Udariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #91 - Page 87

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

i agree that ekam should ignore nehmat but nehmat is not at all capable of handling her life. Sabko pretend karna that she is happy n then koney me baithke rona, doormat ki jaise sabke taunts chupchap sunna is not called 'handling life well'. Advait would've slapped her if ekam wouldn't have stopped him n after that nehmat didn't even told advait 'how dare u try to hit me!'

But irrespective of the fact that Nehmat can handle her life herself or not

Or even for the fact how Nehmat will handle it be it the right way or the wrong way!!

Ekam should just leave her alone to do things on her own because she has her own life and that is what @gibige meant!!

I would say Ekam should have left Nehmat handle things on her own even if he had married her, because he shouldn't show the attitude that only I can protect Nehmat like he is doing now,

That's a very domineering attitude of Ekam and is a negative point of any man who thinks that a woman needs a man to protect her or handle her!!

Now that you have pointed it out, this domineering attitude of Ekam is indeed negative

Originally posted by: ChaiTeaWali

I wonder what Shamsher’s special announcement is. Maybe fake pregnancy announcement? 😆

Many in youtube are saying it's about admat's honeymoon. I think he is plotting to get Nehkam separated through this honeymoon surprise.

Yesterday's episode cleared out that Nehkam are meant to be together.

All those flashbacks and Nehkam constantly stealing looks at each other showing how much they long for each other everything literally proved they are two deprived souls wanting to be united and should be united but cannot be united because of so and so....

I don't know if Saravi is inspired from Ekta's KZK/KZK 2 where SRK while promoting KZK2 had said something like:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ob8dBWkTgHM

Two railway lines have a weird connection, they go through different directions but never unite,

Something very similar Ekam had said about Nehkam's relationship recently in the dream sequence of the episode of the resort night:

That they (Nehkam) are like day and night who cannot unite with each other but are incomplete without each other.

Even in Ekta's Kumkum Bhagya Abhigya never united in life, they united through death, same is happening with Pranbir now I guess.

Or Saravi has taken inspiration from Nicolas Sparks books like "The best of me", "Dear John" which are the best examples where there are couples who long for each other but cannot unite with each other.

I am officially planning to quit UD now because for me it is torturing to see two deprived people (here Nehkam) who are going on longing for each other not even being able to move on completely and not being able to get united.

I don't know I find such love stories annoying and depressing,

It's like, "Naa hee sacche pyaar se mil paa rahe hai aur nahi sacche pyaar se aage bhad pa rahe hai!"

It's kind of frustrating,

I really hope the trps go down and they end the show on a good note maybe unite Nehkam (like in KZK2) once and for all, enough of them longing for each other.

Advait , his papa Sher and Jasmine can rot in jail while Harleen go back to Canada and find a better guy for herself.

I know it's a too much to ask especially when you are an admat fan but can you write a happy ending wala story for Nehkam?

Because it's kind of annoying to see them constantly longing for each other and not being able to be with each other in the show,

Naa khud move on kar paa rahe hai aur dusron ko bhi apne saath ghasit rahe hai,

Maybe you can end with Nehkam unite and have a son who looks like Ekam, Adleen end up with each other and have a daughter who miraculously looks like Nehmat and Niknaaz have a daughter who looks like Naaz,

Then starting of season 3 both Adleen and Niknaaz's daughters pursuing Nehkam's son,

Since Nehmat is not the sister of neither Naaz or Harleen nor Ekam, Advait or Nikhil's brother. Adleen and Niknaaz's daughters can pursue Nehkam's son.

I would have written this story but I don't have the time and my story is from a totally different perspective. (In my story both move on)

And I have seen CVs taking inspiration from your stories like "The Bride" so maybe they do that again when you unite Nehkam in your story.😉

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

But irrespective of the fact that Nehmat can handle her life herself or not

Or even for the fact how Nehmat will handle it be it the right way or the wrong way!!

Ekam should just leave her alone to do things on her own because she has her own life and that is what @gibige meant!!

I would say Ekam should have left Nehmat handle things on her own even if he had married her, because he shouldn't show the attitude that only I can protect Nehmat like he is doing now,

That's a very domineering attitude of Ekam and is a negative point of any man who thinks that a woman needs a man to protect her or handle her!!

Now that you have pointed it out, this domineering attitude of Ekam is indeed negative

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

I've said this before also that read my whole post before replying. The 1st line of my post is 'i agree ekam should IGNORE nehmat' n i disagree with u about ekam's protective attitude being negative. Uske positive points ko b zabardasti negative nai bana sakti mai. Isme men/women ki baat kaha se aai? Ekam even protects men around him. Ekam is police. It's his duty n habit to protect people n stop any injustice happening around him. Still i want ekam to ignore nehmat coz she doesn't deserve ekam's help n ekam exposing advait ema was absolutely right becoz he was being accused about having ema with nehmat so he had to defend himself also.

I had read your entire post and had seen that you agreed with Ekam should ignore Nehmat.

But my point is that you were defending Ekam's over-protective attitude by putting the blame on Nehmat saying that she is not capable of protecting HERSELF.

You too should READ my post carefully!!!

You think Ekam's over-protective attitude to be positive your choice

Obviously everyone here knows how obsessed you are with Hitesh and his character,

But let me make things clear I don't think so and I had already justified why I don't feel so which I have no interest to repeat.

No matter how you defend it saying that he's policeman, he protects everyone and it was his duty to expose Advait's ema etc.

Yes I agree it was Ekam's duty to expose Advait's ema but its not his duty to interfere between Admat trying to protect Nehmat no matter Nehmat is capable of protecting herself or not like he was doing yesterday,

I still think he was WRONG there and I know you will not agree with me, I understand your perspective.

Lets agree to disagree

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I had read your entire post and had seen that you agreed with Ekam should ignore Nehmat.

But my point is that you were defending Ekam's over-protective attitude by putting the blame on Nehmat saying that she is not capable of protecting HERSELF.

You too should READ my post carefully!!!

You think Ekam's over-protective attitude to be positive your choice

Obviously everyone here knows how obsessed you are with Hitesh and his character,

But let me make things clear I don't think so and I had already justified why I don't feel so which I have no interest to repeat.

No matter how you defend it saying that he's policeman, he protects everyone and it was his duty to expose Advait's ema etc.

Yes I agree it was Ekam's duty to expose Advait's ema but its not his duty to interfere between Admat trying to protect Nehmat no matter Nehmat is capable of protecting herself or not like he was doing yesterday,

I still think he was WRONG there and I know you will not agree with me, I understand your perspective.

Lets agree to disagree

https://youtu.be/loQjh3hwqrE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWHwZkazHUM

Had anyone noticed Advait's kurta design and Ekam's coat design are the same only the colour is different.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

again! I said it was his duty to protect people N he had to expose advait ema to defend himself, exposing ema was NOT his duty. Ulta stopping domestic violence is his duty. If a husband is slapping his wife, being a policemen, it's his duty to stop this violence but him calling nehmat again n again n asking her if she is alright is over-protective n i don't want him to do that. But stopping advait from slapping nehmat was absolutely right according to me n it's advait who tried to zabardasti make ekam interfere in their relationship, ekam was trying to stay away. He even tried for transfer

@red - Yes this is what I am trying to say.

@green - But now Advait himself has freed Ekam from that duty,

So what is the need for Ekam to keep going behind Nehmat and asking her if she's ALRIGHT or not,

That's none of his duty nor business.