Originally posted by: scarlett22
How is anyone in the story not seeing it? Not even Sonali & Omkar. That two daughters in law left the house because of Pakhi. Two of their sons are miserable & suffering because of Pakhi.
I know there's never any build up to any character changing track in ghum. But it also is an interesting narrative especially if the pressure is to submit 7 episodes!!
Though Ghum used to do it before, private conversations between Sonali Omkar, or Mohit Karishma. I remember Sonali was so grateful to Sai for standing up for Mohit. Though she didn't express it in the open, she voiced it to Omkar. Now how come there's no complaint against Pakhi?
See there should be someone strong to voice out the opinions in any family. BK might have worked in the past but with changing times, that house needed Sai. Sonali and Omi were taking care of BK's business. they are dependent on her. Ninad is respected after Nagesh, may be because he has produced Virat...Ashwini was never anything to them. Samrat was loved because he is the nephew of the house. They pampered him. To show their love towards him, BK selected the beautiful girl form affluent family and thought they showed their love to Samrat, wiped off their hands. If we see closely, it is Samrat who owned that family. BK never owned Samrat. It was always Virat for her.
Virat was the onlly one important to her. Because he confirms to the RULES. He is obedient, respectful and takes everything without resistance. Samrat was never given any responsibility. He was always treated as guest. Again, it is Samrat who considered Virat and others as his family and willingly took care of the members.
In this way, CN household always reeked of hypocrisy. Virat is the face of BK's family and successor of her husband. She invested in him too much and took pride in him! what she didnt know is that Virat has his own mind. He took all his decisions independently. She cannot say anything to Virat, her favorite child so she blamed it on his wife!! Typical MIL of an orthodox household. Later she cant bear Virat and Sai taking decisions of the family. She wanted to control them. So she used Pakhi wisely against Sai. She made sure Pakhi will remain a conflict. She could have easily reprimanded Pakhi...like in miscarriage track but she chose not to.
Post leap, she has Virat who has become lifeless to voice any of his opinions and she had Pakhi who will confirm to her. Sonali and omi still remained quiet because their son started earning. They are okay to have a sad child who earns rather than a happy actor who struggled in his profession.
It is all family dynamics. All this hypocrisy helped Pakhi. No one was true in their nature... as Sai pointed out, everyone is unhappy. Pakhi thrived in this unhappiness because atleast she got what she always wanted...being the wife of most cherished son of the family, Virat.
Now, if Sai starts fixing them all...they will feel the difference :D having lived pathetic few years without her. They will truly understand what Sai means to the family. I HOPE
Edited by sadiltl - 3 years ago