Episode 693 - Page 29

Today for a moment I thought Patralekha herself wrote the episode...

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

This situation is not a question of right or wrong...it's about how A & B react to a situation and how that has consequences...and how both must learn to change their responses to handle that difficult circumstances better. Atleast that's how I am reading the situation. Since Virat is such a dicey fellow, it's hard to see his pov..but in Savi's case, I don't see his actions as selfish.

For any person, a child comes before everyone, including spouse. Virat's circumstances are unusual...he got to know he has a child...missed her growing years...and there was still a threat of Sai taking her away. That's a very painful situation. So Virat taking unilateral decisions is from his emotions of fear of losing his child....purely from the POV of a father. It was an unexpected, unusual circumstance and Virat responded by choosing Savi over everyone else. What Pakhi felt is her side of the story..which will be valid from her POV as wife. She responded by secretly meeting Sai and asking her to go away to another place with her daughter. That was a wrong move on her part. Similarly, Virat staying in Sai's house was not correct but it is still understandable ...because of the circumstances. Pakhi on the other hand is justified in her anger. I might ruffle a few feathers but as long as she doesn't harm Savi, feeling resentment against her is also fine. If everyone did everything perfectly in a relationship, nobody will get divorced. People make mistakes but if the relationship has to survive, they have to learn to work together..and that requires a lot of trust, lot of work...otherwise it will not survive ...that's all.

The bottom-line is both Pakhi & Virat are trying to make success of a relationship that has no future and somewhere they both know it. Pakhi should leave Virat, find a job & raise Vinu alone. Virat should try to first understand what he wants.

PS: My usual disclaimer. Pakhi & Virat - we are essentially analysing and being understanding towards the culprits of a Crime Patrol episode - they are the stars of this story along with their victim.

She expects luv n sex from virat which he can't give to her until he is willing to give her. So both Virat n pakhi should speak about this n take some sitatuation otherwise he always gives pakhi the importance n respect her

P behaved irresponsibly even though she was informed that he's staying back and she knew that they r going there for project work.

You know people are talking about more after IF released an article that had just one line - Virat considers himself guilty for Pakhi's deteriorating condition.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

This situation is not a question of right or wrong...it's about how A & B react to a situation and how that has consequences...and how both must learn to change their responses to handle that difficult circumstances better. Atleast that's how I am reading the situation. Since Virat is such a dicey fellow, it's hard to see his pov..but in Savi's case, I don't see his actions as selfish.

For any person, a child comes before everyone, including spouse. Virat's circumstances are unusual...he got to know he has a child...missed her growing years...and there was still a threat of Sai taking her away. That's a very painful situation. So Virat taking unilateral decisions is from his emotions of fear of losing his child....purely from the POV of a father. It was an unexpected, unusual circumstance and Virat responded by choosing Savi over everyone else. What Pakhi felt is her side of the story..which will be valid from her POV as wife. She responded by secretly meeting Sai and asking her to go away to another place with her daughter. That was a wrong move on her part. Similarly, Virat staying in Sai's house was not correct but it is still understandable ...because of the circumstances. Pakhi on the other hand is justified in her anger. I might ruffle a few feathers but as long as she doesn't harm Savi, feeling resentment against her is also fine. If everyone did everything perfectly in a relationship, nobody will get divorced. People make mistakes but if the relationship has to survive, they have to learn to work together..and that requires a lot of trust, lot of work...otherwise it will not survive ...that's all.

The bottom-line is both Pakhi & Virat are trying to make success of a relationship that has no future and somewhere they both know it. Pakhi should leave Virat, find a job & raise Vinu alone. Virat should try to first understand what he wants.

PS: My usual disclaimer. Pakhi & Virat - we are essentially analysing and being understanding towards the culprits of a Crime Patrol episode - they are the stars of this story along with their victim.

Well this I agree with,given the circumstances if Virat is not wrong in what he has been doing, so is not Pakhi as well , bcz for her as well there is sudden inclusion of the woman her husband loved once, with their child and Virat spending most time with the child and in turn her mother as well, his ex , given there is no marital relationship between him and herself.

So her insecurities & her resentment (lest she does not harm the child) can be understood..

Her world is at stake too..

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

You know people are talking about more after IF released an article that had just one line - Virat considers himself guilty for Pakhi's deteriorating condition.

What's wrong in that..even if we keep aside today's episode itself was triggering. Virat's character keeps flipping every episode as per their convenience just like fierce Sai.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

This situation is not a question of right or wrong...it's about how A & B react to a situation and how that has consequences...and how both must learn to change their responses to handle those difficult circumstances better. Atleast that's how I am reading the situation.

Btw this is the exact brief that has been given to the actors' post the leap. This was revealed by Neil in one of the interviews. You are right in reading the situation

Originally posted by: mysticriver

What's wrong in that..even if we keep aside today's episode itself was triggering. Virat's character keeps flipping every episode as per their convenience just like fierce Sai.

Virat has been flipping like good flippin burger and Sai is concerned about Patralekha also now. I just read someone had written that none of the characters are likable and in my mind, I just couldn't counter that. Now if Virat, Sai, and Patralekha are suffering, I am actually very glad because the three of them are just true blue idiots

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Virat has been flipping like good flippin burger and Sai is concerned about Patralekha also now. I just read someone had written that none of the characters are likable and in my mind, I just couldn't counter that. Now if Virat, Sai, and Patralekha are suffering, I am actually very glad because the three of them are just true blue idiots

I honestly don't understand what Virat exactly is suffering. I still can make sense of Pakhi's. She's insecured of Virat going towards Sai due to the connection of Savi or whatever... Everything has been chosen by Virat, it's him who gets to have the call shots on everything. He's the luckiest person by far in the show from the beginning to till now.

Samrat had to see his wife lusting for his brother.

Sai had to see Virat & Pakhi post leap.

Pakhi had to see Virat falling in love, had family and love life, kids, romancing Sai infront of her eyes.

But when did he ever go through what 3 went through seeing the person you truly love (don't say about Samrat - Pakhi, it was his own choice also he was over Pakhi within a week or so after his marriage, fell for Sai) with another person!

He might be hated by viewers but on the show he faced nothing, gets everything served on a platter, as per his wishes. Doesn't have to put efforts for anything. The writing favours him.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Btw this is the exact brief that has been given to the actors' post the leap. This was revealed by Neil in one of the interviews. You are right in reading the situation

I am going by CV's POV nowadays, that's the best approach.

CD said "teen suljhe log" and Aishwarya mentioned that she has been given a brief that Pakhi has turned positive

Neil's interview clearly spelt that Sai is V's love and P is zimmedari

Ayesha has said that Sai-Virat love each other but also that Sai is wounded that V chose P over her

Stand-alone, all these descriptions make sense because the plot is moving that way only

Bas beeti huyi baaton ka zikr mat karna pleej is the message from Vankar - he said it's like a fresh story and that's how I am watching it...frankly its a lot tolerable that way