Episode discussions # 9 episode 111 pg 147 - Page 60

Originally posted by: Dreamzz

Koi ye Bata de, ye dev jimmendariya, Meri family ye sab kyun bich me la Raha tha.

(Age ka to samaj me aa Raha hai).

Jimmendariya aur family to sab ki Hoti hai

Isko bhai behen ke bachcho ki bhi shaadi karke settle karne ki bhi zimmedari uthaani hai.

Originally posted by: carljung

Isko bhai behen ke bachcho ki bhi shaadi karke settle karne ki bhi zimmedari uthaani hai.

mujhe bhi yahi lagta hai. 😭😭

kya karun main is admi ka. Isko bramacharya jeewan ki adaat ho gyi hai.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

thats cause Age plays a big role in longevity of relationship.... he saw Satya being loely after his dad died and he doesnt want same to happen to Vidhi....

so adding so much emphasis on Hum Umra is for that reason... so that she wont be lonely if anything happens to him... this all based on jitna main samajh saki aaj ka dev ke emotions ko after one watch... 2-3 baar dekh ke fir kuch nikalta hai to batati hu.

he was sad and gloomy ke wo society se se lad sakta hai par bhagwan se nahi...aur Vidhi ko apne baad akele rehna pade aisa wo katai nahi chahega...

though ye kisi ke satah kabhi bhi ho sakta hai... but still older you are you are more prone to leavig this world sooner than the younger counterpart

thats the thing. Anupreeya wrote a beautiful piece on this

I can feel dev today.. He was absolutely right at his part..... Dev mature hai to vo aise hi react krega... Jab vidhi se pyaar nhi tha tab bhi vo vidhi k liye itna protective tha.. Ab to he loves her... So ab to vo bilkul bhi nahi chahega ki vidhi ko koi bhi problem ho... Nd ye longevity ka factor sabse pehle aata hai...

Both are acting as per their age... Vidhi bhi bahut ache se handle kr rhi hai... She is still hoping ki one day they both will be together...

Originally posted by: Revutty

❤️😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

This is for Aaj waale 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Sir such a cutie pie 🥰🥰 he is. Today Dev sir totally won my heart.

Dev : Vidhi hamare paas ek sachai toh nahi hote. Bahut saari sachai hein zindagi mein.

Then they both sat together and Dev said Ek sach toh yeh hein kee hamare beech ek umra kaa fasla hein. Fasla kya... almost ek generation gap hein joh society kabhi accept nahi kar paayenge.

How painful would have him to tell this harsh truth to Vidhi and poor girl Vidhi ? She was overwhelmed in happiness when Dev confessed the magical words. But soon Dev gave her a reality check and it was much needed because this is not a usual college waala love , it's indeed the hardest yet cute and lovely love tale of two individuals. He was telling issse aage mujhe koyi umeed mat rakhna. He know he was breaking her heart by saying but before she could start dreaming, before she could keep lots of desires he was doing it without looking at her eyes. Because her eyes are filled with tears and he can't see it.

Dev : lekin hamare beech kuch badlega nahi Vidhi , tum office awogi kaam karogi aur mein tumhara boss rahunga. That umra ki Seema came like a hell in between them and I seriously hate that wording umra ki Seema now. Acche khaase baaton ke beech kaante jaise chub rahe hain.

Then the way at Galli Vidhi said thankyou and said mere pyar kaa jawab pyaar se dekar aapne mere dil kee khaleepan ko bilkul khatmkiya. What a touchy dialogue, I loved it to the core. Mere liye utna kaafi hein hein kee aap bhi mujhse pyar karte hain. And when the burning tears came Dev came forward and wiped her tears. God !!!! It was so emotional. But Dev atleast did this and it's enough for me because he has accepted frankly he had feelings for Vidhi. He can't see tears any more and if Vidhi cries his hands will be there to wipe it. The way he held her hand and looked conveyed everything his eyes are searching for love , he wanted to have Vidhi as his soulmate desperately but he can't go out of the umra ki Seema. Today I witnessed that Dev which I madly needed and I am so so sooooo happy to see this Dev. Mein paida hone mein late huyi , 🥰 awww my darling Vidhi , Dev Sir cares you much and don't think that you are so chuti. Aaj bina sapne dekhe tumhare Ghar aake tumhari Milapini maa ke aage unhone dil kee sache pyar kaa izhaar Kiya hai. Aur kya chahiye? Now Milapini maa please remove the obstacles one by one and make them unite. Dev gave perfect replies to Priya and Abhi today. I loved it. Precap is 😍😍😍 Sangeeta didi kaise aap ne hum viewers ke man ki baat Jaan Lee ? Dev sir Jhappi denge kee nahin🥰🥰🥰 I am so happy after watching today's episode. There was no Seducing Daayan, no Emotional atyachar of HP, no Amy Mausi jaap of Chitra and no Dramas of Chaachi. Sukoon mila episode dekhke. Golden beech mein kuch taang Ada Lee par irritating nahi tha. Upar se precap was good. Rishabh ko thoda role Mila , iss baat se bhi khush hun

Han yaar aaj ka episode tha bahut hi acha... Dev vidhi ka aise milna.. Fir alag hona... Fir vidhi ka celebrate krne ka sochna... Fir precap... Sab kuch bahut hi perfect tha...

Mujhe lagta hai ki vidhi koi solution nikalegi hug na krne ka..

