Originally posted by: DiamondLife
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So Akshara is also human, right? 😆..Because she has grown her tolerance power to cope up with her hand injuries that does not mean she is super woman 😆
So she is also clouded by her pain and hatred from Birlas and always blaming her for any wrong things
This BTS again proves..that no matter what other says..it is always her fault and she has to say sorry
When it comes for others to understand ...oh, they are clouded by this and that
But when she can't see the sleep problem of Beta Birla..that was just the first night she is been with him in the room and ..it was general statement from him doing exercise that he is not sleepy..we want Ak to decode that he has sleep problem
And did she saw sleeping pills bottle in her room??? No right
But Ak was vocal about her desire to stay with him in the temple and music academy and again her heart in in pain...but that's ok. He has his insecurities and trust issue that he can keep with him and resolve with time.
whoa! Whoa!!! When did I compare abhi and ak pain and trauma?!!! And when am I excusing abhi for his mistakes!? I am always calling him out when he is wrong. Just because I try to understand the reasons behind his reactions, that does not mean I am saying he is ok and should be doing what he is doing.
same way, I call ak out if she misses something or does something wrong. I never bash ak or abhi unnecessary (i usually comment how they are wrong), I never call them names and I never compare their pain. And just because I am talking about abhi and reason behind his actions or his trauma, that in no way means that I am saying that ak doesn’t have trauma.
Not everything has to be a competition between abhi and Akshu. Both are flawed and both have their strengths. Usually the pattern on the show is : One track- flaws of abhi and akshara’s strength are highlighted and another track- flaws of ak and abhi’s strength is highlighted. I have always try to understand both ak and abhi.
Right now, just like abhi is not registering her trauma/her pain/her heartbreak, same way akshu is not registering his trauma/his pain/his heartbreak. Both of them are busy dealing with their own misery/anger/ego and not able to understand each other. We (meaning me) had hoped that living together these 3 days would give them a chance to realize what the 1 year separation did, how and how much it has affected the other. But unfortunately, it’s still not happening.
All I am saying is that currently even in the middle of this crisis, akshu still has a functioning brain and is predictable in her responses because most of the time her heart is overpowering her mind. And abhi’s head is spinning to no end (in his own words)- between his mind vs heart, he keeps switching- sometimes mind and sometimes heart- so we don’t know how he will respond.