GHKPM daily episode discussion thread #87 - Page 49

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Okay true. But if someone sees doesn't seem. Looks as if he's nice and understanding to P and bad to Sai.

But P knows the difference in his reactions to Sai and herself during miscarriage.

Even the yrkkh ML was ruthless and didn't console his wife when she had twins ka miscarriage and asked divorce. He didn't bother when she went off.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am not supporting him or anything. But these two situations are different for Virat.

Sai's miscarriage, he was part of that dream and process. Having a child with Sai is his dream/passion. He went through miscarriage as if he cannot become father again for Sai's child. It took a toll on him.

He is a 3rd person in Pakhi's infertility. He has no will or plan to have another child, not with Pakhi. He is not "present" in the process. He is helping her as a third person.

With Sai's pregnancy, he needed help. There is a lot of difference. Once, he is out of his state, he had blissful conjugal life with his wife. He made her feel wanted and desired.

Here, we have to see how much "emotional" support or "warmth" he can provide Pakhi. With Sai, he made sure she will not feel "unwanted", they had good physical love. Here obviously he cant provide any such love or even the "warmth" of a lover. I THINK. He might prove me wrong.

They. are bringing parallels here. And I see a lot of difference.

What Virat has done by hiding the truth is absolutely hateworthy. But his reactions to both miscarriages have stark difference in my opinon

I agree. I hate how they've made him post leap. To me the biggest blunder was him bailing Pakhi out knowingly within same day after surrogacy kaand exposure. They just killed his character & the ship with that. Another was how he let Pakhi slap Sai thrice drag her physically during her pregnancy chalo woh toh phirbhi they gave justification but bailing P out was just.

The lil bits & pieces I've come across of his reaction to Pakhi's infertility doesn't even seem that upset (not only cus he already has 2 kids or doesn't want any such thing with Pakhi), it's like hogaya get over it from today's episode. He's mainly concerned about her not giving up on her life.

About hug or whatever idk but they usually put better episodes on Sunday's plus last week they saw a drop with ViRakhi honeymoon...

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

The virat who abandoned his love /wife during her infertility period to the extent of not sharing room with her now doing everything to console his current wife/ex bhabi/current duty whatever in her bad phase 👌🏽.

Originally posted by: Rosyme

By the way P still doesn't know that V has 2 kids with Sai. But Virat knows that and he's content within himself I guess.

She s thinking that he has only one kid.

She will be so jealous when she knows about Vinu.

But then will claim him as she has given birth. So one new affection will develop.

Thats why I say Pakhi's actions can be explained only if she is in depression. Her actions and words makes no sense.

For example: She assumes Virat wants a child from her and keeps blaming herself that she cant give one to him. Who is asking? She forgets that Virat has a child already who he dotes. And Vinu is his kid. Even without his truth, virat always considered vinu as his own. While she behaves obsessed and concerned with Vinu, she laments she doesnt have a kid with Virat. Who does that? Either she is acting with Vinu, or she doenst know what she is saying or doing.

Only BK is asking for kid, Ashwini also doesnt want kid from her. She only wants a conjugal life for her son. Once BK accepts Savi, or Mohit begets a child, she might not bother about kid from her. So it is her WILL to give Virat something to tie him up with her. Why is she tying him up with her when she knows his heart is not with her? So yeah she is not changed. If she is not changed, why is Virat so indebted to her? Didnt he blast her on cafe meet day and threatened to break his marriage with her? He also asked her not to blackmail him with adoption thing. Then why is he sacrificing his own kid for her? Because she is suicidal.

Thats the conclusion I draw. The solution for this is to send her to rehabilitation, or give her the LOVE she needs. It is not vinu that she needs, it is him and his love.

Originally posted by: Shree15

This is all what is on paper, problem happens in Execution, they never give such meaningful scenes for Sai and Virat.

100% true.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes we can debate. But what I understood is Virat was "depressed" after Sai's miscrriage. a person under depression loses sense of right and worng. they BROOD. It is clinical and pathological. cant explain with regular terms.

Yes one thing he should have done is make sure no one in the family irritates Sai, which I think he didnt do. he never handled that with sai and family members from the beginning.

I do agree that even Pakhi dying should not have forced him to keep vinu's truth from sai. but he did. read my next post. it is on similar lines why he does that. He is wired like that.

