Originally posted by: BlackWitch
1. Disallow newbies completely from sending PMs (except to Mods) and writing on member’s walls/testimonials.
2. Allow existing members to voluntarily opt for disallowing newbies, groupbies and senior members from accessing their profiles and sending them PMs.
Both suggestions fit the proverbs "cut off one's nose to spite one's face" and "throw out the baby with the bath water."
1. The overwhelming majority of Newbies are polite, creative, positive, sometimes shy individuals who should be encouraged to learn the features of India Forums to grow its business. It would be self-defeating of India Forums to indulge members who think that "I was here first!" entitles them to prohibit others from reading posts in the public forum, quoting for rebuttal in the Debate Mansion, using strikethrough formatting, and now sending PMs. No matter how many new members they silence and drive away by making the site's features more complicated and exclusive, wounded egos will never be satisfied.
2. The overwhelming majority of PMs are non-abusive, and the overwhelming majority of established members want to receive PMs from potential new friends who haven't reached 1000 posts yet. People who reach 1000 posts quickly are more likely to send trivial PMs. For example, when I had been on India Forums for two weeks and just reached Groupbie status, I received my first accusatory PM from an IF-Rockerz member (sic): "what i dont understand is you dont like *** or his drinking habbit Always you come up with a topic where only *** is wrong baki sab ki galti to aapko dikti hi nahi ... Bas kisi tarah uska doond ke nikaalna hai aapko" I don't need to Block anyone when I can just not respond to baiting.
Originally posted by: vijay
We have enabled the option where the members can restrict sending / receiving PM from their Buddies only.
This restriction does not apply to DTs even when they are not in your Buddy List.
Please note this will be a both way setting ie. if you use this option you will also be restricted from sending PMs to your Buddies only.
We are exploring further ways to keep a check on such miscreants especially people who just create a new account to send abusive PMs.
Thank you, vijay, for this sensible solution. I hope the info button on this option will be updated to indicate that it is two-way.
The info button on the Privacy option (top of Privacy Settings list) tells me that when it is set "OFF" no one can see my Visit Streak and I cannot see anyone else's. So, why can I see the Visit Streaks of vijay and mishkil88? Is it because the feature is two-way, and DT members are able to see my Visit Streak?
Could someone please explain to me, what are the different purposes of these features: Testimonial, Scrapbook, and Slambook? I asked in the Help Center many months ago, but no one answered.
Edited by BrhannadaArmour - 2 years ago
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