AbhiM apologizes to Ak: Epi Air Date Jan 30 2023 - Page 32

Originally posted by: IAMHope

The way they’ll present it, it will be for Roohi - because Roohi wants it. She wants Matashri and Poppy to marry so she can have a real Papa instead of Poppy. The only relationship that can trump that is Abhir.

Ash ,I won't be able to put myself through the torture of watching aroo getting ready to get md.i don't feel any pleasure/ happiness in seeing her being humiliated again, or ruhi getting upset, I am unable to understand such emotional vulnerability on Abs part that he gets ready to marry, why blame manjari always, she is doing what she thinks is right for her son, / family, if he wants to marry Ar on his own for ruhi or whatever reason, it's okay, but why always show him as such a weak man that he succumbs to his mom's wishes, we keep making excuses for his beh broken abhi,emotionally vulnerable abhi,so he gets manipulated, he needs support, he's shattered becoz of akshu moving on, I am not liking it,

The other thing which bothers me is some people ( in general not pointing fingers at anyone)saying Abhi gave Ak many chances ,she made many mistakes, so he's justified for his reaction or for being angry with her when Neil died

I am all for Ab moving on with whomever he chooses but not becoz of being vulnerable, emo blackmailed etc

you made an observation the day before, liked it,

I couldn't find the post again so didn't reply to it ,it was about Ab dialogue abt ruhi calling him poppy becoz it's confusing for a one yr old to know papa bade papa, but like you said Ab was never papa it should have been bade papa tauji, Neil is her biological papa,so why frame the dialogue that way

🤗

Who knows the man will come and be another Ak hater, since they are hell bent on making everyone against Akshara

kya pata Sir ko bhi anti Ak bana de.

Originally posted by: Amru4krish

Yey yey yey

More chance for Harshu Akshu....

Arohi abhi wedding and raitha ke alwa aur kuch bhi chalega....

Hope PB comes back sends raitha into coma ....

Originally posted by: Sri4Abhira

As we all know, a person says worst things when they r angry even if they don’t mean it.
as per the Telugu saying: Tana kopame tanaku shathruvu - meaning: One’s anger is their worst enemy.
His mom never taught him nor he never tried to cope/deal with his anger issues.

He was at his worst -Taandav level and crossed all and every line and broke her ( which is highly unacceptable) But he never meant to say or treat her that way. His anger just took over everything that day.

No matter what happened between them, he knew how strong their love was so he couldn’t believe she actually moved on and so all those breakdowns but now in Realization mode (more yet to come), he is happy for her.

Very curious to see how Akshu will react and say to him 🥺

Bold My only problem is if he didn't mean it then why didn't he go look for her later before she announced her mg ,that was 7 months later, he was with the rest of his family, celebrating mom's birthday.

I am beginning to doubt whether their love was strong This is an example of a very twisted way of loving, it's not healthy.

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

Okie coming to whatever info i have abhir s abhira son saach jaldi haanewali hain

Abhimanyu said sorry as per him akshu moved far away from him..he lived a lifeless life with hope one day akshu ll be back to him..but as per him it's lost and he further doesn't want to hold it as a baggage.

But when first his son s alive and he was unable to see him for six years ll haunt him and we can no more expect silent and shaanth abhi as it ll prick him someone s been called as papa by his own son

Next akshu fake marriage truth sukhoon milega but it's really unpredictable how abhi going to react

Trp next week for sure again ll reduce

Yes, Abhi is the unpredictable one.

I have no doubt he will be angry. But it will come down to how he handles this anger. He can be upset and ask some pointed questions to Akshu but if they really want to redeem him then he will have to stop any custody battle. To me the custody battle and how he treats Akshu will be part of how Abhir will see him and help or hinder his relationship with him in the future.

Abhir has already warned not to make his Papa or my Mama cry. He is protective of them. So Abhi's actions will determine how he gets his son's trust to form a deeper relationship.

To me Abhir will always place Abhinav in high regard. He is his first father figure. But that doesn't mean his biological dad can't be a best dad one day too but the feeling maybe different. I don't know if I am explaining this right. And that is why I think Abhi was shown all those things about Akshu’s family in Kasauli. Abhi admits Abhinav is a great father. He knows what the struggles have been. Once he knows the truth he should be indebted to Abhinav for safeguarding his family. Of course that is all on the condition if he understands what he did wrong that day to Akshu for her to "leave" and play pretend family with a stranger.

I know we are worried how will Abhir accept Abhi. As long as Abhi continues to bond with Abhir on things and treat him well along with Akshu and Abhinav then Abhir will accept Abhi too into his life.

I mean if Roohi can accept Poppy as her father figure despite her real father Neil being dead. Why can't Abhir do that for Abhi?

