TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #20 "CAN I??" (updt on pg-125, 6th post) - Page 56

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

There was her dialogue when murtasim said do u have any idea what could have happened to u.

Her answer - Then catch the people who kidnapped me, punish them.

She was against murtasim only when he said izzat ke badle izzat and brought a girl home.

Her telling him to forgive is to end the enemity between two groups.

The enemity which caused many people to suffer.

Forgiving is different from accepting.

Her real father abandoned her at her birth.

And he took 20 years to came out of his depression?

Her real father cared more about his izzat than her and forced her to marry murtasim, expected her to forget her dream. She should accept such father who snatched her dreams?

Her adopted parents didn't send her back to her real father. They forced her to live with her real father by mercilessly abandoning her. They didn't got the heart to open the door when she begged them to have last glimpse of them. She should accept such people?

Again forgiving is different from accepting.

We can forgive outsiders not insiders who caused pain to us intentionally.

I would also like to add she is keen on forgiveness because Murtasim got shot at, the accident kidnapping everything that happened after stems from this enmity, she wants her family safe. She is naively believing if Murtasim forgives, fight ends and they would all be safe.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Well said.

They took some 5-6 episodes to establish Meerab's story but I think it's the most overlooked aspect of this show.

She asked him to forgive those people who took her hostage when they were staying at the village. Only after Murtasim gets a woman involved, an innocent woman who did not deserve to be dragged into these matters of honour that she felt that forgiveness would be better.

Anwer, in all honesty, deserves to suffer. Because abandoning your only child at her birth because your wife died while delivering her was wrong, but his grief got the worst of him there. But what made him wait for some 25 years to accept her into his life again? He saw her grow up in front of him, didn't his heart yearn for the last memory of his so 'beloved' wife.

Waqas and Anila deserve some ignorance for leaving her at the mercy of the father who abandoned her while forcing her to get married to the guy she didn't like at all. Shutting doors on her while she kept lamenting outside reflected pretty badly on them as parents too. So they deserve Meerab's apathy for a while.

Both her adopted and real father pushed her to a corner where she has no choice but to marry murtasim by sacrificing her career.

And she should accept such people?

Originally posted by: Neha_S

She is loved yes by her husband and in laws. But she is caged. And honestly that would irk anyone. Esp someone like Meerab who wanted so much more than just a husband. In one of the first episodes she says I don’t have time to think of a husband I want yo be a lawyer.

Here she has a husband who loves her, is romantic and understanding. But he is also controlling and restricting her freedom. He enables her within the confines of what he thinks is right. Is having a romantic husband worth sacrificing your dreams and ambitions and freedom? Would love to hear your opinion

this is where Murtasim's flaw lies.

Yes he loves her, is a romantic, caring, protective husband. Let's say at this point, what should Meerab do? Thank her stars for having a husband who's loving and protective of her (which she can, no wrong, she's lucky), break the contract and start a family with him. What after? Nothing.

You are right, Murtasim only enables her will within the confines of their personal space and within the boundaries he has set. Her ideology does not play a role here.

He tells her in today's episode that everytime she has to go out, he'll go with her. Because yahaan aise hi hota hai. This already sounds so restrictive, so many women face this is in real life.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

I would also like to add she is keen on forgiveness because Murtasim got shot at, the accident kidnapping everything that happened after stems from this enmity, she wants her family safe. She is naively believing if Murtasim forgives, fight ends and they would all be safe.

It is so different from what she faced from her parents/real father.

They didn't even gave her enough time to heal and wanted her to accept her new identity silently.

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

wait is this official is this confirmed is this for real

No way will this happen. Both of them look for variety and this one is enough massy for both of them for atleast another year 😆

Originally posted by: Dilsha

https://www.instagram.com/p/Cpz3sb4o8Nc/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Murtus shawl is making business 😆who wud have thought

Even haya bhaji got an endorsement for handbags. Nice 😆

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Well said.

They took some 5-6 episodes to establish Meerab's story but I think it's the most overlooked aspect of this show.

She asked him to forgive those people who took her hostage when they were staying at the village. Only after Murtasim gets a woman involved, an innocent woman who did not deserve to be dragged into these matters of honour that she felt that forgiveness would be better.

Anwer, in all honesty, deserves to suffer. Because abandoning your only child at her birth because your wife died while delivering her was wrong, but his grief got the worst of him there. But what made him wait for some 25 years to accept her into his life again? He saw her grow up in front of him, didn't his heart yearn for the last memory of his so 'beloved' wife.

Waqas and Anila deserve some ignorance for leaving her at the mercy of the father who abandoned her while forcing her to get married to the guy she didn't like at all. Shutting doors on her while she kept lamenting outside reflected pretty badly on them as parents too. So they deserve Meerab's apathy for a while.

I know lot of people complained that the banging on the door scene went on for too long, even I thought so. But it will have a significant impact visually later on in the plot when she reminisces about how doors have shut in her face when she needed support. When she is left alone to fend for herself, never again will I stand outside banging on doors begging and pleading never again. Bye Bye Murtasim.

Originally posted by: Miss-Behave

Even haya bhaji got an endorsement for handbags. Nice 😆

In talk talk BTS, and on air. Yumna had to convince him and even after that he was like yumna what have you done to me!! 😂😂

Wahaj was like I am only doing it for you! I don’t have much trust in this show.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

No way will this happen. Both of them look for variety and this one is enough massy for both of them for atleast another year 😆

thank god i was going to have heart attack