Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #43 - Page 78

Originally posted by: yvon

That’s going to be her look at the office. But the one I posted 2 pages back had colour and was ironed. The wig might not look flattering but she needs it to hide her distinctive features

She’s living in Sood House

But why such an ugly outfit? Why would the costume department give her something like that to wear? I don't like the wig, but yeah, can understand why, but those clothes are awful. Is it to suggest Ram will choose frumpy Priya over slinky Heera?

Not many fls would agree to that look without a very strong reason.

Oh I'd never actually join birdland. Because I usually watched on weekends, I used to visit most days to get an idea of what was happening, and it was brutal. Couldn't help noticing that weekends were particularly bad.

I was just wondering what the cvs will do after Ram recovers his memory. Maybe Priya will get hit on the head by Heera and my coma scenario will happen. 🤣 I hope whoever's watching gets a nice track, though it's probably not smart to expect anything from maiyya's perverse brain.

Watched today's episode.

Ab aisa lag raha hai ki Priya , Ram aur Vedika ke beech main aa rahi hai. It is evident that Ram has soft corner for Vedika and he wants to date her (through dosti n all). He had soft corner for Vedika all along even before the leap. The way he emotionally wanted to support Vedika before leap , he never showed the same emotional support to Priya when she needed him the most.

Priya said something along the line "Ram Vedika ke liye dhoondne aaye the lekin ghum phir ke mere paas aagaye. Yeh hamari kismat aur pyaar hai". Lol

Grow a spine Priya. Ram Vedika ke liye aaya tha usse apni feelings confess karne , tumhare liye nahi.

Ye toh wahi baat ho gayi ki 'mera husband kitni bhi ladkiyon ke saath time spend kar le aakhir kaar voh mere paas aata hai. Dekha kitna pyaar karta hai mujse'

Why the bar is so lowwww!!

Ladies, please get yourself a man like Ram.

Not Priya's Ram.

Vedika's Ram. Had Ram married Vedika, he would have treated her 50 times better than he treats Priya. I am sure he would have made her( Vedika) his first priority, above Nandini and Shubham. He would have trusted and emotionally supported her whenever Vedika would need him unlike Priya.

Originally posted by: Bottlewater

Watched today's episode.

Ab aisa lag raha hai ki Priya , Ram aur Vedika ke beech main aa rahi hai. It is evident that Ram has soft corner for Vedika and he wants to date her (through dosti n all). He had soft corner for Vedika all along even before the leap. The way he emotionally wanted to support Vedika before leap , he never showed the same emotional support to Priya when she needed him the most.

Priya said something along the line "Ram Vedika ke liye dhoondne aaye the lekin ghum phir ke mere paas aagaye. Yeh hamari kismat aur pyaar hai". Lol

Grow a spine Priya. Ram Vedika ke liye aaya tha usse apni feelings confess karne , tumhare liye nahi.

Ye toh wahi baat ho gayi ki 'mera husband kitni bhi ladkiyon ke saath time spend kar le aakhir kaar voh mere paas aata hai. Dekha kitna pyaar karta hai mujse'

Why the bar is so lowwww!!

Ladies, please get yourself a man like Ram.

Not Priya's Ram.

Vedika's Ram. Had Ram married Vedika, he would have treated her 50 times better than he treats Priya. I am sure he would have made her( Vedika) his first priority, above Nandini and Shubham. He would have trusted and emotionally supported her whenever Vedika would need him unlike Priya.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

it feels like Priya was always, still is and will be an effing substitute for Ram’s true love V.

100%

So much truth has never been spoken before.

You summarised my thoughts. Thanks.

Originally posted by: Bottlewater

100%

So much truth has never been spoken before.

You summarised my thoughts. Thanks.

Many got the whole scene wrong of Ram & Priya washroom scene. Whatever Ram spoke was not his mind but his heart he is talking abt all those moments he spend with Priya and he gives a face of that slimy🐍. His sub-conscious mind was triggered & it pulls him towards Priya again. What was shown is soul & heart connection,whatever circumstances & situations or a different face given but destiny will bring them together

His heart got connected with Priya and he spills all the moments spend with her

Furthermore truth came from horses mouth 'Ram tumne aaj tak mujhe kabhi tissue diye nahin'🤣. How come many misses this golden words from our darling Vedika. Ram has never ever given her any tissues🤣

His heart remembers each & every single moment spend with Priya but its sad that the face he gives is Vedika as he is searching the light

Even Vik said in the office when Ram describes his PA,he knew Ram was talking abt Priya

Its all abt Priya. Its just that he is chain in a jail like Rapunzel

Originally posted by: Mages

Many got the whole scene wrong of Ram & Priya washroom scene. Whatever Ram spoke was not his mind but his heart he is talking abt all those moments he spend with Priya and he gives a face of that slimy🐍. His sub-conscious mind was triggered & it pulls him towards Priya again. What was shown is soul & heart connection,whatever circumstances & situations or a different face given but destiny will bring them together

