What is your idea of a perfect day? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

I live with my extended family ie in-laws. Not a day passes by wherein no one blames me. Even if I’m not responsible for the problem, still I’ll get blamed.

I’m tolerating everything as I have 6 yo son.

I hope your husband supports you....its difficult otherwise.....but if its a daily thing...I hope it is not affecting your baby....do you have the option to move out??

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

I hope your husband supports you....its difficult otherwise.....but if its a daily thing...I hope it is not affecting your baby....do you have the option to move out??

He cites the reason that he can’t leave them as they’re old. Even my 6 yo son has started observing and shouting at me like I disturb him from watching mobile, he’ll throw me out 😔

I’m able to work as they did babysit my son for past 6 years but each day is difficult.

I do help at home in kitchen and everything but nothing I do will satisfy them.

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

He cites the reason that he can’t leave them as they’re old. Even my 6 yo son has started observing and shouting at me like I disturb him from watching mobile, he’ll throw me out 😔

I’m able to work as they did babysit my son for past 6 years but each day is difficult.

I do help at home in kitchen and everything but nothing I do will satisfy them.

I respect that....but he has to reason with them.....I know its a very personal thing....I hope things get better with you...🤗

Sometimes its easier to let it out in front of strangers...

Perfect day is when your mind is at peace or you are feeling light whole day.

Originally posted by: Porcupine

Perfect day is when your mind is at peace or you are feeling light whole day.

Ditto. 🌟

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

He cites the reason that he can’t leave them as they’re old. Even my 6 yo son has started observing and shouting at me like I disturb him from watching mobile, he’ll throw me out 😔

I’m able to work as they did babysit my son for past 6 years but each day is difficult.

I do help at home in kitchen and everything but nothing I do will satisfy them.

The problem is with your in-laws behavior. They seem demanding and expect a lot from you. Looks like they speak negative things about you with your son. When we are in a negative environment, it's better to stay calm as much as possible. Avoid arguments as much as possible. Only prayers can help.

Originally posted by: Porcupine

Perfect day is when your mind is at peace or you are feeling light whole day.

feeling light? I guess laxatives can do that😛😆

Originally posted by: BirdieNumNum

feeling light? I guess laxatives can do that😛😆

Feeling light goes like no stress, no worries, no overthinking, no headaches

If you are healthy , you don't laxatives. I just search it what is laxatives, had no idea previously.

If you have problem cleaning your bowel, eat a lot of fruits and vegetables and stay hydrated.

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

He cites the reason that he can’t leave them as they’re old. Even my 6 yo son has started observing and shouting at me like I disturb him from watching mobile, he’ll throw me out 😔

I’m able to work as they did babysit my son for past 6 years but each day is difficult.

I do help at home in kitchen and everything but nothing I do will satisfy them.

Swetha, I hope things get better for you. I cannot imagine what you go through on a daily basis but If you ask me, your inner strength shines through on here. Despite what you have been silently going through in your personal life, you are always positive around here. You don’t project negativity from real life onto others. Only few people are capable of that. That in itself is admirable. Sending you healing energies. May you continue to gather the courage to do what is best for you and your son. 💕🙏🌸🌙

If I manage not to upset my wife.