Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 14 Mar 2023 - Page 5

Originally posted by: Snowstorm22

exactly! I skipped through the part where she asked Baa’s permission to hug Pari.😡 I hate Anupama even more for allowing this to happen her. This toxic behavior isn’t what she needs or remember. I hope if needed. Maya remembers that moment and uses it in court.😡

Also NY party fiasco after which CA was sent to farmhouse alone.

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Honestly I felt bad for Maa today. She might be the only one dealing with Maaya with the basic respect and acknowledgement that she deserves all this while. And Maaya/Chhavi was awesome today, especially when she said she did not want to show AnupaMAA the mirror, but she had to because the rest of her pathetic family including Anuj kept blaming her, manipulating her etc.

From AnupaMAA’s angle, she’s been trying her best to keep running this impossible marathon ever since she got married. It was very wrong of Anuj to put forth his adoption desire in 2 days of their marriage. And now that she of course failed balancing all matkaa’s together, the only other thing she could do was to have a mature conversation with Anuj 2-3 months back that she is not being able to manage everything. But even then the outcome would still be this. Maaya or no Maaya, AnupaMAA is not ready to have a full fledged family in KM. This khayali pulaav of Anuj was never going to work. Well too bad it’s happening in this ugly way now with entire blame being put on Maa, whereas Anuj is 50% responsible of creating this impossible situation for her in the first place. 🤔

Shah Family is like crabs. They successfully brought Anu down with all their nithallapan in last 1 yr of their lives. The least they could do today was to keep their mouth shut and let AnupaMAA handle it in a way that could be a little favorable to them and something that she was doing i.e. begging unconditionally. Begging unconditionally is the only way. Stroking ego helps in real life in such situations. But no. They had to ruin this last chance too with constantly taunting and singling Maaya out. But guess what, to their surprise Maaya is not AnupaMAA. Turns out she has a voice and opinion. 🤗👍🏼👏 Now AnupaMAA would face the heat due to Shahs.

It’s known that Anuj is going to resent MAA big time if CA goes away. The bigger question is, is AnupaMAA going to resent the Shahs now as much as well ? Because she just lost the baby she claims to love as much because of the Shahs now. If she continues to visit SH without any remorse or resentment, I can conclude Anuj’s resentment would be worth it then.

She will hate her family but not because of Choti Anu but because of them they lost Choti Anu and return she is losing her bank account, her live hood.
She could care less about Ca and her mom.

In fact deep inside she is very happy one less head ache to deal with. Now comes the hard part, how long will Anuj stay mad with her or stick around.

They started their marriage two days in with CA so can they survive without her now?

Originally posted by: Koms9

i want maaya to show all recordings in court. And I hope she recorded the dance competition and maa leaving that kid on road in broken car just for a hunch related to her bio kid.

Also NY party fiasco after which CA was sent to farmhouse alone.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

Finally watched it. Time nikaal hi liya🤣

Even though I liked and enjoyed what Maaya said but I feel the makers deliberately added that picnic one and then justified Anupamaa in a way because not going to picnic with Anu was actually her majboori. She wanted to go but Anuj denied her. They could've done away with that picnic thing and Anupamaa would have no answer to her allegations at all. Had they gone with that school function one (not as a passing reference) but full fledged, telling how it broke little Anu's heart with some added flashbacks of her crying (Anuj could remember them) the impact would have been much more. Even the trp audience would be by Maaya's side and against Anupamaa.

But they played it smart. First they vilified Maaya, then they made her take away her own daughter stealthily and then made her spew these allegations, side by side giving Anupamaa dialogues such as she loves Anuj the most, Anu and Anuj are her family, Ghar Ghar hota hai etc. and making Anuj angry with her, in turn buying sympathy for their lead character.

But still, they couldn't completely make Anupamaa the victim here. They tried to but failed and I'm happy.

When pakhi kicked her maa out of house and even mr. Shah and baa asked to leave, maa didnt leave. She sat there that bachche jo bhi karein maa nahi jaayegi. She would go to any length for her kids. No match with CA.

