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Posted: 2 years ago

The episode was good the way sai bajeoed pakhi was spot on. She was behaving like a mad person. The way sai said she was clear in a words . She even said that she doesn't want to take vinu away with her like pakhi. And i read as well some r saying negative abt vinu and Ashwini I mean why . Vinu is a child and u need to deal with him Pyaar and u can't tell him to stop doing what he doing. Only a mother will understand how a child is at that time.u can't blame him for what pakhi did I nen hadd hai and Ashwini as well is thinking of her son and what reprecussion this will take . It is normal. she is thinking abt the future. I don't think anything wrong in that.

Edited by rac1 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Vinu and Savi are also not in similar situations, neither brought up similarly. That reflects in how they are coping. One child is easily swayed by fake stories and is living in fear and has become a spoilt brat who does emotional blackmail to get his way and the other says- I guess you had some promise(reason) so you didn't tell me. In her innocence she thinks now they can just be happy family again.

Vinu without Sai/Savi reflects the parvarish of V and P. Inherently like every child he is sweet and innocent but VP parvarish makes him a brat.

So different yardsticks are because the situations are different and not the same.

Vinu ending up with VP is a stroke of luck and their bad parvarish is there for all to see. Until conflicts have happened Vinu has a comfortable lifestyle and was a sweet child but VP upbringing shows when he is put in a difficult situation and cant cope. P is nothing more than nanny- she's NOT a mother. A mother doesn't poison her child just to get her way.

And V instead of ensuring P does not corrupt him is giving "warning" but letting p continue her nonsense. so he is failing in his duty as a father.

V has done nothing to be worthy of both kids love, admiration.

If he starts to actually focus on Vinu's mental health and placing Savi above p , it'd show he's not an utter failure as a father also.

There's nothing more comical for me to read than to see comparison of P and Sai's love for Vinu. Its so ludicrous that I won't go into it also. P is a criminal. Period.

Sai took on Chavan name only out of love. She didn't adopt it when she was married without love even if other people referred to her as Chavan. Sai dropped the name after her husband's betrayal.

But V took Sai's name for show off. He dropped her name because she was dead even though he claims he "loves" Sai and he married P - the criminal who drove Sai to leaving CN.

Such a man doesn't deserve 2 kids who think he can do no wrong.

If V really is progressive, he should have pointed out that even if Savi remained Joshi she'd still be his daughter with an equal claim on him, the house, the family. She doesn't need to change her name..

Savi has been shown curious about things and having a distinct personality, happy with her identity - so this whole step of wanting to change name is not at all needed for her to hug V and love him as her baba.

So this name change business is completely unecessary tactics.

Its like telling the audience - mother can do anything and everything but child will always want fathers name only. 🙄

Savis wish to be Chavan can still be overlooked as child's craving for babas name because thats the soceital norm but V stressing on it is not required.

The scene of V Savi hugging happily would be perfectly fine without a mention of Savi Chavan also.

Because Savi Chavan was mentioned, i wasnt happy to see her hug her father.

Also kids are pretty perceptive. It'd be really silly if both kids accept that they are V and Sai's kids but P is also Vs wife and has become Vinu's mumma without probing why P exists in their life in the first place

And they may not get all answers since they are just kids. but its important V , P and CN losers face those questions.

They need to explain why Sai was forced into a position where she had to choose to leave.

Why no one looked for her and easily assumed her dead!

Why he'd marry again if he only loves Sai.

Why he'd remarry P and take pheras even after Sai is back.

And as they think about it all it'd be good if they can have some guilt for their actions.


Edited by Nja91 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Can I make the next discussion thread??

Pleaseeeeeee...bas ek baar banaana hai😆

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: The_aliciaa

Too good 👏

And you know this thing can have two perspectives ek savi ka and ek audience ka


From savi's perspective she has always craved for a father figure, unaware about what her mother went through so it's fine for her and even currently she isn't mature to think about it she even said today mujhe nhi pta bas mujhe apne baba mil gye asli Wale


Now comes the audience pov who know what all bs Virat has done in entire pregnancy and surrogacy journey or even after leap so it was kind of displeasure for us to listen that how come he is getting everything while doing nothing,no one to question him except Sai.

On top of it he is getting everything without doing any efforts. He didn't even spare a thought to think that savi could be his daughter. Jagtap had to tell him. After knowing the truth all he did was abusing sai more instead of doing things for savi. He is worshipped as God by his kids despite all his misdeeds towards his kids. But sai is getting hate from her kids despite her sacrifices for them. One kid is abusing her, other kid is not valuing her love.

I am not even fan of sai. I don't have good opinion on her either. But as an audience it's definitely frustrating to watch. Virat being treated as God by his kids is same as pakhi being treated as queen by CN family.

I can't connect with savi too. Can understand her love for her father. But can't understand her behaviour towards her mother. One day she says her mother is always number one for her, the next day she packs bags and ready to leave her mom for her father. And the way she looks unbothered when people like pakhi or other CN family insults her mother infront of her is odd.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: rac1

The episode was good the way sai bajeoed pakhi was spot on. She was behaving like a mad person. The way sai said she was clear in a words . She even said that she doesn't want to take vinu away with her like pakhi. And i read as well some r saying negative abt vinu and Ashwini I mean why . Vinu is a child and u need to deal with him Pyaar and u can't tell him to stop doing what he doing. Only a mother will understand how a child is at that time.u can't blame him for what pakhi did I nen hadd hai and Ashwini as well is thinking of her son and what reprecussion this will take . It is normal. she is thinking abt the future. I don't think anything wrong in that.

I am totally on the same page as you

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: la_Reine

Can I make the next discussion thread??

Pleaseeeeeee...bas ek baar banaana hai😆

Already ban gaya sweetheart! Next wala aap banao agar mods tab tak nahi aaye toh. waise toh Feb end tak hai

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Posted: 2 years ago

Holi is on March 8th. Yeh log kuch planning kar rahe hain ki nahi 😡

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I am totally on the same page as you

🥳🥰😍. Again. Great minds think alike # team popcorn 🍿

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: rac1

🥳🥰😍. Again. Great minds think alike # team popcorn 🍿

I always look forward to your reviews EOD. Yours and Nirip ka always EOD aata hai 😊

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

If I am not wrong he took savi without sai's will on her birthday and made faces when sai was showed up in picnic. So he never followed that so called ultimatum.

Exactly neither did sai forced it on him it was in moment of rage sai mentioned that otherwise he was always around savi when he wanted

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