Triggering episode full of toxicity - Page 41

tbh, i dont expect people to "ignore" posts or comments. because unfortunately if every comment is visible to all of us and unlike twitter/insta you cannot completely block something from your feed on IF then its not possible to ignore. When we post on a public thread or a forum then we are inviting opinions and comments from others. thats the whole point of a forum. The problem I have is with the hypocrisy, the preaching and the ganging up. Khud prediction karenge toh thik hai, dusre karein toh voh negative and OTT or imagination hai. They can preach and label others as "negative" and claim that people's opinions and comments affect their "viewing experience" and advice others to ignore things they dont agree with, but the same people will not practice what they preach- and turn around and make a ruckus over feeling offended and attacked by other's posts- that time they wont ignore. To avoid all issues when you block people and just make an open remark without one on one engaging with anyone, that will also be called as "indirects" and as "mocking" or "offensive" , but vice versa chalega. A bunch of people can gang up and accuse and shame others for their opinions - thats ok but if the other person responds, thats not ok because they are "attacking" . And then ultimately they will say oh but "you started it" .

Plot wise- Its impossible to deny that V has been butchered royally and he doesnt deserve Sai. VP is cringe and they cannot be happy together at the cost of Sai's grief and pain. V P have no chemistry on screen and so majority audience is defnitely not interested in seeing him move on with P. If Sairat are endgame then there needs to be a buildup towards somehow redeeming V- but that is not happening as of now at all. He hasnt even had any guilt, regret for the things he said/did. He only fixates on irrelevant things. If Sairat are not endgame then the focus of the story should be on Sai only and what she does next and how she moves on, not on V, P and chavannis and they should be phased out of the story. but this show just thrives on cringe, toxicity, abuse of Sai and then suddenly in one day everything will be revealed and magically fixed, and Sai is expected to get over the months/years of pain she has undergone. its really infuriating to watch weeks of Sai's grief and then have her blame herself or forgive everyone far too easily. they have done this over and over again in every track. and its about time we get a track that has some semblance of justice. Right now I am only watching for Sai but I have no hope for anything better. Shruti track ke time atleast there was hope for confession. Now what?! Repeat confession toh khokla hoga when he has married P and adopted a child with her.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Me (in my softest whisper)...will Pakhi ever turn completely negative overturning everything Virat & the family have thought about her?

I heard you loud and clear 😆

Pakhi will turn negative...take my word....easiest & laziest way out of this mess and to make V relevant in Sai's life again is to make Pakhi black again

Pakhi may/may not get punished directly...but atleast her karma will...she will probably die in the end

But what gets me is Virat...usko na normal punishment milega na karmic justice...I hate it that he will get everything 😡....he is the King of Good times as well as Bad times

Sorry..rant over 😆

Tomorrow definitely party hai ., thursday must be Virat ka meltdown plus Sai ka red dress wala series

Originally posted by: Anilaanu

If you watch parineeti....you will feel better...glorified bigamy...and no one is complaining....udaariyan is better post leap but I think it will have ema after one or two months 😕...

That's different. It's a high trp top show. They can't get away showing so much sadism towards the FL.

The episode was indeed crass and triggering🤢

Imagine watching while unwell.

I've made my peace with the fact that Sai's insult will be a continuous thing.

What I have not resigned to is a mute Sai.

So they want to show that Virat has moved on and he has a great marriage with his mature, sanskari, marvellous bhabi. Myself and most people get that and to some point we have accepted it.

However it is quite unfair to the audience that the PH&SP has chosen such a storyline where Sai is shown to be living on the breadline. How ridiculous is this?

So in reality she has no money, no great career prospect but only a pile of useless people including the biggest culprit P giving lip-service of how great a doctor she is.

How narrow minded are these people? When she does find a job it is at the mercies of the Chavans as if India is a 12 by 18 mile island.

I do not understand why the show is being destroyed.

I do not understand why Sai is not a successful doctor.

How did Jatap find Sai?

Did she purposefully not work at a hospital as she did not want to be found?

Just to show crass they are not even showing the FL backstory from the last 6 years or 9 years? In fact there's not much growth in Sai's life. She was shown to be a jobless single mother who purchased a coveted piece of land in a far away village.

Then she ended up in Nagpur penniless🤔

How was she looking after a young child without a job?

She is shown to have high self-respect so she definitely was not taking hand-outs.

How was she putting food on the table with 3 mouths to feed?

Was she renting the house in kankavali?

It's too much now, think I'm going to give the show a break if no movement by the end of the week.

Originally posted by: Nja91

tbh, i dont expect people to "ignore" posts or comments. because unfortunately if every comment is visible to all of us and unlike twitter/insta you cannot completely block something from your feed on IF then its not possible to ignore. When we post on a public thread or a forum then we are inviting opinions and comments from others. thats the whole point of a forum. The problem I have is with the hypocrisy, the preaching and the ganging up. Khud prediction karenge toh thik hai, dusre karein toh voh negative and OTT or imagination hai. They can preach and label others as "negative" and claim that people's opinions and comments affect their "viewing experience" and advice others to ignore things they dont agree with, but the same people will not practice what they preach- and turn around and make a ruckus over feeling offended and attacked by other's posts- that time they wont ignore. To avoid all issues when you block people and just make an open remark without one on one engaging with anyone, that will also be called as "indirects" and as "mocking" or "offensive" , but vice versa chalega. A bunch of people can gang up and accuse and shame others for their opinions - thats ok but if the other person responds, thats not ok because they are "attacking" . And then ultimately they will say oh but "you started it" .

