TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #17 "Mai Murtasim Ke Saath Rahungi" - Page 22

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

No neither are faking anything. To be duplicitous is a contradiction to their passionate personalities. They will love fiercely as they fight. They never hated each other even more marriage, just clash of the alphas, clash of believes and personalities.

Completely agree with this!!! And this is what got me hooked.

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Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

So, I keep seeing all the funny edits of Murtasim running after Meerab. 🏃 He doesn’t want to leave her for a minute it seems ❤️

The way I see it, it’s not just because of his love, lust, and feeling of responsibility for her. In Meerub, he has also found a true friend figure, someone on the same level of intelligence and spirit, and worthy and capable of being his friend. He calls her “yaar” on the bhooth balcony scene, and a few other times I think. I think this is significant. Hear me out:

To me, Murtasim was a sad, lonely, and burdened young man that had his dreams and probably some of his youth ripped away from him to assume the immense responsibility of the family and the Gaddi Nasheen-dom. He has no friends apparently, and perhaps no time for friends, and bhaktu doesn’t count 😂. He doesn’t even have a truly friendly equation with his sister, unlike Saad and Nilo. Thats probably why he was aloof and eternally pissed off, “hamesha” as Meerub declared in epi 2 to Haya. The man was alone and there was nobody to really share this weight with and lighten his soul.

Until, Meerab was betrothed and hitched to him, that is. He is attracted to her but also he generally sees her as his equal in many respects like her attitude, courage, and their urge to protect others. They talk to eachother on the same level, with familiarity and obviously some comfort. I bet, aside from her nakhre, Meerub is pretty fun to hang out with. Their nok jhok is fun and she is generally smart. (Unlike a Haya type that is good for “wifely” duties and that’s about it.) Meerub is a true “sathi” for him, and she fills and has the potential to fill that void of loneliness in many aspects, both as a wife and as a friend. He sees and feels that.

When Murtasim pines for her, like especially when he was getting ready for the Gaon trip, I see him yearning for her company as a friend, not just as a love interest. Like the friend that always wants to hang out because they’re lonely (but he won’t necessary admit it.) It makes me sad for him 😭 But perhaps it’s also why a King Khan like him would EVER agree to marry her without a physical relationship. (Even if he intends to get to that point too!)

Obviously the writer views her husband as her best friend and partner in life, and I really feel that she’s trying to infuse that friend aspect of marriage in Murtasim and Meerab’s equation.

And I love this. I hope you have found and will all find a true friend in your spouses and partners, if you choose to have one. It may take time.

Oh Meerab, you might not realize it, as your experience of friendship is only with the Rohail type; but aside from being hot and probably all qayamat in the sheets, your shohar will be a really good friend to you too!

Yes the story is taking its time to show case the friend aspect of their relationship. Too many times we go from i am attracted to her to boom we are in love and skip the journey. Married couples can court each other too and go on dates too. The intimacy aspect of their relationship aside being friends is important too.
That scene where he is in the garden crying and she comes to him, it felt like a bereaved friend more than a heart broken husband. Like seriously yaar where the hell were you, and as he was letting her go it felt like friends having a fight.

He is definitely a very lonely person. When he talks to his mom he asks her what do I mean to you, she never says you are my son I love you, only a bunch of nonsense that doesn’t concern feelings only titles. Beside just being a husband is just another responsibility, he has enough responsibilities he wants some fun which meerab provides.

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Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Oh he didn't even take time to think over the contract.

That look was like, 'Babe, you wanna do it this way?' fine! let's play this game fair now. I ain't budging. I know I will win either ways' 🤣

Originally posted by: luvmayurarti

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Yes…I felt the same about the garden crying scene as well. And you’re absolutely right about his relationship with his mom. All business and no love expressed directly, although she does love him dearly.

This is why I love Wahaj in this role. He can play the fun “friend” role convincingly, in addition to the mature, responsible, and protective role. When he was walking with Meerub in the kheer scene, I saw flirty but also pure fun. Like he was truly enjoying her company. Wahaj’s expressions were so genuinely happy, like he got a new toy!

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Yes the story is taking its time to show case the friend aspect of their relationship. Too many times we go from i am attracted to her to boom we are in love and skip the journey. Married couples can court each other too and go on dates too. The intimacy aspect of their relationship aside being friends is important too.
That scene where he is in the garden crying and she comes to him, it felt like a bereaved friend more than a heart broken husband. Like seriously yaar where the hell were you, and as he was letting her go it felt like friends having a fight.