He saw his pregnant wife getting abused for straight 15 days, where the love for child gone at that time? Adjusting flowers at samrat photo was more important for him than taking his pregnant wife to their room who just confessed she wants to die.

The person who is dying to have kid with sai wouldn't watch her abuse silently for weeks. Wouldn't choose a criminal over having family with sai & his kid.

Where's the consistency? I see virat's desperation to have kid with sai only in words not in actions. Post leap there is no words too.

Originally posted by: Mikis

But medically she can't do anything anyways it's a major surgery so what will she blackmail for? This whole thing happened because of her rush to go on a HM

So he can only give verbal assurances anyways he can't give anything else even if she blackmails for it .... technically she should be on full bed rest for quite some time so what else can she want ? Can he do?

it's medically not possible yet ....they'd have to wait months for her to heal ....I know I'm speaking logically lol which is not how ITV works but still they can't be that stupid ?!

i mean eventually physical love. But atleast he can give husbandly love right. Like he does with sai. i mean not s*x, but love and comfort.

Originally posted by: Shree15

Yes yes I completely agree with you, this is what it is looks like on paper, in Sai's miscarriage he had a breakdown coz he was involved, it's them who faced it but with Pakhi, clearly he is not involved in thef dream of having child, he is kind of content with Vinu and Savi, he even said her that he will not be able to understand her pain, so it was clearly came from third person, while with Sai, he was in pain too, just like her........

This is all what is on paper, problem happens in Execution, they never give such meaningful scenes for Sai and Virat, they didn't even let them grieve the loss of their first child togather, the narrative immidietely jumped on to Surrogacy and Pakhi's crass planning, Sai and Virat togather as a couple had very very less SS even though they were in love whereas Pakhi and Virat as couple has very much SS togather even though they are not in love, the thing is that all this that Sairat were happy couple during Surrogacy and all were never shown, it was implied bcoz Savi happened, if they wanted they could've atleast show some 1-2 romantic scene to compensate during that track, but what all the audience made to see is Virat taking care of Pakhi in pregnancy and Sai being kept away, and suddenly when Sai leaves she became pregnant and we were made to assume, oh they were happy and much in love couple 🤷🏻‍♀️

The thing is the Execution and the placements of scenes are all over the place, that the real narrative isn't coming across and draws a very ambiguous and confusing image in viewer's mind, it's their biggest failure.........

They did give some nice scenes post miscarriage. It was lot better than whatever they showed in first few months after the leap.

Originally posted by: Shree15

Yes yes I completely agree with you, this is what it is looks like on paper, in Sai's miscarriage he had a breakdown coz he was involved, it's them who faced it but with Pakhi, clearly he is not involved in the dream of having child, he is kind of content with Vinu and Savi, he even said her that he will not be able to understand her pain, so it was clearly came from third person, while with Sai, he was in pain too, just like her........

This is all what is on paper, problem happens in Execution, they never give such meaningful scenes for Sai and Virat, they didn't even let them grieve the loss of their first child togather, the narrative immidietely jumped on to Surrogacy and Pakhi's crass planning, Sai and Virat togather as a couple had very very less SS even though they were in love whereas Pakhi and Virat as couple has very much SS togather even though they are not in love, the thing is that all this that Sairat were happy couple during Surrogacy and all were never shown, it was implied bcoz Savi happened, if they wanted they could've atleast show some 1-2 romantic scene to compensate during that track, but what all the audience made to see is Virat taking care of Pakhi in pregnancy and Sai being kept away, and suddenly when Sai leaves she became pregnant and we were made to assume, oh they were happy and much in love couple 🤷🏻‍♀️

The thing is the Execution and the placements of scenes are all over the place, that the real narrative isn't coming across and draws a very ambiguous and confusing image in viewer's mind, it's their biggest failure.........

his reactions to sai's miscarriage will have different meaning after watching him now. sometimes, after a while into the story we get a full perspective.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

his reactions to sai's miscarriage will have different meaning after watching him now. sometimes, after a while into the story we get a full perspective.

Pakhi knows the exact difference he showed during Sai s miscarriage then and now. She was peeping through the door and watching him hug Sai then n the saffron colour dress.

She wants Virat also to feel like how he felt for Sai.

Even Virat and the audience except a few may not know that he's just helping now , but was upset himself before leap.