Not sure. About this new shuruat - Page 39

Originally posted by: Coolmeg

nutty .. missed your screen cap of the thali bang bang🤣🤣🤣🤣

Didi was hilarious today the way he showed that Chamcha from far far away pointing to Sai 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It was hilarious...pointing the ladle towards Sai...She totally looked like a clown

People are saying that they should've brought harshad for pakhi etc,. Why do you guys want to torture the poor satya? 😂

I just hope he never ever ends up with pakhi. Even after his track is over with sai or something.

She can't do banters, ears might start bleeding, when she shouts.

Harshad is a class and pakhi will look like his aunty.

She doesn't deserve such a handsome guy.

Originally posted by: Mayagujral

People are saying that they should've brought harshad for pakhi etc,. Why do you guys want to torture the poor satya? 😂

I just hope he never ever ends up with pakhi. Even after his track is over with sai or something.

She can't do banters, ears might start bleeding, when she shouts.

Harshad is a class and pakhi will look like his aunty.

She doesn't deserve such a handsome guy.

Ignorance is a bliss 😳

so what could be the underlying reasons for Sai's behavior?

To me it seems like things are going to rectify for Sai without her having to do anything or fight for anything anymore...as she has no need to fight for V but now V will have to "fight" for her so to speak, as in deal with the reality and make decisions to correct his mistakes because of the fear of losing her....

I honestly don't even think Sai will develop feelings for the new person but situations will be shown that will make them look close and comfortable to the outside eye - being V and possibly other CN ppl

bottom line things will happen in Sais life without her doing anything...she wont move towards V, she wont move towards satya either....but both men will be around her and both will want her, both will try to create situations to be with her or near her or fate will create situations where they will be around her

but her main focus hasn't changed and won't ever change, its always about her kids

Moor, you are right!

Vanku has hit a jackpot with Harshad.

This guy has a great screen presence, acting wise I would say he's okay - beintehaa and dahleez were good! ( I rewatched Beintehaa episodes today. Uffff!)

And asmi is right too - Harshad is above ghum standards 😄

Agar aaya hai show mein toh there must be some substance.

If not then we must say dipping markets is a reality everywhere 😰

Khair

Cmn back to ghum and sairat.

Sairat is a lost case for me, no matter how well Vanku tries to revive them. Even if ghum ends with Sairat I'm neutral there.

As said before, I don't want Sairat purely the way V has been shaped.

There's absolutely no proper redemption or regret in his journey. I personally don't like his character arc (an arc that is non-existent)

And I also don't want Satya to be someone who evokes jealousy. I mean it is purely teenage young adult stuff.

After one becomes a parent, it is wiser and better to take decisions and change as per the kid's needs.

Sai has done that exceptionally well w/o losing her focus or forgetting the past. It is clear from her side that there's no going back ( if there is, it is an uphill task).

But V is a lost case in totality.

If Vanku was hellbent on showing 2 contrasting personalities - One independent and other family oriented, he has won with Sai as she is not only independent but she also cares for her immediate family - her kids. No two ways there. She chose to keep the hurt aside and come back for her kid. She has balanced her life and priorities pretty well - and BK has caught this.

V on the other end is still a machine controlled by P. I was annoyed when she showed up in the kids bedroom 😂. Yeh yeda nikal liya 🤣.

Sai called him out pretty well - what did you do?

Though he knew Vinu was his Vinu, their Vinu he was pretty unaware of how P is handling the kid.

Smthn that i want to put out -

A person in different phases looks out for different traits in their life partner.

It is often looks, career, money, passion, drive, ambition when one is in their 20s.

Mid 20s and 30s is often about settling down, stability, kids, looking after parents, etc.

And I have a theory with respect to choosing a life partner

If someone is family-oriented - the question that one ponders about / should think about :

Will the person be a good parent to my future child?

Or do I want this person to be the father of my child?

Now what is the deciding factor here?

It is - VALUES

What values/belief systems the person carries with him/her. What are the family's value system?

Now what are values / what should be considered here -

What does the person value the most? - time, money, family, career

How does the person value the above entities? - with truth, care, honesty, love, or support.

Though V and Sai never got a chance to think about these before - the factor wad underlined.

Both were highly influenced by KJ.

