Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #228 - Page 36

Originally posted by: anoniya

That is the worst part. It really does appear as if they are more concerned about Dhara's feelings than the baby's health. All the dialogues revolved around her rather than the need to save the child. They were also shown easily giving up when Shweta refused to take the medicine and getting angry rather than worried. At least they could have informed her parents about this if calling child services isn't on option for whatever reason.

Even a nobody wont leave a baby in trouble while bhabhima and her minions were doing drama making stupid decision..all they r upset abt is not having the child for themselves without taking the criminal in..

These stupid annadaathas come from mars or even far away planet..i really cant believe they come from a human civilisation🤪

Originally posted by: deeps07

Hilarious part is dev has the audacity to say bhabhis psycho love is more than rishithas love..thats bhabhis parvarish..comparing anyone with bhabhi and belittling them over her..🤪

Funny thing is..if rishitha was in bhabhis position, choosing her baby wont bring her babies real mother as attachment..its her own child legally idiot...while bhabhi ia bringing kisi aur ka bacha who has a criminal for a mother as a permanent attachment..🤪

Comparing Rishita's her love for her child with that of Dhara's for Shweta's baby and even going so far as to deem it as the lesser one was nothing but absolutely insensitive and awful behaviour.

No one has a problem with Dhara bringing the baby back or even adopting him, the issue they have is with Shweta coming back. How that seems acceptable to them even after her truth is out is something beyond what us mere viewers can comprehend. As I stated earlier, this show is the very embodiment of "How fast the night changes".

Originally posted by: anoniya

I don't understand how Dhara and Rishita can even be compared in this situation. It would have been a different matter if Dhara had actually adopted the child legally and then had him taken away from her. But fact is even after Shweta and Krish's marriage the child was still Shweta's and there weren't even talks of giving him to Dhara.

Shouldn't the grandparents be the obvious choice to be the ones to take care of the baby? Why not keep trying to persuade them if actually concerned about his well-being. Emotional blackmail is everyone's favourite tool in this show so wouldn't now be the right time to use it against them.

Also, Dhara was shown overly attached to the child from Day 1 and they were all concerned by it. Why is it not seen the same way now? She is literally talking about bringing someone, who committed so many crimes, back into the house and the brothers aren't even bothered about the family's safety. Even Suman is okay with letting Dhara deciding this all on her own.

Dev’s underhand comment about Bhabima’s love for Chikku is more than Rishita’s love for Chutki was disgusting. He needs to be called out for that. He thinks Bhabima is the only epitome of how a mother should be.

Grand parents don’t want to take any responsibility for both Shweta nor Chiku. They are not going to lift a spoon in this matter and wants Kandyas to deal with their daughter .

Suman is written in such a way that her emotional manipulation will only work with Raavi. As for others they ambush her and don’t even hear her out properly. She is now become a dummy in that house as every single decision is made by Bhabima 😆

Writers have messed up all the characters and tracks. Even amidst all they are surviving only because of the TRPs, else this is one show that deserves to be booted out ASAP

As a parent, you help guide your children until they are 16-18.

Till12-13 they are your children, then they start being their own person. Once 16-18 you have to nudge them off the comfort nest. For them to learn, grow.

you start making them independent, let them make decisions, let them do their chores, learn from taking responsibility of decisions, choices- all while always guiding them as needed. That’s life. That’s how healthy families grow, thrive!

Not gaslighting, worrying about control, pushing grown children to comply in any & all of your own agendas. that is bullying. That is control freak trait.

that’s what Dhara is doing. Todays convo showed how she wants everything & everyone under control.

If anyone seems talking different- she asserts her control on her grown up devars. Blackmailing on the name of parvarish.

Gautam & dhara both are unfit to raise children.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I understand all your questions, but these writers are so shallow and they don’t think any of this through. They just want to show Shiva- Raavi arguing with opposite view points with respect to Bhabima and want to show Shiva compensating for all he did or say to Bhabima..

Devars have always supported Bhabima in all her wrong decisions, no questions asked. They think her decisions are set in stone except

- Dev once went against Bhabima during Bhabi- Baby- Babu track after the robbery happened and he sided with Rishita and chose to leave the house citing that Bhabima with her stupid decisions failed to protect Rishita .
- Shiva was livid with Bhabima for arranging Raavi abd his Jabariya shaadi without tellimg him and most importantly lying to him. He confronted her and made her accept that she indeed was wrong in getting them married like how sge had planned without his consent.

