Originally posted by: Shree15
Loved your review Moor.....
Now coming to Ashwini Ninad, I liked their conversation but yes, do not support the thought process behind it that A child is needed to complete a relationship between husband and wife, because No there are many childless couple who are complete and much in love even without kids......so this thought itself is very regressive and patriarchal....
But now coming to the show, from show point of view the whole scene was classic and meaningful, Parents seeing their Son admiring his own daughter, the Nostalgia for the parents of his childhood.......it was overwhelming for both Ash Ninad to watch Savi-Virat, coz he became the father in true sense today of his own flash and blood, no matter how much progressive we become, but Blood is always thicker than Water, and it's harsh reality......& It is what we are seeing in Ghum.......
Ashwini's blabber regarding Sairat and Pakrat marriage might seem blabber to many but it was imp convo, as we have discussed before, Sai and Virat are destined couple, the destiny always conspire to bring them together, whenever they seperate, there is always a knot which again brings them togather, this time it is Savi, the destiny conspired, when Sai lost her everything and Sairat relationship was almost broken, she conceived their child, their Aakhri Ganth, the last knot, here the destiny played it's role, Sai was never supposed to become mother but she became, the knot in the form of Savi tied her to him and not for a definite time but for a lifetime, here Ashwini's dialogue make sense that "Inka rishta pura nhi hua but Adhoora bhi nhi rha", yes their relationship never reached its completion but it isn't even incomplete, the Wajood of their relation is alive and kicking, their love will stay forever in the form of Savi......Her existence will always remind them and world, what they had for each other......and this last knot will pave a way and turn a catalyst for the reunion.....
Regarding Pakrat marriage, whatever she said, she felt bad for her daughter in law, but if we notice carefully she said "Patralekha ne kitni koshish ki, lekin uski shadi shuda zindgi kabhi shuru hi nhi ho pai", this it was always Patralekha who conspired for Pakrat, for their marriage to work but it didn't happen even after all this, because somewhere else the destiny was conspiring to bring Sairat, it was battle between Patralekha and the supreme destiny and ofcourse the Destiny won, "Uska rishta poora hoke bhi adhoora reh gya", because it was never meant to be ...she was playing a lost battle.....and the result is infront of her eyes, which she isn't able to handle and is breaking down, as she said to Ashwini in the kitchen convo, "Jab bhi kuch acha hone jata hai, achanak se sab badal jata hai", exactly this, the Karma is hitting hard, A person can't build a Castle of his happiness on the sorrows of other, and she couldn't able to build her castle of happiness with Virat at the sorrows and corpse of Sairat relationship and Sai's tears, it will haunt her forever, because Karma leaves no one.....
Ninad's analogy about Vinu-Virat-Savi was so perfect, Vinu gave Virat a reason to live, after he lost his will to live, and with Savi, he is actually Living, understand the analogy, there's no Patralekha, she despite being his wife for years, neither can provide him the will nor zeal to live, it was always Sai and her kids, when Sai the life of Virat left, one part of Sai, Vinu, gave him reason to live and now other part of Sai, Savi, is giving him zeal to live.......
Also, one more thing, I know ppl are baffled with Ash and Ninad for acknowledging Pakhi's pain, but as far I can see, if the situation will arise when they'll have to bring Sai back for Savi, and discard Patralekha then they will not even bat an eyelid before discarding her, coz again afterall, Blood is thicker than Water.....and Ashwini Virat have always been selfish, for them their own blood matters the most, Patralekha will soon realise that how shallow relations she have made over the years and actually she wasted her whole youth behind Virat and his fam and at the end she will be left empty handed.........