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Posted: 3 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Bhoomi8900648








I love how you pick one statement or one paragraph and make it sound like the most controversial thing another person said.


No Mother in law feelings are not important then the mother carrying the child or who have gone through miscarriage but here it was about Mother in law's concern for her pregnant daughter in law whose pregnancy was already a complicated one and throughout the show it was provided again and again.

So when Manjari said to her daughter in law to not get involve in the NGO thing because of her concern for the heath of mother and babies health it wasn't regressive thought but concern of a mother in law.

Frankly all she said to Akshara was" hey babe you are pregnant and it's a complicate one please take care of yourself and until you have a safe delivery please don't do any khatro ke khiladi".

And we know what she did lol

So Akshara didn't have stomach cramps? Things happen that are beyond ones control! If i remember correctly akshara said no to the concert herself!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Krinya


Basically it implies what goenkas and birlas did, doctor abhimanyu Birla specifically, what they did was correct as stupid akshara left them with no option other than chucking her out of their life to save their prodigy ?




And the same people would forgive her if she didn't lose her babies and only Neil died isn't it ? That's the reason these ppl r more at fault than akshara..akshara acted stupid and dumb. Rest all of them acted inhuman.




Yes..they were grieving..yes they lost their son ..its a big loss . Yes they could have blamed akshara..but why didn't abhimanyu understand ? Gussa hota naraaz hota , ghar se nikal deta..drop her off to goenkas ..cut ties with her for months , years ...why sign divorce papers and throw his wife on streets ? N ppl call akshara irresponsible for not asking goenkas for help..she faced the same trauma of losing her child ..why nobody stood with her and if they didn't, nobody can question her for moving on.



But still what Goenka were supposed to do didn't they do everything according to Akshara

Last time with one year separation whole family gave her total and absolute support without asking any question

Yep Dr Abhimanyu Birld divorced her and throw her out of home but why she didn't went back to her home. Ok she was not in her mind while riding the bus but after that when she knew about the pregnancy and still a complicated one why she didn't go back.

And it was Abhimanyu Birla who throw her out, did Goenka cut her off ?

Bade papa went again to bring her back and now she even knew about pregnancy why she didn't thought that she should go back with her bade papa or even if she doesn't wanna go back then ask her to provide some other accommodation in any other place?

How is Goenka family at any fault here?

And honestly this family supports Akshara with everything they have like she told on call i married some guy and she wasn't cut off becaz last time when another grand daughter gave them information about her marriage she was declared dead to them.

But I feel Goenka family have done every single thing they could do to provide their daughter still people are making them villian like they supported Abhimanyu for the decision of divorce.

Posted: 3 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Bhoomi8900648








I love how you pick one statement or one paragraph and make it sound like the most controversial thing another person said.


No Mother in law feelings are not important then the mother carrying the child or who have gone through miscarriage but here it was about Mother in law's concern for her pregnant daughter in law whose pregnancy was already a complicated one and throughout the show it was provided again and again.

So when Manjari said to her daughter in law to not get involve in the NGO thing because of her concern for the heath of mother and babies health it wasn't regressive thought but concern of a mother in law.

Frankly all she said to Akshara was" hey babe you are pregnant and it's a complicate one please take care of yourself and until you have a safe delivery please don't do any khatro ke khiladi".

And we know what she did lol

Thank you ❤️

That was absolutely normal concern jo kisi bhi pregnant lady ki mummy and mother in law ko hoga. It’s called concern.

Someone mixed my points with Manjari’s actions during Neil death kand. I have never said anything about it.

Jab logo ke paas koi logical point raise karne ke liye nahi bachta tab log regressive/gender biased/ women equality /character assassination ki taraf sab kuch divert karne lagte hai because it’s last retort for them.

Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania


What regressive?! When I said Manjari was true during Neil death kand ?!

Mother in law feeling points are only for Akshara’s forest stunt and Mr.india ke jaise gayab hone wala stunt .


Pehle context thik se read karo fir durso ko regressive/progressive ka certificate do.