Which again to my point why does one have to be greater than the other? Why can't Abhir have 2 father figures that he looks up to? One who was there during his birth and loved and took care of him until he was 6. Then Abhi takes over being in his life as we know Abhinav will exit.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

I believe marriage is not off the cards, depending on trps,

Ash ,I won't be able to put myself through the torture of watching aroo getting ready to get md.i don't feel any pleasure/ happiness in seeing her being humiliated again, or ruhi getting upset, I am unable to understand such emotional vulnerability on Abs part that he gets ready to marry, why blame manjari always, she is doing what she thinks is right for her son, / family, if he wants to marry Ar on his own for ruhi or whatever reason, it's okay, but why always show him as such a weak man that he succumbs to his mom's wishes, we keep making excuses for his beh broken abhi,emotionally vulnerable abhi,so he gets manipulated, he needs support, he's shattered becoz of akshu moving on, I am not liking it,

The other thing which bothers me is some people ( in general not pointing fingers at anyone)saying Abhi gave Ak many chances ,she made many mistakes, so he's justified for his reaction or for being angry with her when Neil died

I am all for Ab moving on with whomever he chooses but not becoz of being vulnerable, emo blackmailed etc

you made an observation the day before, liked it,

I couldn't find the post again so didn't reply to it ,it was about Ab dialogue abt ruhi calling him poppy becoz it's confusing for a one yr old to know papa bade papa, but like you said Ab was never papa it should have been bade papa tauji, Neil is her biological papa,so why frame the dialogue that way

🤗

I think that to me shows Abhi has always maintained a clear distinction about his relationship with Roohi and Arohi. It is Manjari who wants to blur the lines and Arohi is living in a fantasy land that Abhi is part of her unit with Roohi.

Abhi is the Bade Papa/ Tauji to Roohi. Considering how Roohi always messes up words trying to make her use Bade Papa would results in more slip ups of Papa forgetting the Bade.

Abhi is taking his responsibility seriously as it was younger brother's last wish. He has no one in his life because he let Akshu go/drove Akshu away. So he poured every once of his life into helping raising Roohi. But how many days he was in Kasauli? He got some fresh air and his burdens lifted for a bit. He started to contact Roohi less and less.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

liked what you've written about anger Sri very well said esp the telugu saying

Bold My only problem is if he didn't mean it then why didn't he go look for her later before she announced her mg ,that was 7 months later, he was with the rest of his family, celebrating mom's birthday.

I am beginning to doubt whether their love was strong This is an example of a very twisted way of loving, it's not healthy.

I know Nithya… he should have gone looking for. He just focused on his mom and left her thinking she will come back like before 😭😭

my Abhira heart is not accepting their love is not true. 💔💔

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I think that to me shows Abhi has always maintained a clear distinction about his relationship with Roohi and Arohi. It is Manjari who wants to blur the lines and Arohi is living in a fantasy land that Abhi is part of her unit with Roohi.

Abhi is the Bade Papa/ Tauji to Roohi. Considering how Roohi always messes up words trying to make her use Bade Papa would results in more slip ups of Papa forgetting the Bade.

Abhi is taking his responsibility seriously as it was younger brother's last wish. He has no one in his life because he let Akshu go/drove Akshu away. So he poured every once of his life into helping raising Roohi. But how many days he was in Kasauli? He got some fresh air and his burdens lifted for a bit. He started to contact Roohi less and less.

Grace: what do u think Akshu will say to Abhi?

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

liked what you've written about anger Sri very well said esp the telugu saying

Bold My only problem is if he didn't mean it then why didn't he go look for her later before she announced her mg ,that was 7 months later, he was with the rest of his family, celebrating mom's birthday.

I am beginning to doubt whether their love was strong This is an example of a very twisted way of loving, it's not healthy.

From what I have seen when Abhi gets angry and emotionally weak it takes him such a long time to get out of it. Also he may have been stubborn about his decisions and feelings. Cut the cancer at the core is always his motto. He felt his relationship was canerous to his family relationship so he cut it. It was probably the most painful thing he did to himself because he knows he cannot live without Akshu. He literally gave up as he did not know how to fix the situation. His childhood trauma manifested his OCD behavior and he needs to be able to control things.

It doesn't help he has a mother who would probably triggers his insecurities and reminds him of all that they lost because of Neil’s death. Mahima is no better. She yelled at him in the hospital about how he/they need to distance themselves from Akshu as the mere mention of her name sends Manjari into fits of panic that could be fatal.

Abhi's family is plain toxic. That is why he always pulled here and there by them. No differently for Akshu when she was trapped in her family jaap.

She will reject his apology

Originally posted by: Sri4Abhira

Grace: what do u think Akshu will say to Abhi?

Originally posted by: IAMHope

She will reject his apology

I just saw the scoop on Hulu…nice Ash!