Otherwise they pretty much agree with everything she does including the silliest of the silly ones like selling the house to pay back the insurance so she can bring Shiva back home, Bhabima has dine plenty of kaands which is always supported by the bandhars.

Also your question about Raavi getting the same privilege as Dhara in making her decisions, if it had bern before Shweta’s kaand, Raavi would not have had a chance, since Shweta kaand, Raavi is taking some stance on her own and trying to make decisions for herself instead of relying on Bhabima, which is a good thing. If at all Bhabima brings Shweta and Chiku back home, it will be interesting to see what decision Raavi will take. Rishita is firm that she will leave the house with Chutki and I want Raavi to leave too.

For some bizarre reason they are showing that loving someone, at least a parent figure, means putting them on some sort of pedestal where everything they say and do is always seen as correct. It is not only acceptable for them to behave however they wish to but also their right.

I am glad Raavi is now shown as being more vocal about her feelings and Shiva isn't just outright refusing to listen to her. How long this will last is unknown but I do hope the power dynamics do not go back to being as skewed as earlier where she wasn't allowed a say in any matter, not even that of her own.

I would love for Raavi to leave that house if Shweta does come back (actually even if she doesn't) and, if Shiva refuses to accompany her, to throw all his promises of love & support back at him and be done with him as well.

Originally posted by: deeps07

Even a nobody wont leave a baby in trouble while bhabhima and her minions were doing drama making stupid decision..all they r upset abt is not having the child for themselves without taking the criminal in..

These stupid annadaathas come from mars or even further planet..i really cant believe they come from a human civilisation🤪

Shouldn't the family be the one with all the cards since they have the power to send Shweta to jail? I don't understand how they can be shown at her mercy instead.

Not prioritising the child even after claiming to love him shows them all in such a bad light - not just Shweta but also her parents and this whole family. This can't possibly be something the writers are oblivious to.

Hope annadata’s don’t go full crazy justifying bhabhi’s obsession & make devars go against their biwis.

Here we ask family’s batwara, they show Bhabhi keeping all 4 bachchas -3 bigda bailbuddhis & 1 poor infant.

If devars do get offended by Wives telling truth, wives concerns: too bad for them- let biwis go away!

Let them stay in Bhabhi ke charan forever.

They deserve lifeless life.

As soon as synopsis was released I had replied to Preeti that Bhabima will be back to obsessing on Chiku in the next episode and that’s exactly what’s happening per the precap which was not released earlier.

Gombi is trying first to convince Shweta to give Chiku for adoption but she has huge demands and he is not going to be successful.
So, my feeling is that this time they might use the devars to get Shweta back with Chiku as a payback for what all Bhabima did for them all these years. So if Shweta comes back Bhabima will not be blamed at all, at the same time devars lives will be ruined as per the storyline and Shweta’s revenge.
This show is becoming so predictable and day by day it is stooping so low that the writers are scratching the bottom of the barrel😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Dev’s underhand comment about Bhabima’s love for Chikku is more than Rishita’s love for Chutki was disgusting. He needs to be called out for that. He thinks Bhabima is the only epitome of how a mother should be.

Grand parents don’t want to take any responsibility for both Shweta nor Chiku. They are not goimg to lift a spoon in this matter and wants Kandyas to deal with their faighter.

Suman is written in such a way that her emotional manipulation will only work with Raavi. As for others they ambush her and don’t even hear her out properly. She is now become a dummy in that house as every single decision is made by Bhabima 😆

Writers have messed up all the characters and tracks. Even amidst all they are surviving only because of the TRPs, else this is one show deserve to be booted out ASAP

I am also surprised Rishita just let it go. I would not have held it against her even if she had chosen to create a scene about it.

No one there is thinking properly or willing to do the right thing. Everyone has other priorities than the baby's safety and well-being. And these are all "positive" characters.

I genuinely don't understand how such tracks can get these kind of ratings and, like everyone else here, hope they start going down soon.

Ugh! Why can’t Raavi go live on social media now and expose Dhara and swetha?! Ek teer se do shikar. Call the cops on both their asses.