Now let's count aksharas mistakes - Page 7

Originally posted by: apra

Today was a lovely episode abhimanyu realized where exactly he went wrong now he will definitely correct his mistakes.......

But now I want to count where akshara went wrong

1. Naam ki shadi with abhinav..... In real life if someone ex fame comes and tells the current husband that you came in between me and your wife the husband will say you are mad my wife loves me but here abhinav is insecure because akshara is acting and abhinav knows it...... You shouldn't have married him at least he could have been a mama Or kaka for abheer

2. Playing with a child identity... Akshu who has been a therapist should know how this whole fake family will effect abhir but here she is out of the line her impulsive decision and anger on everything will destroy abhir ka mental health

3. Gene is gene and blood is blood you can not raise a tiger in a sheeps house.... One day it will bite back, it's better you don't hold on to your fake family saga and face the reality.... Your mother raised kairav alone so could you think about abhir

4. If abhimanyu has anger issues you act on your impulse... Niel ka case... Forest ka case... Abhrohi first wedding....abhi ka accident.....That maya ka case... All in impulse and now abhinav joins the bandwagon... Please see the mirror your self

Though I loved you giving back to abhimanyu you should also know your mistakes you aren't either doodh ki dhuli... This time abhimanyu was more wrong than you were but that doesn't make you completely right.......

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

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Originally posted by: apra

Please don't go personal... It's itv we are talking about... Here I am just talking about akshara and abhir not insulting any adoptive parents or kids

It was more a general statement than specifically about ITV. Also, I am of the opinion that what we support on TV does describe our true mindset and values.

Can you back up your claim? Is there a tool for measuring parental love and concern? Adoptive parents CAN and DO love their adoptive children the same if not more.

Yes, I agree that the child should be aware of the fact from the very beginning and their name shouldn't change, but that ship has sailed for Abhir. Now there are gonna be consequences regardless whenever he finds out. The best they can do now is break the news to him so compassionately and thoughtfully that there is minimum damage. Also, Abhir is a smart kid. He definitely would understand if handled delicately by the adults.

Originally posted by: apra

Yes... Because he was selfless and saved him and her... But keeping your anger aside think wouldn't abhimanyu be a great father too

No. Any man who doesn't/can't treat his wife right can never be a good father. A good father realizes that the child's wellbeing depends on what kinda equation their parents share. He respects his wife, the mother of his kids. He recognizes that is the foundation of the entire family.

I know you didn't ask me this question, and I can apologize for butting in, but I am not sorry for answering your question.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Yeah but the main question is, would he be a great father to Abhinav’s child too? Roohi is his brother’s daughter but if Abhir was his ex wife’s son through her second husband.

Precisely. Everybody can bring up their child. Accepting someone else child and loving them like your own requires guts, empathy, and commitment not everyone has.

Originally posted by: neenzz

No. Any man who doesn't/can't treat his wife right can never be a good father. A good father realizes that the child's wellbeing depends on what kinda equation their parents share. He respects his wife, the mother of his kids. He recognizes that is the foundation of the entire family.

I know you didn't ask me this question, and I can apologize for butting in, but I am not sorry for answering your question.

It's a free discussion anybody can give their pov

Agreed abhi treated her like s****in her worst but he respected her and her dreams enough he also loved her a lot... One incident can not judge the character or negate all his goods he was an child in abusive parents relationship definitely he would have changed

If it was akshu ka worst it was his worst phase too

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I must have seen the wrong show I didn’t think she treated him equally as that ass. She loved him sure, but equal never.

I concur. If anything, I'd say AssManyu cared more about Neil than she. She did care for and love him but never enough to save him from all that crappy treatment by his own biological father by exposing his adultery.

Originally posted by: apra

It's a free discussion anybody can give their pov

Agreed abhi treated her like s****in her worst but he respected her and her dreams enough he also loved her a lot... One incident can not judge the character or negate all his goods he was an child in abusive parents relationship definitely he would have changed

If it was akshu ka worst it was his worst phase too

Let's just agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: apra

It's a free discussion anybody can give their pov

Agreed abhi treated her like s****in her worst but he respected her and her dreams enough he also loved her a lot... One incident can not judge the character or negate all his goods he was an child in abusive parents relationship definitely he would have changed

If it was akshu ka worst it was his worst phase too

Now that they butchered abhi and making him repenting (rightfully so) people forgot how annoying Akshara was😂😂

Dude didn't have a single moment of peace in the starting days when he married her. She never listened to him and always interfered in others lives even after abhi warning her his family is not like hers and not to indulge. She always pushes his buttons.

Truth is Aksharas over mahaanta made everyone look bad around her.

While we are arguing how Abhi's character isn't likeable in real life and emphasizing sooo much on reality here, how is Akshara realistic in any way?

These 2 should really be together and leave other good ones alone.

Originally posted by: neenzz

It was more a general statement than specifically about ITV. Also, I am of the opinion that what we support on TV does describe our true mindset and values.

Can you back up your claim? Is there a tool for measuring parental love and concern? Adoptive parents CAN and DO love their adoptive children the same if not more.

Yes, I agree that the child should be aware of the fact from the very beginning and their name shouldn't change, but that ship has sailed for Abhir. Now there are gonna be consequences regardless whenever he finds out. The best they can do now is break the news to him so compassionately and thoughtfully that there is minimum damage. Also, Abhir is a smart kid. He definitely would understand if handled delicately by the adults.

I apologize if the statement seemed general I was just thinking about abhir at that time.... Not a real life adopted scenario I have seen enough cases in real life who give unconditional love to the adopted kids