk mai daalne ka koi guilt usse aj tak nahi hai.

finally someone pointed it out ..as a tenage girl i was thinking is it normal for a mother to risk her babies no matter how good the cause is .. call it selfish but as far as i am concerned mothers are very protective of their children and they dont risk the childs life for the world. if they are expecting and happy mother especially like akshara . there are women who abort for various reasons but once they decide they never risk it.

and here akshara have done it not once but thrice and she not even remembers her lost baby forget about guilt on top of it she never even flinches when someone mentions their dead babies as abhir is still alive...

Abhimanyu was wrong in sirat dialogue, for emotional abuse by throwing things and most of all divorce which as he said is never forgivable.

but considering a reckless decision as a right one at the cost of two lives sry but it sends very wrong and impractical message to society which preg women should never attempt such a feat , ust as police said in interview even aksharas life was in danger .. so abhimanyu was right in asking why she could nt wait .

Also the respect she mentioned to abhimanyu ,risking herself and her babies lives isnt she taking abhimanyus alove as husband and father for granted how is she respecting his position as a husband and father. She was taking abhimanyus love for granted and expecting if something were to happen he will understand . thats simply isnt respect...and abhimanyu as husband and father was right in getting angry at fact that she risked all their lives.. apart from sirat and divorce thing.