It was shown that V and Sai both have shared values

(that belong to KJ). So here the family value system at least when it comes to Sairat and progeny is sorted. (I'll ignore the CN headache here) .

And their remarriage acknowledged this.

But V was forever blind when it came to P. He saw but he deliberately ignored ( if that's the case he definitely needs to redeem by being single).

P was an illusion that made everyone believe that she aligned with the value system of CN. But in reality it was Sai all along. That's what BK and others are realizing. And since they are realizing this, V is in action mode. If this wasn't the case, forget V retorting to P.

The biggest issue is - V sacrificed his value system in P's chakkar ( here I'm only talking about traits/ values that the makers claimed he shared with KJ - honesty, truth, risktaking, action oriented). We have lost GC wala V long long ago.

And this sacrifice was loud and clear when he chose P over Sai years ago.

Now the question arises - what if V develops those values again?

The point is -

Value systems khairat mein nahi bant te.

It is a coordinated process of inheritance, behaviour, action and habit.

Vo kehte hain na the more you practice smthn you get better at it.

With P, V has only practised ignorance and he has matured day by day in it.

And every maturity has a deadline - either saturation or death.

V ka sab saturate hona shuru hua hain. But is the ice breaking?

It will take time ( normally, tv show ka nahi keh sakte - yeh kal bhi dikha sakte hain - V threw P out 😆)

It is essential that the kids get the right value system - smthn that might also be a major reason why Sai wants to leave CN with her kids. She knows the kachra that CN has housed.

While they have spotted P, their self-cleansing is a long journey.

Iss sab ke baad main mudde ki baat sankshipt mein 😂 kuch iss prakaar -

I don't want Sairat to end up together even for the kids.

Let V work on his own value system alone.

If V chooses to throw P out of his life - let it be bcoz of the negative influence she has on his kids, not bcoz his hormones shot up looking at Sai.

If V wants to patch up with Sai again - let it be bcoz of his realization that P is not good for him and his duty towards her is over coz either ways it doesn't make sense, not because some random doctor/colleague comes in with Sai and V baby gets jealous.

With kids being in the picture, I truly expect some maturity from the makers.

Jealousy vagaira purana hain 😆 (I guess every person approaching their thirties say this 😅)

While it gets great views and drama is enjoyed by all but mature storyline also works.

I'm in absolute awe of the character arc of Dr. Sai Joshi - mature, deep and wise. In front of her evolution, V is nowhere.

And somewhere even story wise or character wise I want a justified end for Sai - let her end up with Dr. Satya if he is as evolved as hers.

Losing Sai is V's redemption.

I end it here!

With Sai playing Kaku ka role as vanku wanted

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Yup for time being later but how long can the new triangle go . Another 6months and then two couples will be there . Who are those will be decided by Vankar .

6 months? Omg yess, make harshad stay for at least 6 months.

But I'm guessing he'll stay for a month or two.

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

With Sai playing Kaku ka role as vanku wanted

And still wearing noodle straps or probably shorts then.

Originally posted by: Mikis

so what could be the underlying reasons for Sai's behavior?

To me it seems like things are going to rectify for Sai without her having to do anything or fight for anything anymore...as she has no need to fight for V but now V will have to "fight" for her so to speak, as in deal with the reality and make decisions to correct his mistakes because of the fear of losing her....

I honestly don't even think Sai will develop feelings for the new person but situations will be shown that will make them look close and comfortable to the outside eye - being V and possibly other CN ppl

bottom line things will happen in Sais life without her doing anything...she wont move towards V, she wont move towards satya either....but both men will be around her and both will want her, both will try to create situations to be with her or near her or fate will create situations where they will be around her

but her main focus hasn't changed and won't ever change, its always about her kids

I dont know. And that is the reason Ghum is interesting. I also cant keep saying she is doing all this for her kids. She has been very stern before. Cooking breakfast and letting family members address her by their relationship is not sticking well to me. :D Rest is still understandable but not these two things.

I am just saying, we should wait and watch instead of forcefitting Sai into someone she is not. Or lamenting that she compromised her self respect. :D

Originally posted by: Mayagujral

6 months? Omg yess, make harshad stay for at least 6 months.

But I'm guessing he'll stay for a month or two.