Originally posted by: SP2684
I doubt he thought she'd out and out commit violence. He clearly wanted to rattle her and knew she would react. He made genuinely valid points in the CR - and she shot herself in the foot there by showing zero remorse and continuing to justify her actions. But then BB played him by making him decide.
See if instigation is wrong - then it needs to be so for everyone. You can't say for some ke poking is part of the game, and for others ke it's not. Aise toh Priyanka also told Ankit ke she pokes people knowing they'll react - and if they haath uthao, toh they'll get evicted - mujhe kya.
I think he's going to be bashed because of the political angle. And the fact that he instigated using outside matters. Warna plan karke poke karna is no new thing - and it's literally Archana's whole game.
Personally, my view is that while it is part of the game - it depends on how far one stretches it and how low one goes. What's not ok in any instance - is violence.
he knew what he is doing - he clearly talked about it and was also teaching his group to bring up the party thing and didi thing to instigate her. yeah, he probably didn't think that she'd attack him like that but i'm sure he knew she'd react in some way because she does get pissy about that subject. some of the quietness may have been because of the surprise but he knows how bb goes - is sab k barey mein bhi wo baat kar raha tha k kaise previous seasons mein violence hui and the aftermath of those incidents. it was a choice to say quiet and i'd say it worked. it made archana look even worse, at least to me, and i'd say it was a thoughtful choice on shiv's game because he has been through the wringer already on reality shows. agar ap agey se react karte ho, depending on how you react, you start looking bad too. per usko nahi pata tha na bb us pe hi decision daal dein gey archana ko rakhne ya nikalne wala. if that hadn't happened, he would have been fine, but now he's getting hate because bb made him decide.
i wouldn't necessarily say that instigation as an act is wrong, period. because yeh sab to bb mein hota hi hai. log jhoot na bole, larai na karein, issues na create karey, instigate na karein to show mein kuch reh nahi jae ga. archana is no saint and she made veeeery ugly and below-the-belt comments on lots of people in the house. per mujhe bb ki selective commentary nahi pasand. he called archana in and clarified sajid's point about gori and told her hum yahan pe profession, background wagaira wagaira and outside ki baatein nahi karte. sallu has bajaod people in the past for doing that too. to shiv ko bhi mana karna chahiye tha k tum baar baar uski party and didi ki baatein kyun kar rahe ho. her reaction was in no way justified nor am I supporting it, but I also didn't like shiv instigating her with outside matters. game se related baaton se instigate karey to chalo samajh ata hai, can't do anything about that. per if bahar k matters allowed hain, to like someone else said here, to sajid k metoo accusations bhi uthne chahiye, shalin k domestic violence allegations bhi uthne chaiye, stan k violence k allegations bhi uthne chahiye, etc. but i'm sure if someone brings those up, sallu will bajao them. khair since they want archana back in the house, sallu will probs bajao shiv too based on how the promo is cut - bb brought up that point too in the CR.