Originally posted by: Reva_IF
whoa! Whoa!!! When did I compare abhi and ak pain and trauma?!!! And when am I excusing abhi for his mistakes!? I am always calling him out when he is wrong. Just because I try to understand the reasons behind his reactions, that does not mean I am saying he is ok and should be doing what he is doing.
same way, I call ak out if she misses something or does something wrong. I never bash ak or abhi unnecessary (i usually comment how they are wrong), I never call them names and I never compare their pain. And just because I am talking about abhi and reason behind his actions or his trauma, that in no way means that I am saying that ak doesn’t have trauma.
Not everything has to be a competition between abhi and Akshu. Both are flawed and both have their strengths. Usually the pattern on the show is : One track- flaws of abhi and akshara’s strength are highlighted and another track- flaws of ak and abhi’s strength is highlighted. I have always try to understand both ak and abhi.
Right now, just like abhi is not registering her trauma/her pain/her heartbreak, same way akshu is not registering his trauma/his pain/his heartbreak. Both of them are busy dealing with their own misery/anger/ego and not able to understand each other. We (meaning me) had hoped that living together these 3 days would give them a chance to realize what the 1 year separation did, how and how much it has affected the other. But unfortunately, it’s still not happening.
All I am saying is that currently even in the middle of this crisis, akshu still has a functioning brain and is predictable in her responses because most of the time her heart is overpowering her mind. And abhi’s head is spinning to no end (in his own words)- between his mind vs heart, he keeps switching- sometimes mind and sometimes heart- so we don’t know how he will respond.
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