Now let's count aksharas mistakes - Page 3

Originally posted by: apra

Yes... Because he was selfless and saved him and her... But keeping your anger aside think wouldn't abhimanyu be a great father too

Yeah but the main question is, would he be a great father to Abhinav’s child too? Roohi is his brother’s daughter but if Abhir was his ex wife’s son through her second husband.

Originally posted by: apra

Today was a lovely episode abhimanyu realized where exactly he went wrong now he will definitely correct his mistakes.......

But now I want to count where akshara went wrong

1. Naam ki shadi with abhinav..... In real life if someone ex fame comes and tells the current husband that you came in between me and your wife the husband will say you are mad my wife loves me but here abhinav is insecure because akshara is acting and abhinav knows it...... You shouldn't have married him at least he could have been a mama Or kaka for abheer

2. Playing with a child identity... Akshu who has been a therapist should know how this whole fake family will effect abhir but here she is out of the line her impulsive decision and anger on everything will destroy abhir ka mental health

3. Gene is gene and blood is blood you can not raise a tiger in a sheeps house.... One day it will bite back, it's better you don't hold on to your fake family saga and face the reality.... Your mother raised kairav alone so could you think about abhir

4. If abhimanyu has anger issues you act on your impulse... Niel ka case... Forest ka case... Abhrohi first wedding....abhi ka accident.....That maya ka case... All in impulse and now abhinav joins the bandwagon... Please see the mirror your self

Though I loved you giving back to abhimanyu you should also know your mistakes you aren't either doodh ki dhuli... This time abhimanyu was more wrong than you were but that doesn't make you completely right.......

2. I don't think Akshara is playing with Abhir's identity. Abhinav is by all means except blood Abhir's father. He may not ne the biological father of Abhir but he I'd definitely the legal father. Besides by being Akshara's husband, Abhinav is the step father of Abhir. Many times when a kid is adopted into a family, then wouldn't know they're adopted until they reach a certain age. The family isn't fake. The family is as real as it can be.

3. I don't agree with you. If you're giving your child a good upbringing, they will turn up a decent human being. About Naira raising Kairav on her own, he practically ran away to meet Kartik before he even knew that Kartik was his father. Kartik at that time was a stranger to him. Kairav craved for his father so much that he dialed an unknown number and started chatting with him. He could have been kidnapped etc. Akshu probably knew about her brother's childhood, perhaps that's why she decided that her son will grow up with a father's love. If Naira didn't do anything wrong by raising Kairav as single mother, then Akshu is also not wrong in taking Abhinav's help in raising Abhir.

4. Yes she is impulsive. But Abhrohi first wedding wasn't Akshu's fault. That was solely Aarohi's fault. She was the one who was desperate to marry the man who she knew very well loves her sister. She manipulated and lied and later got caught. Akshu is also not responsible for Abhimanyu's accident. She has nothing to do with the accident.

Originally posted by: bips

I think pretty much all the points are invalid except informing abhi of his child. Any father no matter how he is, has the right to know he has a child... And even then she did make attempts several times to tell him... So even though he deserves to know, i can understand why she doesn't want to rock her boat anymore.

Besides that, the so called fake marriage is an agreement between two consenting adults who are each finding happiness in it. Abhir is well adjusted and well loved. And the idea of blood being blood is just anarchic...

... Abhimanyu ki galti sirf akshara ne ginwayi... I'm sure akshara ki galti sab baari baari usko ginwayenge.. Bas thoda sabr karein

I must strongly argue if the marriage ends on crime of domestic violence then a woman has all the rights over her children, even courts say fathers lose custody. And if anyone argues that what ASSmanyu did wasn’t abuse then we must redefine abuse.
since he has no rights over abhir why should he know.

I want to know too what prince William told prince harry on that call, but apparently I have no rights

Originally posted by: apra

Today was a lovely episode abhimanyu realized where exactly he went wrong now he will definitely correct his mistakes.......

But now I want to count where akshara went wrong

1. Naam ki shadi with abhinav..... In real life if someone ex fame comes and tells the current husband that you came in between me and your wife the husband will say you are mad my wife loves me but here abhinav is insecure because akshara is acting and abhinav knows it...... You shouldn't have married him at least he could have been a mama Or kaka for abheer

2. Playing with a child identity... Akshu who has been a therapist should know how this whole fake family will effect abhir but here she is out of the line her impulsive decision and anger on everything will destroy abhir ka mental health

3. Gene is gene and blood is blood you can not raise a tiger in a sheeps house.... One day it will bite back, it's better you don't hold on to your fake family saga and face the reality.... Your mother raised kairav alone so could you think about abhir

4. If abhimanyu has anger issues you act on your impulse... Niel ka case... Forest ka case... Abhrohi first wedding....abhi ka accident.....That maya ka case... All in impulse and now abhinav joins the bandwagon... Please see the mirror your self

Though I loved you giving back to abhimanyu you should also know your mistakes you aren't either doodh ki dhuli... This time abhimanyu was more wrong than you were but that doesn't make you completely right.......

I find it extremely partial towards akshara.. She is emotional fool and not a person who thinks from brain but from heart.. She has always helped everyone but when it is time for others to help her she is always blamed and shown exit unnecessarily.. Though abhimanyu tried to divorce her first time she went back to treat manjiri to save her from coma despite all disrespect she faced.. Because of her only abhimanyu is able to eat with his right hand..

When she saved bade pappa and kairav from jail by sacrificing her life then also people called her stupid and fool..