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

thats cause Age plays a big role in longevity of relationship.... he saw Satya being loely after his dad died and he doesnt want same to happen to Vidhi....

so adding so much emphasis on Hum Umra is for that reason... so that she wont be lonely if anything happens to him... this all based on jitna main samajh saki aaj ka dev ke emotions ko after one watch... 2-3 baar dekh ke fir kuch nikalta hai to batati hu.

he was sad and gloomy ke wo society se se lad sakta hai par bhagwan se nahi...aur Vidhi ko apne baad akele rehna pade aisa wo katai nahi chahega...

though ye kisi ke satah kabhi bhi ho sakta hai... but still older you are you are more prone to leavig this world sooner than the younger counterpart

thats the thing. Anupreeya wrote a beautiful piece on this

Yeh baat bilkul sahi hai😭 thats the biggest problem with age gap stories. One is bound to be left behind alone😭 unless they are incredibly lucky and the older partner manages to live a long as well as healthy life.

Shayad Dev ne aaj dialogue bhi bola ki ek esa humsafar chuno jo zindagi bhar tumhare saath reh sake. Probably that is his biggest fear even more than society not accepting the relationship that he wouldn't be able to live with her all her life.

@bold- very true!! There is no guarantee that if Vidhi marries a person of her age voh bhi uske saath reh paaye poori zindagi. What if something happens to him in his young age?What if Dev manages to outlive everyone?Life is very unpredictable. Kab kisi kya hojaye kya pata. Life is all about that gamble.

Moreover quality of life also matters. She may want to live a great life with Dev full of happiness for a shorter time than living a long life with a person she might not love.

Originally posted by: carljung

Isko bhai behen ke bachcho ki bhi shaadi karke settle karne ki bhi zimmedari uthaani hai.

Seriously man his zimmedari rant is irritating 🤣 matlab aur kya hi karega voh sab apni apni zindagi jee rahe hain maze se and can take care of themselves. Koi 2-3 saal ke bacche tih hai nahi

Moreover pata nahi saare itv ke baap apni second family ki zimmedari pehle bacche par daal kar kyu nikal lete hain when Dev's father died he himself was a kid, what was the logic of giving all responsibility to him?

Originally posted by: carljung

Ye jaise Golden silver aur Amba chuppa rhe hai vidhi ke love ko gharwaalo se koi bade se bada wala dhamaka karenge.

HP ke samne jab bhi yeh sach aayega dhamaka hi hoga swatah kissi sona chandi aur Amba ki avashyakta nahi hogi🤣

Originally posted by: carljung

Yaar mere paas to yeh sb samaan hi nhi tha uss age mei to aur vidhi harquatei kuch over si hoti hai isliye mujhe bada maza aata hai.

yeh to I agree dikhti timid si hai par harkatein ekdam over the top hoti hai.

Originally posted by: Nany

Dev ne kaha ki "apni jindgi Me usi insan ko jaga dena jo ham umr ho"

Isko Umar se kyu itna vo he..I mean thoda bht sahi bhi he...par itna kya...shayad apne papa aur satya ka dekha hoga shadi n all fir tane n sab...don't know...kab is ham umra wali line se chhutkara milega

I swear main yeh umr wala issue sun sun kar relationship ke baare mein soch kar paap punya dhyaan mein aane lagta hai. Lagta hai meri bhi umra ho chali hai 🤣

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

thats cause Age plays a big role in longevity of relationship.... he saw Satya being loely after his dad died and he doesnt want same to happen to Vidhi....

so adding so much emphasis on Hum Umra is for that reason... so that she wont be lonely if anything happens to him... this all based on jitna main samajh saki aaj ka dev ke emotions ko after one watch... 2-3 baar dekh ke fir kuch nikalta hai to batati hu.

he was sad and gloomy ke wo society se se lad sakta hai par bhagwan se nahi...aur Vidhi ko apne baad akele rehna pade aisa wo katai nahi chahega...

though ye kisi ke satah kabhi bhi ho sakta hai... but still older you are you are more prone to leavig this world sooner than the younger counterpart

thats the thing. Anupreeya wrote a beautiful piece on this

@ bold maine na yeh bahut suna hai ki hum umra hona longevity of relationship ke liye accha hota hai. Dev sir ko kissi shaheed soldier ki wife milavana parega. Ya phir accident, floods, cancer or aaj kal ka latest heart attack. Sach yeh hai ki kon jaane kab kiska number aa jaye aur kyoun aa jaye. To yeh practical Aur logical dono lagta hai par hai chalava.

Mujhe ek aur cheez lagti hai Dev talked about generation gap today. Actually that is a very very risky thing. Kabhi kabhi mere liye meri choti jo cousins bees saal choti unki baton ko samajhna bahut mushkil hota hai. Unki harkatein to More often than not sir ke paar chali jaati hai. Food preferences, dress preferences, living style preferences everything has a gap between me and them. One my cousin proclaimed her self a swifter yesterday. Mujhe laga shayad tez daudti hogi pata chala she was a Taylor swift fan. Jab meri shadi hui thi 2003 mein to 4 lakh per annum Ka package mere husband Ka TCS mein tha kan parta tha par kam chala hi lete they. Meri cousin ne saaf keh diya bhaiya 40 lackh se kamke package wale se shadi nahi ho sakti. Hum umra na mile to ten year bade se byah do par money matters. I was happily surprised at her clarity. I love roses meri niece who is 22 said rose is poor man’s flower. She said mausi rose is more like massy and carnations orchids lilys ets are classy. It was another jhatka flower kab se classy aur massy hone lage.

so sankshep mein generation gap is real , tangible and difficult to navigate.

Having said that I also believe While Debdoes love Vidhi but he feels she is still in the infatuation phase or admiration phase. Aisa mujhe lagta hai I may be entirely wrong.