Originally posted by: neha_1111
Then why he married pakhi by marrying pakhi his perfect image is destroyed. He married his brother's widow and culprit of his dead wife. By marrying pakhi he proved that whatever sai said about their affair is true and indirectly he proved her and samrat right
Because here comes the family factor. His Perfect Image self sustains through a facade of altruism amd self sacrifice and moral high ground. When Pakhi's truth came out, he accused her from his moral high ground. Then after Mansi died and the family wanted Pakhi back, he went to her, accepted her apology and showed his big heart by forgiving her for her scheming. Then he bailed and brought her back. This preserves his image too. He was wronged (victim) by Pakhi but he let go and forgave her for his family.
Then Sai leaves and yada yada yada.
He gets into the heart broken husband facade because that's the only way he can live. He cannot reconcile with his own contribution to Sai leaving him and her death. Coward! But then comes Vinu, the perfect excuse to begin living again with his Perfect image stabilized.
But for Vinu he needs a mother too. His perfect family which he wanted with Sai. It was denied so he had to design a diluted version of it.
Now question is why did he marry Pakhi and not anyone else!
Well had it been anyone else, he would have become the abusive party because of his self involved tendencies. He would have to love and do his part in the relationship with his wife. Had he remained stuck in obsession with his dead wife, his new wife would have been wronged. This would have hurt his Perfect image for he wants to play the victim not become the villain.
So for that it could have only been Pakhi. The one woman whom even if he never loves will never be able to say that she was wronged; because the present was the product of her dirty schemes.
Earlier Virat had always thawed towards Pakhi because his Perfect Image has been hurt by betraying his promise to her. He would try to sooth her anger and hurt because everytime she reminded him of his promise; his image stung because he did promise and broke it off.
Now no one can say anything. Virat hurt Pakhi by killing her hopes, Pakhi hurt Virat because her schemes made him lose his wife and child. They are even.
Also he married Pakhi not by his own incentive. It came from the elders. He had to play the dutiful Perfect self. So yes these are the two reasons why I feel Virat married Pakhi.
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