I find her wrong only in two things till now

1) taking abhimanyu in arms post accident

2) by trusting abhimanyu and giving him second chance post that hand surgery drama..

Originally posted by: Swathiyaa

I find it extremely partial towards akshara.. She is emotional fool and not a person who thinks from brain but from heart.. She has always helped everyone but when it is time for others to help her she is always blamed and shown exit unnecessarily.. Though abhimanyu tried to divorce her first time she went back to treat manjiri to save her from coma despite all disrespect she faced.. Because of her only abhimanyu is able to eat with his right hand..

When she saved bade pappa and kairav from jail by sacrificing her life then also people called her stupid and fool..

I find her wrong only in two things till now

1) taking abhimanyu in arms post accident

2) by trusting abhimanyu and giving him second chance post that hand surgery drama..

shouldn’t have fixed his hands, let him eat with his left, the same hand that wipes his ass after all he is ASSmanyu.

Originally posted by: apra

Mata that is why she hid niel ki reality and get him insulted

He wasn't insulted. His own father never treated him like a son, the biological father mind it. His adoptive mother put him equal to her son.

Originally posted by: apra

Today was a lovely episode abhimanyu realized where exactly he went wrong now he will definitely correct his mistakes.......

But now I want to count where akshara went wrong

1. Naam ki shadi with abhinav..... In real life if someone ex fame comes and tells the current husband that you came in between me and your wife the husband will say you are mad my wife loves me but here abhinav is insecure because akshara is acting and abhinav knows it...... You shouldn't have married him at least he could have been a mama Or kaka for abheer

2. Playing with a child identity... Akshu who has been a therapist should know how this whole fake family will effect abhir but here she is out of the line her impulsive decision and anger on everything will destroy abhir ka mental health

3. Gene is gene and blood is blood you can not raise a tiger in a sheeps house.... One day it will bite back, it's better you don't hold on to your fake family saga and face the reality.... Your mother raised kairav alone so could you think about abhir

4. If abhimanyu has anger issues you act on your impulse... Niel ka case... Forest ka case... Abhrohi first wedding....abhi ka accident.....That maya ka case... All in impulse and now abhinav joins the bandwagon... Please see the mirror your self

Though I loved you giving back to abhimanyu you should also know your mistakes you aren't either doodh ki dhuli... This time abhimanyu was more wrong than you were but that doesn't make you completely right.......

so true…totally agree

Both went wrong…3 months mein ek ney realize kiya hai…I guess 3 months aur wait karna padega doosrey ki realization ke liye 😅

Originally posted by: Krinya

He wasn't insulted. His own father never treated him like a son, the biological father mind it. His adoptive mother put him equal to her son.

I must have seen the wrong show I didn’t think she treated him equally as that ass. She loved him sure, but equal never.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I must strongly argue if the marriage ends on crime of domestic violence then a woman has all the rights over her children, even courts say fathers lose custody. And if anyone argues that what ASSmanyu did wasn’t abuse then we must redefine abuse.
since he has no rights over abhir why should he know.

Emotional abuse toh hum logon ko dikhta hi nahin... In a country Where we justify physical abuse by saying things like 'ek baar hi toh maara' 'thoda adjust karna padhega' etc, what hope there is of recognizing emotional or mental abuse

Right now also, the narrative is of abhimanyus 'galti' and not the emotional battering akshara suffered and is still suffering from abhimanyu and manjari. Manjari has been vile. Absolutely vile. But the narrative is maa ka dukh, maa ki mamta.

Originally posted by: apra

Today was a lovely episode abhimanyu realized where exactly he went wrong now he will definitely correct his mistakes.......

But now I want to count where akshara went wrong

1. Naam ki shadi with abhinav..... In real life if someone ex fame comes and tells the current husband that you came in between me and your wife the husband will say you are mad my wife loves me but here abhinav is insecure because akshara is acting and abhinav knows it...... You shouldn't have married him at least he could have been a mama Or kaka for abheer

2. Playing with a child identity... Akshu who has been a therapist should know how this whole fake family will effect abhir but here she is out of the line her impulsive decision and anger on everything will destroy abhir ka mental health

3. Gene is gene and blood is blood you can not raise a tiger in a sheeps house.... One day it will bite back, it's better you don't hold on to your fake family saga and face the reality.... Your mother raised kairav alone so could you think about abhir

4. If abhimanyu has anger issues you act on your impulse... Niel ka case... Forest ka case... Abhrohi first wedding....abhi ka accident.....That maya ka case... All in impulse and now abhinav joins the bandwagon... Please see the mirror your self

Though I loved you giving back to abhimanyu you should also know your mistakes you aren't either doodh ki dhuli... This time abhimanyu was more wrong than you were but that doesn't make you completely right.......

1. Yes, Akshara does not love Abhinav but at least Abhinav respected her enough to let Abhimanyu know that it'll will be Akshara's decision if she wants to go back to Abhinav.

2. Akshara saved her child from being raised in a toxic family where people throw family members out of the house. His mental health is fine, he's a happy child. And if she never had any intention of revealing the truth of Abhir's toxic biological father, his mental health would not be affected ever.

3. People put their biological parents in old age homes, biological siblings fight over money, property, businesses. There is no guarantee a blood relationship will be successful everytime. If that was the case, people would never adopt children or adoptive families would never stay happy.

4. She wanted to save children. That's her nature. Did she know Neel or her babies would end up passing away? Did she know her own Abhimanyu would blame her for their deaths?