His heart got connected with Priya and he spills all the moments spend with her

Furthermore truth came from horses mouth 'Ram tumne aaj tak mujhe kabhi tissue diye nahin'🤣. How come many misses this golden words from our darling Vedika. Ram has never ever given her any tissues🤣

His heart remembers each & every single moment spend with Priya but its sad that the face he gives is Vedika as he is searching the light

Even Vik said in the office when Ram describes his PA,he knew Ram was talking abt Priya

Its all abt Priya. Its just that he is chain in a jail like Rapunzel

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I always felt this while watching from their pre-leap marriage track. The writers were painstakingly trying to prove Ram and Priya are meant to be together by showing them being horny with each other, but failed miserably with the way marriage, annulment, Anjali’s harassment, Priya’s accident, VK murder, Priya’s jail were handled. I am not even mentioning post leap because that whole thing was and is a hot mess!!

Exactly. I don't know why people are still shipping and justifying Ram and Priya's relationship. But ig , to each their own. Its not only about today's scene. Its about their whole marriage and Ram's incompetency of handling relationship or trusting/believing/supporting Priya.

The years of Ekta Kapoor's crap has set a very low bar for men. They get away with most of the stuff be it their indecisiveness or incompetency. While the same would not be true with the female counterpart who would be crucified for their even minor flaws.

Ram was a red flag from the start of his whole marriage to Priya.

Leaving your bride in midst of wedding ceremony is a major red flag.

Not taking a stand for your wife when she is being questioned about her past relationship in front of everyone is a red flag.

Being a 40 year old grown man and still being indecisive and incompetent to look through the wrong is a red flag.

Leaving your wife in middle of no where during a fiasco instead of understanding her point of view is a red flag.

Not trusting/believing your wife when she speaks the truth is a red flag.

Overlooking your own wife( who did all the preparations for your day) , giving silent treatment to her and giving all the credit to ex girlfriend in front of everyone is a major red flag. Imagine swapping Ram's place with Priya and Vedika's place with Priya's ex. Imagine Priya dancing with her ex on her birthday infront of Ram. His male ego would have shoot up the sky given in past he questioned Priya about her ex infront of everyone while being still in love with Vedika. Lol

Even after all this, if you are still rooting for Ram and Priya then I must say the bar is very low. Why the onus is always on the women to go an extra mile to get their love back even after being treated a secondary person in your man's life.

Originally posted by: ajacob31

If this is the case may be I will watch the missed episodes when Ram’s memory is back. I still feel the memory loss track is not working since he completely forgot the good people in his life. I want to know what type of PTSD this is where you block all good people and memories from your mind…. I will definitely watch the missed a episodes if this memory loss is being faked by Ram. But whatever it is it showed lsmall child in trauma which is unacceptable just because of how the makers wanted to treat this track.

Ram has been dependable all his life. Step family,in-laws,wife, friends and daughter. He has never fought a battle & fight his own demons like Priya did. Destiny gives him one chance again to destroy his demons only he can do it and reach to his light, Priya. Like MM said he has to find himself

Originally posted by: Bottlewater

Exactly. I don't know why people are still shipping and justifying Ram and Priya's relationship. But ig , to each their own. Its not only about today's scene. Its about their whole marriage and Ram's incompetency of handling relationship or trusting/believing/supporting Priya.

The years of Ekta Kapoor's crap has set a very low bar for men. They get away with most of the stuff be it their indecisiveness or incompetency. While the same would not be true with the female counterpart who would be crucified for their even minor flaws.

Ram was a red flag from the start of his whole marriage to Priya.

Leaving your bride in midst of wedding ceremony is a major red flag.

Not taking a stand for your wife when she is being questioned about her past relationship in front of everyone is a red flag.

Being a 40 year old grown man and still being indecisive and incompetent to look through the wrong is a red flag.

Leaving your wife in middle of no where during a fiasco instead of understanding her point of view is a red flag.

Not trusting/believing your wife when she speaks the truth is a red flag.

Overlooking your own wife( who did all the preparations for your day) , giving silent treatment to her and giving all the credit to ex girlfriend in front of everyone is a major red flag. Imagine swapping Ram's place with Priya and Vedika's place with Priya's ex. Imagine Priya dancing with her ex on her birthday infront of Ram. His male ego would have shoot up the sky given in past he questioned Priya about her ex infront of everyone while being still in love with Vedika. Lol

Even after all this, if you are still rooting for Ram and Priya then I must say the bar is very low. Why the onus is always on the women to go an extra mile to get their love back even after being treated a secondary person in your man's life.

Whatever excuse is, be it the war between conscious and subconscious minds, the bathroom pep talk should’ve never happened involving V, it could’ve been for Bri again or for that matter Pihu would’ve sufficed too. The makers are destroying good moments by neglecting the nuances that creates huge impact in the story