In my opinion Ram's fault is for lots of things he said in anger and lot of things he didn't do because he couldn't go against his family.
Ram can be blamed for not being lenient towards Priya, his wife who was pregnant and sent her to jail. His actions of flip flopping between sending her to jail and then going back to free her hearing she was pregnant and then back to ignoring her after he knew she had an affair.
His character died a brutal death that day, when the forgiver Ram went missing for his wife Priya whom he loved very much. So obviously he should have guilt on that and for all the words he said later to her.
But there was too much going on his life that he only reacted to it and never did anything after thinking and the friends and his step family only made it worse for him. So in a way I kind of understand Ram five years back that while I do blame him for his part, I can find it me to understand him too.
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Similarly Priya reacted five years back too. She didn't think about anything except protecting her child and her sister's child. She must have hoped that Ram the forgiver would probably understand her later and she can pay for the crime and make up for it.
It was why she keeps having monologue saying Mr Kapoor would understand. She truly seem to have believed that when he learns about everything later he won't get mad at her. But understand her.
Priya was in a way made those choices to protect five years back and I see no reason to blame her back then because I understood her reasons.
My problem with Priya character started after she choose to protect Ishaan five years later. After living without Ram for five years, she keeps saying it was okay because she had Pihu with her.
It looks as if Priya didn't love or need Ram after all and hiding Pihu from Ram should have brought the guilt but it never happened, hiding Ishaan truth should have brought the guilt but it never happened. So I can't accept Priya character getting sacrifice tag and getting forgiven easily.
If she told Ram the entire truth within few days of meeting him again. Then I would have rooted for her more. Hiding it for as long as she did after Ram flip-flops of professing love is what makes me mad .
Ram character was fine until he got to know the truth. His reactions to Nandini role in separation was so Luke warm I found it hard to understand him. Where is the anger, where is the regret and where is the guilt. We didn't get it for that moment .
But he goes on a guilt trip for Ishaan truth 🤣. So Priya would probably go on a guilt trip for something later as well. Just not for what we want 🤪
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