Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #227 - Page 104

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

If they have to show dhara's control freak traits pls don't glorify it atleast say she has issues because her own mother left her or abdoned so she is like that that's why she is a control freak if this family

But nahi kisse umeed rakh rahe hai

I don't think they even realise how wrong it all is it's makes Shiva look bad , that yes usko naukri se problem thi , it makes raavi look bad that she actually had wrong intentions

Suman calls her throwing 2 bahus out, calling names, believing ravi to have aborted another guys child..and when truth got revealed..she called dhara inside..and said to take markundi gay along..and this is called mothers love?

This show is a gali on these writers parents actually..i wonder what they did that these annadaaths has a very disgusting mentality towards family and relationship..

Originally posted by: mpks1

So what are they trying to imply regarding Bhabima’s dialogue that she will interfere in Kandya members lives and make decisions for them?

Are they implying that everyone else in Kandya family is stupid and make mistakes except Bhabima, who is the only smart cookie in the entire world and only she has the right to rectify it? They also promptly give her dialogues to dare question her by anyone in Kandya Niwas about her kaands and adhbutness. All the writers do, brush aside her kaands whitewashing all her past, present and future mistakes.😡

I mean..what is wrong even if everyone else in the family makes mistakes and bhabhi ma is the only women in the whole world who got adbhud peanut brain..its their life..their mistake..let them do their mistake..learn from it. Or not learn from it..ruin it..save it...do whatever..it should be their actions and their decisions...What gives her the right to ruin it in fear of mistake before even a mistake is made..🤪..and this whole control thing comes from a women who can't even remember their.phone number or store number when an emergency comes..🤪

Originally posted by: deeps07

I too would have viewed it that way if it was frm any other sensible writers..but coming from annadaathas..i am sure its just ravi is a dobi and she is not that deep to deal with the demons in the name of a family.. .🤪

I agree they haven't planned for this but it still does appear that way to me.

When the people you love and trust constantly undermine you, blame you for everything and downplay your suffering it becomes difficult to hold on to the belief that you are not the one in the wrong but in fact the one who was wronged.

Not having even one single person standing by you makes it easy for the doubts to creep in and to start believing all the lies being fed to you. Such things can have extremely deep-rooted psychological impacts and in today's time, when there is much more awareness about mental health, it should not be acceptable to make light of these things.

Originally posted by: anoniya

I agree they haven't planned for this but it still does appear that way to me.

When the people you love and trust constantly undermine you, blame you for everything and downplay your suffering it becomes difficult to hold on to the belief that you are not the one in the wrong but in fact the one who was wronged.

Not having even one single person standing by you makes it easy for the doubts to creep in and to start believing all the lies being fed to you. Such things can have extremely deep-rooted psychological impacts and in today's time, when there is much more awareness about mental health, it should not be acceptable to make light of these things.

It wont even be addressed ever...thats what they r enabling by making a joke out of Ravis feelings..and glorifying fake love of the so called pariwaar.

Originally posted by: spdp

@bold: True. Let’s hope he has started changing.
though have no hopes we will get anything substantial in ShiVi’s progress.

They will be used for buzz & we will get some lollipops. That’s it.

@bold2: absolutely. Work/ no work should be her own decision. She should work & her & Shiva both need done financial independence.
leaving it all to unstable folks like Dhara-Dilin an-gombi is harakiri.

Don’t get what they want to convey?

If a woman runs ‘gruhUdyog’ pakad achar gig: she is great.

But if a woman goes out to work, if a woman goes newage gig like influencer: she is bad? Open for all insinuating character Assassinations?

I donot get brazen attitude of writers saying this is how it works.
As a story teller: why not show problem & follow up with positive reactions, responses- how Anupamaa does.

If they don't show any growth even now then everything said and done just becomes meaningless.

The importance of financial independence and also learning to have control of and managing one's own money should not be trivialised. It doesn't make sense for one person to have complete control over everyone's money and for the adults, even part of a joint family, to keep having to ask before using it.

I also don't understand what exactly they are trying to convey about women working outside the house and family business. Again, hoping they don't end it with Dhara being shown correct in her decision or her way of going about it.

For some bizarre reason they really do appear to have an aversion to showing anything positive or progressive. The only thing that might force them to change is the ratings plummeting but since that isn't happening...

Of my god...Suman's reaction when ravi says..ap meri ache keliye dantoge..🤣🤣🤣🤣

This must have been the toughest acting krithika ji might ever had to do..she clearly looks mocking at that dialogue..🤣

Bhabhi needs to see a psychiatrist..she needs help🤪

Originally posted by: deeps07

It wont even be addressed ever...thats what they r enabling by making a joke out of Ravis feelings..and glorifying fake love of the so called pariwaar.

I have made peace with that but I still don't understand their thought process behind not actually showing the family treating her well but just pretending as if they are and also wanting the audience to take that as the truth. It makes absolutely no sense.

If they hadn't taken everything to such extremes and instead kept it lighthearted then this had the potential for being a wonderful and enjoyable show with all sorts of personalities living under one roof.

Originally posted by: anoniya

I have made peace with that but I still don't understand their thought process behind not actually showing the family treating her well but just pretending as if they are and also wanting the audience to take that as the truth. It makes absolutely no sense.

If they hadn't taken everything to such extremes and instead kept it lighthearted then this had the potential for being a wonderful and enjoyable show with all sorts of personalities living under one roof.

Inke bass ke baath nahin hein..thats why haveli times were good..things were simple and sweet until kangan kaand..after that annadaathas started showing their rang..i will never be able to understand or relate with any of the characters in this show..

Originally posted by: deeps07

Suman calls her throwing 2 bahus out, calling names, believing ravi to have aborted another guys child..and when truth got revealed..she called dhara inside..and said to take markundi gay along..and this is called mothers love?

This show is a gali on these writers parents actually..i wonder what they did that these annadaaths has a very disgusting mentality towards family and relationship..

Suman is closet drug addict basss aur mein koi justification nahi de sakti 😆

Sorry but no sorry