Yes I see the progressive thoughts here, blaming a mother for the loss of her own baby! No mother goes out her way to kill her own child! You can call Akshara dumb as much you want but she didn't purposely cause her own miscarriage or even killed Neil!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Choco_mint


So Akshara didn't have stomach cramps? Things happen that are beyond ones control! If i remember correctly akshara said no to the concert herself!



That's the point cleared in the show itself l. Yes she got stomach cramps and no one is saying she shouldn't have gone out to take medical help for cramps but what happened after concert is not some freak accident or destiny or beyond someone control . What happened after it was decisions made by two people . In which one manipulated the other one to make the decision to go for the concert location.

Then the chain of event happened and don't try to make it sound like some freak accident if neil car got into accident then story would have been different but here decisions were made and those decisions cost people their life .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Huh so a mother-in-laws feelings are more important than the mother that is carrying her own child? Mother-in-laws feelings are more important than the mother who just miss carried? Please make it make sense! These kind of thoughts are regressive! Please 🙏

see If wanna say the truth Akshara the mother is not caring about she is pregnant..The stunts she did was the proof... If Abhi says to do something every time she do the opposite...and she claims she really care about Abhi.... She has zero guilt for Neil's death.... Everyone sympathize her but it's all her fault...This is the truth... If u analyze her from starting all she did was stupidity...
Posted: 3 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: Choco_mint

Yes I see the progressive thoughts here, blaming a mother for the loss of her own baby! No mother goes out her way to kill her own child! You can call Akshara dumb as much you want but she didn't purposely cause her own miscarriage or even killed Neil!

Careless toh bahot he zyada thi Akshara during her twin pregnancy! Yeh toh acha nasib tha ki ek baby zinda raha otherwise stunts toh badhiya kiye the.

Ab woh careless thi toh main kya karu ?! Muje regressive/progressive bolne se kya fayda! Careless thi toh thi woh!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vanavil25

see If wanna say the truth Akshara the mother is not caring about she is pregnant..The stunts she did was the proof... If Abhi says to do something every time she do the opposite...and she claims she really care about Abhi.... She has zero guilt for Neil's death.... Everyone sympathize her but it's all her fault...This is the truth... If u analyze her from starting all she did was stupidity...

She has been carful about her pregnancy! Yes I know that jungle incident she could've been more aware and i honestly thought there will be point to it all! Like they will show that temple but at end it was maa ka shakti!! As for draths We don't know yet if she feels guilty or not! Even im waiting for at least little scene about neil! But hey they dont even show arhu missing neil! Thats the fault of the makers! If she follow everything abhi said their wouldn't be a baby in the first place! There won't be a story! But whatever abhi did on that day is unjustifiable! I'm sorry 😞 I didn't expect that off abhi!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Choco_mint

She has been carful about her pregnancy! Yes I know that jungle incident she could've been more aware and i honestly thought there will be point to it all! Like they will show that temple but at end it was maa ka shakti!! As for draths We don't know yet if she feels guilty or not! Even im waiting for at least little scene about neil! But hey they dont even show arhu missing neil! Thats the fault of the makers! If she follow everything abhi said their wouldn't be a baby in the first place! There won't be a story! But whatever abhi did on that day is unjustifiable! I'm sorry 😞 I didn't expect that off abhi!

Yes it's all writers fault... End of the day it's just a fiction...
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bhoomi8900648


That's the point cleared in the show itself l. Yes she got stomach cramps and no one is saying she shouldn't have gone out to take medical help for cramps but what happened after concert is not some freak accident or destiny or beyond someone control . What happened after it was decisions made by two people . In which one manipulated the other one to make the decision to go for the concert location.

Then the chain of event happened and don't try to make it sound like some freak accident if neil car got into accident then story would have been different but here decisions were made and those decisions cost people their life .

Ok knowing akshu what should have niel done.... Knowing abhi and aaru what should he have done he could have told akshu no bhabhi your health is important and we will go back home... Akshu kept her pov niel was the decision maker here and he screwed it up royally but voh toh mar chuka hai toh usse kuch nahi bolte...

Akshu is mad then let her be she is having a peaceful life with abhinav and abhir why disturb her... But still why can't we focus on abhi moving on it would be good na... Woh toh bahut acha hai aaru suffering let them be happy together

But nahi ab problem yeh hai sabko ki akshu kyun peaceful hai

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