Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 14 Mar 2023 - Page 7

but again another point here is that she is not ready to become a mother now, just think if someone asks my mother to adopt a kid at this age and love her the same way she loved me, will she able to do that again in the same way. But taking a kid into tamasha family was wrong, ignoring her completely was wrong, just for a small khichdi thing missing out on CA's function was also wrong and for whom she was doing all this, for one who abused her entire her life, yes, this was wrong. But we cannot expect the same love for CA from anupama, not because she is an adoptid child, but because anupama is out of that motherhood phase.

If you cannot even love the child in same manner, still at least take basic care and don't let him/her feel left alone. But anupama failed here that's why CA got connected to Maya so easily because maya was able to give CA whatever she could not get from her foster mom.

Originally posted by: strancho

She never loved CA. CA was just a way to please Anuj and nothing else. Anuj asked her something for the first time and she couldn't say no in the fear of upsetting him. Their love was so weak that neither of them could express themselves. My question would be: is it love in the first place?

Anupama has never been a good mother to even her kids, how can anyone expect her to be one for CA? The same goes for Anuj. He tossed away Mukku for his 26 years of unrequited love. Instead of correcting her, he catalyzed her ego of being right and sang her praises that how she manages everything.

A few months ago when I said in one of the threads that their marriage and relationship should not have happened and did not have proper development, many people except some of you said they are meant to be together. Any relationship where the people involved cannot express themselves is bound to doom sooner or later.

Originally posted by: Koms9

she is wearing a dirty yellow patola saree with baa types red blouse. 😉

Originally posted by: strancho

She never loved CA. CA was just a way to please Anuj and nothing else. Anuj asked her something for the first time and she couldn't say no in the fear of upsetting him. Their love was so weak that neither of them could express themselves. My question would be: is it love in the first place?

Anupama has never been a good mother to even her kids, how can anyone expect her to be one for CA? The same goes for Anuj. He tossed away Mukku for his 26 years of unrequited love. Instead of correcting her, he catalyzed her ego of being right and sang her praises that how she manages everything.

A few months ago when I said in one of the threads that their marriage and relationship should not have happened and did not have proper development, many people except some of you said they are meant to be together. Any relationship where the people involved cannot express themselves is bound to doom sooner or later.

They both may have connected in light of the circumstances (Anupamaa coming out a bad marriage and Anuj coming back to India for a new life and meeting the person he always adored) but they also seem to have very different expectations from a marriage and cohabiting, however much they are in love.

At the risk of repetition, I'll say that rules are made considering scenarios, taking expert opinions and for benefit of the concerned people (fully aware that ITV shows don't give a damn). And the reason for a couple completing 2 years of stable marriage before adopting is quite clear. They need time to adjust to and understand each other as husband and wife before they parent a child.

Maybe Anuj thought that he could finally have a loving, perfect family he wanted and Anupamaa would excel as a mother. But it was simply too soon for her to commit. Did he fully understand that she will take a lot of time to move on from Tamashahs and the harmful impact of her dependance as well as the mere presence of those creatures, would have in the child's life.

Now issues regarding lack of communication are being raised but if they had simply given the time to work on it before, the mess could have been avoided

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

I am not sure if I am one of them.😂. For me they are meant to be as misery. Other wise you need communication to survive. If you don’t have this, love alone will not get you there.

accha sister se yaad aaya that once Anuj said ki he is just a caretaker of that kapadiya empire, so when a caretaker got so much authority to handover everything to his wife?

Originally posted by: strancho

Komal is always ready with evidence

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Waqt aur haalaat ne Komal ko sab kuch sikha Diya🤣

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

accha sister se yaad aaya that once Anuj said ki he is just a caretaker of that kapadiya empire, so when a caretaker got so much authority to handover everything to his wife?

Dear Maya

Itna bhi sach nahi BOLNA tha

Thank you

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

They both may have connected in light of the circumstances (Anupamaa coming out a bad marriage and Anuj coming back to India for a new life and meeting the person he always adored) but they also seem to have very different expectations from a marriage and cohabiting, however much they are in love.

At the risk of repetition, I'll say that rules are made considering scenarios, taking expert opinions and for benefit of the concerned people (fully aware that ITV shows don't give a damn). And the reason for a couple completing 2 years of stable marriage before adopting is quite clear. They need time to adjust to and understand each other as husband and wife before they parent a child.

Maybe Anuj thought that he could finally have a loving, perfect family he wanted and Anupamaa would excel as a mother. But it was simply too soon for her to commit. Did he fully understand that she will take a lot of time to move on from Tamashahs and the harmful impact of her dependance as well as the mere presence of those creatures, would have in the child's life.

Now issues regarding lack of communication are being raised but if they had simply given the time to work on it before, the mess could have been avoided

One of the main issues is I don't feel Anupama is willing to move on from Tamashahs. Leave aside moving on, she does not even acknowledge that she has been abused.