Makers are trying hard to show Dhara as a bechari helpless and super positive, but viewers especially who have thoroughly followed the show know the loopholes in her character.
The mistakes committed by others were either harmful for them or their partners but the actions committed by Dhara are always intentional and she lands the entire family into trouble because no matter how bitter it is but the truth is everyone has made their lives revolve around Dhara. I feel Rishita when she came into this family. Respecting and loving is a thing but blindly sacrificing everything and everybody except for her is something overboard.
Dev Dhara Pandya has fought with his wife numerous times for her without understanding the logic behind her words. It was right on his part to make her respect elders but forcing her to turn blind was some other level. Though she has a bitter tongue but she speaks logic most of the times. She is selfish but she is practical. She just wants good for herself and doesn't pray for anyone's sorrow. But for DDP , DP was always right even if she is burning down the house. He improved a little when he supported his wife. Not because it was against his Bhabhi but because he should take up the responsibility of what he has gotten into. Something called marriage.
Shiva Dhara Pandya has always been extremist. He does everything to an extreme level. For him the definition of right is Dhara Pandya and definition of wrong is everything else. He has never judged a situation with his own brains. Mind it never. For everything he has a comeback "Bhabhi kaise galat ho sakti hai ". Even for his wife, till she was supportive and loving towards Dhara, he liked her. Once she raised her voice for her own rights in the family she became a vamp for him. Clearly center of his universe is Dhara.
Don't want to comment anything on Gaumbi as he is blind enough to not recover in his next 6 births.
Even after knowing and analysing all of this since the start of first leap or I should say after DevTa and ShiVi's first marriage how do you expect the viewers to feel for Dhara.
Majority of the people feel for Raavi and the left ones feel for Rishita.
She has spent 10 years of her life as a happily married wife and a loved woman in the family. What was given to Raavi and Rishita? Just two years of their marriage and 2000 kaands.
Dhara is not a bechari. Period....
Edited by sakshi.ekansh - 2 years ago