When she had just a hunch that pakhi maybe in trouble, she left sleeping CA with kinjal and baby in a broken car middle of the road but when CA had panic attack, maa couldnt leave pari with 4 adults to go to CA

Originally posted by: Koms9

When pakhi kicked her maa out of house and even mr. Shah and baa asked to leave, maa didnt leave. She sat there that bachche jo bhi karein maa nahi jaayegi. She would go to any length for her kids. No match with CA.

When she had just a hunch that pakhi maybe in trouble, she left sleeping CA with kinjal and baby in a broken car middle of the road but when CA had panic attack, maa couldnt leave pari with 4 adults to go to CA

By the way, Komal, I have read about that car scene so many times in the forum, but never watched it. Can you please send me the link for the same?

But do I even have the jigra to watch this🤔

Originally posted by: Koms9

When pakhi kicked her maa out of house and even mr. Shah and baa asked to leave, maa didnt leave. She sat there that bachche jo bhi karein maa nahi jaayegi. She would go to any length for her kids. No match with CA.

When she had just a hunch that pakhi maybe in trouble, she left sleeping CA with kinjal and baby in a broken car middle of the road but when CA had panic attack, maa couldnt leave pari with 4 adults to go to CA

CA's details were not fed properly in her system and hence, the mamta antenna does not pick up any signals regarding her.

Then again, her persona is all about running to the child/person who'd insult her and be ungrateful for her efforts (Makkhi/Trash/Jhuli) rather than the one who'd give her love and respect (CA/Anuj)

Originally posted by: Koms9

When pakhi kicked her maa out of house and even mr. Shah and baa asked to leave, maa didnt leave. She sat there that bachche jo bhi karein maa nahi jaayegi. She would go to any length for her kids. No match with CA.

When she had just a hunch that pakhi maybe in trouble, she left sleeping CA with kinjal and baby in a broken car middle of the road but when CA had panic attack, maa couldnt leave pari with 4 adults to go to CA

Of course not, Ca isn’t blood related. Just like it didn’t affect her much missing the dance competition. She made sure that Pakhi didn’t miss hers. But for Choti it was no big deal. We didn’t compete but at least we got to dance.😡

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

CA's details were not fed properly in her system and hence, the mamta antenna does not pick up any signals regarding her.

Then again, her persona is all about running to the child/person who'd insult her and be ungrateful for her efforts (Makkhi/Trash/Jhuli) rather than the one who'd give her love and respect (CA/Anuj)

Long post alert

OK so my opinion is lil different here, I completely agree with whatever Maya said, but can we blame Anupama completely? when we were in school we have read in our bio books that every feeling and emotion has a particular phase or stage, Anupama has come out of that motherhood phase, she cannot become mother of 1 more kid no matter how much hard she tries. However, anuj has not experienced anything as such, he has desired for a family so he wanted to become a father, so he decided to adopt a kid, till here everything was fine, but the problem started when they did not even discuss about that adoption thing aur ye toh dekho, marriage ke bas 2 din baad anuj decided to adopt a kid, they could not even give time to their relationship.

We are blaming Anupama and we all are right at some extent, but just think from her perspective as well, usko shadi karke bas 2 din hue the, she could not even experience love of family or partner in her previous marriage, toh usne kuch toh expect kiya hoga iss marriage se, but marriage ke 2 din baad usko mila ek baccha honeymoon ke gift me.

Her main problem is that she wants to do everything, she thinks that she will manage everything usko ye nahi pata ki no one can manage everything, therefore, when Anuj got excited she could not say no, she again thought that she will manage everything but she ended up messing everything. However, again this "mai sab kar lungi" can be seen in a different way, jab se vo vanraj ke saath shaadi karke aai tab se she was expected to do everything and she began to think that if I will do everything then only people will value me, if they will need me then only they will value me, but this backfired, now she is overburdened with "matkas" and she is not able to manage anything.

so the conclusion is Whether Anupama can become a good mother for CA, the answer is a big no (because she could not even become a good mother for her 3 kids). The next question is ki whether it was all anupama's fault in this adoption se le kar Maya track, so the answer here is no, it was not completely her fault, even Anuj is responsible for all this. That guy just loved anupama and wanted to get married, he forgot that movie and reality are both different, they should have given time to their relationship and they would have then decided to get married and then they would have decided to adopt/don't adopt a kid after 1 year at least.