Plot wise- Its impossible to deny that V has been butchered royally and he doesnt deserve Sai. VP is cringe and they cannot be happy together at the cost of Sai's grief and pain. V P have no chemistry on screen and so majority audience is defnitely not interested in seeing him move on with P. If Sairat are endgame then there needs to be a buildup towards somehow redeeming V- but that is not happening as of now at all. He hasnt even had any guilt, regret for the things he said/did. He only fixates on irrelevant things. If Sairat are not endgame then the focus of the story should be on Sai only and what she does next and how she moves on, not on V, P and chavannis and they should be phased out of the story. but this show just thrives on cringe, toxicity, abuse of Sai and then suddenly in one day everything will be revealed and magically fixed, and Sai is expected to get over the months/years of pain she has undergone. its really infuriating to watch weeks of Sai's grief and then have her blame herself or forgive everyone far too easily. they have done this over and over again in every track. and its about time we get a track that has some semblance of justice. Right now I am only watching for Sai but I have no hope for anything better. Shruti track ke time atleast there was hope for confession. Now what?! Repeat confession toh khokla hoga when he has married P and adopted a child with her.

Aaj muje ek prediction pad kar Bahot hi uncomfortable huva aur triggering laga . Maine toh nahiin kaha ki woh member negativity spread kar rahi hain kyunki muje acha nahiin laga . Ignore kiya jab ki Bahot hi triggering hain kaise biagamy ko normalize karthe hain .

This is such a relevant point. Why does ITV insist on showing educated, working women poor? 🤷‍♀️ I can’t believe that a DOCTOR and that too, one who is as talented as Sai, is shown penniless and dependent on the Chavans for a job.

Aren’t there any clinics or hospitals in Nagpur that can hire her? Did she really just pack her bags up, leave her Kankavli home for a job that doesn’t pay, no savings and no prospects in the city at all? 😳

Why can’t FLs be shown earning well enough to provide for themselves and their families? It just annoys me so much to see this being shown in today’s world till this day.

Originally posted by: Olive_Rose

The episode was indeed crass and triggering🤢

Imagine watching while unwell.

I've made my peace with the fact that Sai's insult will be a continuous thing.

What I have not resigned to is a mute Sai.

So they want to show that Virat has moved on and he has a great marriage with his mature, sanskari, marvellous bhabi. Myself and most people get that and to some point we have accepted it.

However it is quite unfair to the audience that the PH&SP has chosen such a storyline where Sai is shown to be living on the breadline. How ridiculous is this?

So in reality she has no money, no great career prospect but only a pile of useless people including the biggest culprit P giving lip-service of how great a doctor she is.

How narrow minded are these people? When she does find a job it is at the mercies of the Chavans as if India is a 12 by 18 mile island.

I do not understand why the show is being destroyed.

I do not understand why Sai is not a successful doctor.

How did Jatap find Sai?

Did she purposefully not work at a hospital as she did not want to be found?

Just to show crass they are not even showing the FL backstory from the last 6 years or 9 years? In fact there's not much growth in Sai's life. She was shown to be a jobless single mother who purchased a coveted piece of land in a far away village.

Then she ended up in Nagpur penniless🤔

How was she looking after a young child without a job?

She is shown to have high self-respect so she definitely was not taking hand-outs.

How was she putting food on the table with 3 mouths to feed?

Was she renting the house in kankavali?

It's too much now, think I'm going to give the show a break if no movement by the end of the week.

Originally posted by: Roch

Not only the reel but the chavan clan has posted pics in different attire, seems like a new day. Par kitne episodes baad aayega pata nahi.

Yes with Sachin right?

This is vankar and typical ITV makers ki typical soch.. They want to show that FLs are srrugglomt. FL does social service. Etc.

In kd, emon was very successful and sai was shown to be realistically ambitious, till they followed kd. But, they stopped copying it. So, now it's their stupid mind and stupid creativity to show FL as dayawaan mahaan.

ITV likes showing MODERN, EDUCATED and smart woman as vamps, who ruin others' life and are running after a man.

And, a Bholi bhali (not sai, in general), as the most sacrificial woman in the world.

What message are they even trying to convey?

The questions you have asked are so logical but they will never address these questions. I saw a SBS video where Sai goes inside Chavan Niwas to be witness of these celebrations.

I have accepted that Ghum thrives on sensationalism but then when I am expecting something that the show aces, that is also not being shown. So are we supposed to watch an anniversary that has no conclusion except for re-establishing the devar-bhabhi marriage for the 823885289452nd time?