GHKPM daily episode discussion thread #87 - Page 48

Originally posted by: RejiBuji

Yeh admi shirt nahi badla abi Tak or did she discharge on same day or another shirt in same color?

Hahaha I swear that was my first thought too!!! Lol 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Okay true.

Even the yrkkh ML was ruthless and didn't console his wife when she had twins ka miscarriage and asked divorce. He didn't bother when she went off.

See virat is hard to decipher. He is not normal. Sherry was saying this in one of her posts and I agree. His fetish to become "mahaan" by sacrificing himself and his family is a malignant disease. These peopel dont know how to balance to the point of making terrible mistakes. they have to be left alone serving the family and the world. Having family with such people is pain.

The only way he can solve all these problems is to give LOVE to Pakhi. But he will not do that. Why? because he will not do something his heart is not willing to. but he does everything else, gives his time and space. wealth and comfort even his kids. Instead he can give his love to pakhi and save others from this torture. but he will not do it . If he gives his LOVE to Pakhi, she will easily let go vinu also. So in my opinion, if he truly loves Sai, he should give VInu to Sai and live a compromised life with Pakhi. I have come to this conclusion.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am not supporting him or anything. But these two situations are different for Virat.

Sai's miscarriage, he was part of that dream and process. Having a child with Sai is his dream/passion. He went through miscarriage as if he cannot become father again for Sai's child. It took a toll on him.

He is a 3rd person in Pakhi's infertility. He has no will or plan to have another child, not with Pakhi. He is not "present" in the process. He is helping her as a third person.

With Sai's pregnancy, he needed help. There is a lot of difference. Once, he is out of his state, he had blissful conjugal life with his wife. He made her feel wanted and desired.

Here, we have to see how much "emotional" support or "warmth" he can provide Pakhi. With Sai, he made sure she will not feel "unwanted", they had good physical love. Here obviously he cant provide any such love or even the "warmth" of a lover. I THINK. He might prove me wrong.

They. are bringing parallels here. And I see a lot of difference.

What Virat has done by hiding the truth is absolutely hateworthy. But his reactions to both miscarriages have stark difference in my opinon

Virat can feel whatever for his loss of child. But him leaving sai on the spot when he got to know about her infertility not caring to console her. Is having physical relationship only a sign of security? How he didn't made her feel unwanted when he literally left her to herself in the phase where she needed his support the most.

He gave her physical security ONLY WHEN sai herself went to him, talked to him, gave him ideas of surrogacy. Had she didn't done that, he would have busy in sulking himself not bothering about her.

What kind of love is this when u avoid the person in their most vulnerable situation just because you are sad?

And virat is acting as third person in pakhi Infertility? He is literally snatching sai kid for pakhi. How it can be seen as third person reaction.

He is asking his kaku to not hurt pakhi regarding her infertility when the same man kept his mouth shut when kaku called sai infertile infront of him.

I am not that much mature to understand this kind of love.

Makers made V stoop so low by recreating Sai V scenes that now even if he shows a small emotion and concern for P, it looks genuine .

They should have kept him aloof earlier and not shared a room also.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

between where were you these days? Upset with show and not watching?

it is definitely morbit. Friday episode was black day of sorts for me

I feel entire show is black day 🤣

No I'm not getting back until there's a shift in the narrative. Neither I'll be keen onto stay wait forever in the hope of seeing Sai getting her justice someday.

By the way P still doesn't know that V has 2 kids with Sai. But Virat knows that and he's content within himself I guess.

She s thinking that he has only one kid.

She will be so jealous when she knows about Vinu.

But then will claim him as she has given birth. So one new affection will develop.

Yes we can debate. But what I understood is Virat was "depressed" after Sai's miscrriage. a person under depression loses sense of right and worng. they BROOD. It is clinical and pathological. cant explain with regular terms.

Yes one thing he should have done is make sure no one in the family irritates Sai, which I think he didnt do. he never handled that with sai and family members from the beginning.

I do agree that even Pakhi dying should not have forced him to keep vinu's truth from sai. but he did. read my next post. it is on similar lines why he does that. He is wired like that.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

He can only hug her if she needs comfort. what else can he provide. Not physical love, which will be needed the most under such circumstances :) which he provided to sai after few days.

So he might hug her. She will definitely want his attention more. But he could only give words. unless she blackmails.

But medically she can't do anything anyways it's a major surgery so what will she blackmail for? This whole thing happened because of her rush to go on a HM

So he can only give verbal assurances anyways he can't give anything else even if she blackmails for it .... technically she should be on full bed rest for quite some time so what else can she want ? Can he do?

it's medically not possible yet ....they'd have to wait months for her to heal ....I know I'm speaking logically lol which is not how ITV works but still they can't be that stupid ?!

V is capable of having sex to make P feel "wanted" . He has agreed to new single bed, gone on honeymoon, allowed her to get physically close so next step is sex. I won't put it past him. He has no integrity or shame. He can do anything and still justify it. And the audience that defends him also will go along with it. They may also defend- sex kiya but without love, so it was just physical, not emotional. Kehne ko any justification is possible. Basically his misdeeds never stop but makers keep WW and while majority hate him and want Sai to move on, that wont happen either. And the minority who still root for Sai V despite all his despicable behavior will say- fate hai, divine pyaar hai, he still loves Sai and crap like that.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I am not supporting him or anything. But these two situations are different for Virat.

Sai's miscarriage, he was part of that dream and process. Having a child with Sai is his dream/passion. He went through miscarriage as if he cannot become father again for Sai's child. It took a toll on him.

He is a 3rd person in Pakhi's infertility. He has no will or plan to have another child, not with Pakhi. He is not "present" in the process. He is helping her as a third person.

With Sai's pregnancy, he needed help. There is a lot of difference. Once, he is out of his state, he had blissful conjugal life with his wife. He made her feel wanted and desired.

Here, we have to see how much "emotional" support or "warmth" he can provide Pakhi. With Sai, he made sure she will not feel "unwanted", they had good physical love. Here obviously he cant provide any such love or even the "warmth" of a lover. I THINK. He might prove me wrong.

They. are bringing parallels here. And I see a lot of difference.

What Virat has done by hiding the truth is absolutely hateworthy. But his reactions to both miscarriages have stark difference in my opinon

Yes yes I completely agree with you, this is what it is looks like on paper, in Sai's miscarriage he had a breakdown coz he was involved, it's them who faced it but with Pakhi, clearly he is not involved in the dream of having child, he is kind of content with Vinu and Savi, he even said her that he will not be able to understand her pain, so it was clearly came from third person, while with Sai, he was in pain too, just like her........

This is all what is on paper, problem happens in Execution, they never give such meaningful scenes for Sai and Virat, they didn't even let them grieve the loss of their first child togather, the narrative immidietely jumped on to Surrogacy and Pakhi's crass planning, Sai and Virat togather as a couple had very very less SS even though they were in love whereas Pakhi and Virat as couple has very much SS togather even though they are not in love, the thing is that all this that Sairat were happy couple during Surrogacy and all were never shown, it was implied bcoz Savi happened, if they wanted they could've atleast show some 1-2 romantic scene to compensate during that track, but what all the audience made to see is Virat taking care of Pakhi in pregnancy and Sai being kept away, and suddenly when Sai leaves she became pregnant and we were made to assume, oh they were happy and much in love couple 🤷🏻‍♀️

The thing is the Execution and the placements of scenes are all over the place, that the real narrative isn't coming across and draws a very ambiguous and confusing image in viewer's mind, it's their biggest failure.........