Originally posted by: vibecheck
watching nimmo's breakdown with her dad now. not everyone might agree with this but people have their own relationships with their parents - kuch logon ka hota hai rishta where they can be open and honest and show emotions and that's the vibe i'm getting from nimmo and her dad. he doesn't look hurt to me. it seems like he has already seen this before and knows that his daughter reacts like this from time to time. he's taking it very calmly. this is very different from how family visits typically go because usually the hms accept whatever is said and continue to do their own thing. aise typically log nahi react karte with their families on camera and that too when they are seeing them after a hundred days. so in that sense, it is rude but it's not the end of the world and nimmo doesn't need to be canceled for "disrespecting" her dad when her dad doesn't have issues with it😆 now shifting to the actual contents of the convo - i'm sticking to what i said yesterday. nimmo is an idiot. her dad has clearly seen things outside and knows the reality of how the audience is perceiving nimmo. isko several wake up calls mil chuke hain and dhakkey chupay aur direct hints bhi mil chuke hain to show her individuality. her dad is telling her the same thing. chalo bb and sallu ki baat nahi maanni thi to apne dad ki to maano at least. he knows what's going on and that's why he is offering you this advice. yeh khud bahar aye gi to shock mein chali jae gi once she sees how people view her. wkw pe iski aaj tak bashing nahi hui to she thinks she has always been in the right and people love her. she keeps telling her dad that she gets his point and doesn't want him to repeat himself - iski wajah yeh hai k is loser to mandli k bagair khelna hi nahi hai. it's comforting to have the safety net from the mandli or abhi to yeh jaan k oblivious bani rehti hai k mujhe to mandli ki sachai pata hi nahi hai. per jab is k dad isko sachai bata rahe hain mandli ki to ofc she doesn't want to hear it because isko koi action lena parhe ga. sach jaan k bhi mandli k sath reh gi to it reflects badly on her so she wants him to stay quiet and not comment on this stuff so she can continue to act oblivious. kuch logon k liye apni individuality dekhana zaroori nahi hota, they are happy to go as far as possible by playing safe and if that safety is coming from the mandli who doesn't trust her, so be it. usko ko ghanta farq nahi parhta. isko end tak un ki safety mein jana hai without doing much on her own and her dad is ruining that for her by exposing that the mandli doesn't trust her and all lol
Even if he had issues, or didn't like the way she reacted, what was he supposed to do? He cannot react like her and create a further scene right? That would only make a spectacle of his and his daughter..why would he want that for her when he knows he will be leaving next day? Its not like others parents didn't counsel their kids but no one reacted the way Nimrit did that's why it got telecasted because makers love drama and Nimrit gave them that at the expense of her and her father's reputation..I particularly didn't like the way she commented on bad parenting.. the way she pushed him away when he was trying to calm her down..that was disrespectful..I said that in my earlier post that her father shouldn't have pushed her beyond a point because its too late in the game for her to flip on her friends and do what he was asking her to do.. She got frustrated and so hyper because she knows what he is saying is right but didn't want him to say it out loud on camera because in a way he was validating what others have been saying -that Nimrit is lost in mandali..That's why she kept saying two things 1) I understand, I am not dumb and 2) You don't have to vocalize everything ergo say those things out loud .. When she understood her dad is not gonna back down, she threw a fit of anger and deviated the whole thing to bad parenting, how he badgers her, never appreciates her etc etc etc.. Her father obviously was desperate to help her and that intent of a parent outweighed other logistics -like how he should not be telling Shiv that she will distance herself from him because he told her to so..that was an innocent mistake.