Have you ever been in love in your life? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Yeah. It was arranged marriage

Your first and last love?

Originally posted by: rolopolo

Your first and last love?

The only that sustains and endures 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

The only that sustains and endures 👍🏼

Mashallah ❤️

Yes :)

As cheesy as it sounds, I am convinced that he is my twin flame. We're essentially the same and we understand each other very well. And we're lucky enough to have both fallen for each other. I cherish that so much, and I hope and pray that things stay that way ♡

Originally posted by: DushtKanya

Yes :)

As cheesy as it sounds, I am convinced that he is my twin flame. We're essentially the same and we understand each other very well. And we're lucky enough to have both fallen for each other. I cherish that so much, and I hope and pray that things stay that way ♡

wow Shaadi kab hai

Yes, I was in love, he led me on, and for years I was stuck on him, he used to control me to an extent that I realized it is toxic to be in love with him, I started detaching myself from him. He started misbehaving with me, he wanted me to live the way he would like, for example wear clothes which he thought was 'decent', blah and blah, I shut him off, told him he has a huge male ego, and i am done with him.

I loved him, cried for 3 years day and night, blamed God for being unfair, but now I realize, God is indeed fair, He made me stronger and made me get rid of the pathetic loser i had fallen in love with, and sadly that pathetic loser was also my best friend, so it used to be hurtful but now I am okay. I do not think so I will fall for someone again, not to that extent, I guess first love is special and those who have won it, really blessed souls they are ❤️

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

Yes, I was in love, he led me on, and for years I was stuck on him, he used to control me to an extent that I realized it is toxic to be in love with him, I started detaching myself from him. He started misbehaving with me, he wanted me to live the way he would like, for example wear clothes which he thought was 'decent', blah and blah, I shut him off, told him he has a huge male ego, and i am done with him.

I loved him, cried for 3 years day and night, blamed God for being unfair, but now I realize, God is indeed fair, He made me stronger and made me get rid of the pathetic loser i had fallen in love with, and sadly that pathetic loser was also my best friend, so it used to be hurtful but now I am okay. I do not think so I will fall for someone again, not to that extent, I guess first love is special and those who have won it, really blessed souls they are ❤️

Thanks for opening up on your heart and feelings. You are a strong person. Even I feel I am going through a major heartbreak right now and I don't even know if I will be able to recover or not. It's hitting slowly but really really hard and crushing me. I hope I can come back stronger like you did.

Originally posted by: rolopolo

Thanks for opening up on your heart and feelings. You are a strong person. Even I feel I am going through a major heartbreak right now and I don't even know if I will be able to recover or not. It's hitting slowly but really really hard and crushing me. I hope I can come back stronger like you did.

I know, this phase is VERY DIFFICULT, and I used to feel like this, I used to feel like i would never recover from it. But trust me, nothing is and shall be bigger than your self respect and once you decide that you love your self respect then you will be fine. He does not deserve you, he is crap, give him crap, he already wasted a lot of your time.

Originally posted by: SteFanSalvaTor

I know, this phase is VERY DIFFICULT, and I used to feel like this, I used to feel like i would never recover from it. But trust me, nothing is and shall be bigger than your self respect and once you decide that you love your self respect then you will be fine. He does not deserve you, he is crap, give him crap, he already wasted a lot of your time.

I can't spoil three years of my life on this. I don't even know how to recover. It's just so hurtful and crushing. Everything seems irreparable. The damage done to me also seems to be permanent. I try to maintain this facade of being fun but it just doesn't work you know. It's like why am I fooling myself. Did you get some motivation from somewhere?

Originally posted by: rolopolo

I can't spoil three years of my life on this. I don't even know how to recover. It's just so hurtful and crushing. Everything seems irreparable. The damage done to me also seems to be permanent. I try to maintain this facade of being fun but it just doesn't work you know. It's like why am I fooling myself. Did you get some motivation from somewhere?

I wish I can help you, there is no permanent damage unless you think that he is the end to all your miseries. I am not sure how far he is from you (geographically), but stop meeting him, and contacting him, if possible just date someone else (casually) for time being, you need a major distraction and things shall be fine.

For me, my motivation was, he pissed me off, too much, to an extent I was like i would slap him if he would be nearby, best thing was we were living in different states and we did not meet much, and i stopped responding to him slowly and that agitated him, then i gave him a shut up call, and then he behaved like a loser and i blocked him permanently from all my contact access.