He is definitely a very lonely person. When he talks to his mom he asks her what do I mean to you, she never says you are my son I love you, only a bunch of nonsense that doesn’t concern feelings only titles. Beside just being a husband is just another responsibility, he has enough responsibilities he wants some fun which meerab provides.

Originally posted by: WanderingWonder

The way I see it, it’s not just because of his love, lust, and feeling of responsibility for her. In Meerub, he has also found a true friend figure, someone on the same level of intelligence and spirit, and worthy and capable of being his friend. He calls her “yaar” on the bhooth balcony scene, and a few other times I think. I think this is significant. Hear me out:

To me, Murtasim was a sad, lonely, and burdened young man that had his dreams and probably some of his youth ripped away from him to assume the immense responsibility of the family and the Gaddi Nasheen-dom. He has no friends apparently, and perhaps no time for friends, and bhaktu doesn’t count 😂. He doesn’t even have a truly friendly equation with his sister, unlike Saad and Nilo. Thats probably why he was aloof and eternally pissed off, “hamesha” as Meerub declared in epi 2 to Haya. The man was alone and there was nobody to really share this weight with and lighten his soul.

Until, Meerab was betrothed and hitched to him, that is. He is attracted to her but also he generally sees her as his equal in many respects like her attitude, courage, and their urge to protect others. They talk to eachother on the same level, with familiarity and obviously some comfort. I bet, aside from her nakhre, Meerub is pretty fun to hang out with. Their nok jhok is fun and she is generally smart. (Unlike a Haya type that is good for “wifely” duties and that’s about it.) Meerub is a true “Saathi” for him, and she fills and has the potential to fill that void of loneliness in many aspects, both as a wife and as a friend. He sees and feels that.

When Murtasim pines for her, like especially when he was getting ready for the Gaon trip, I see him yearning for her company as a friend, not just as a love interest. Like the friend that always wants to hang out because they’re lonely (but he won’t necessary admit it.) It makes me sad for him 😭 But perhaps it’s also why a King Khan like him would EVER agree to marry her without a physical relationship. (Even if he intends to get to that point too!)

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Yes the story is taking its time to show case the friend aspect of their relationship. Too many times we go from i am attracted to her to boom we are in love and skip the journey. Married couples can court each other too and go on dates too. The intimacy aspect of their relationship aside being friends is important too.
That scene where he is in the garden crying and she comes to him, it felt like a bereaved friend more than a heart broken husband. Like seriously yaar where the hell were you, and as he was letting her go it felt like friends having a fight.

He is definitely a very lonely person. When he talks to his mom he asks her what do I mean to you, she never says you are my son I love you, only a bunch of nonsense that doesn’t concern feelings only titles. Beside just being a husband is just another responsibility, he has enough responsibilities he wants some fun which meerab provides.

Oh I love both your takes of him! 😳
It’s so true, he thinks of Meerab as his true life companion, not just his love interest. She always gives as good as she gets.

I loved the swimming pool scene. It was all about him knowing she was being stubborn and importantly, that she can take what’s coming from him.
It is why just before he lets go of her hand his eyes had a mischievous look on them, a mixture of teasing and knowing he is in charge at that moment. He was enjoying watching her fall into the water. He was having fun in a childlike manner which is rare for him.

When he let go of her hand, he didn’t out of hatred but just because he wanted to show her that he can be just as stubborn. She expected him to save her and he damn well knew it.
Imagine, he would never dare do anything like that to any other woman not to Haya, and not even to Maryam.

But deep down in his heart he knew that Meerab could take it from him.
That is why, when he extended his hand to help her out and she ended up pulling him back into the pool, he low-key admired her for having the guts to do something he never expected. The way he gazed at her walking away from the pool, his eyes had no hate or anger.

It’s why he went through depression at the thought of her leaving him and why he cruelly shouted at her to go when she came to see him in the garden. He was hurt. It wasn’t a break up pain, but losing a close friend pain.
But when he heard from Maryam that she hadn’t abandoned him at the hospital after all and he found out that she truly did want to see him and did care for him, he charged straight to her and grabbed her hand and then when she told him to leave her hand he replied “never”, and protectively told everyone that “Meerab sirf meri hai”.

He has never had anyone in his life like her and he knows it. He knows how precious she is to him, even if she doesn’t.

Wow new thread 🥳🥳🥳

Har din new thread bann rahi hai, it seems not just PSF but whole IF record is going to break.