Originally posted by: 1987Roso
Lol, where did you get this misinfo that IVF is a need in your mid 30’s..? as per my understanding as a health professional, IVF is something most people do in their mid forties or if they have a really hard time getting pregnant. It’s not for everyone, my sister had healthy kids and she had them both between 38-42 without IVF and my best friend just had kids back to back and she’s 38 lol no issues getting pregnant. My nephew is 3 and his mother was 46 when he was born without IVF so yeah stop assuming.
I’m 35 and single and I have no concerns whether I am running out of time or blah blah, I know it’s possible to have kids whenever one wants with or without IVF. People need to stop assuming things. No wonder girls make hasty decision and screw their life up with the wrong type of men when there’s pressure on them about such nonsense.
I never advocated getting married out of pressure. I think we're lucky that procedures like IVF exist nowadays, so we can rely on them and take our time. But it's a fact late pregnancies come with more risks and your fertility as a woman definitely decreases as you pass 35.. there have been so many researches on it. Just because some people around you managed to have kids past 40, doesn't mean the majority don't face trouble. I even know some women in their early 30's finding it hard.
Anyways, my point was if you want to enjoy life, do some travelling with your partner and then have kids after.. 30 is not young at all. Not implying 35 is old. You need to stop getting offended over silly things.
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