Episode discussions # 3 important note pg 60 - Page 70

Originally posted by: Scissor

Bandi possessive hai...to apne dev sir ki Saari smell aur feelings le legi fir degi🤣

wo to bhul bhi gayi hogi ke ye rumal uske paas hai bhi... abhi coat ke saath ishq lada rahi hogi na

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

very correct.. but not breaking their bubble is not going to help either... its only going to be painful more n more they go deeper in it..

lol.. and i was at opposite side of the situation .. confessed and got immediate No as reply.. even a sorry if by any chance they made me feel so it wasn't intentional... i cried for weeks... that was 5 year long crush...and hard to come out of it.

but now I feel it was the best thing happened cause i could move on to be a stronger person..

and i am even older than you......😆

Somewhere my sir knew my crush on him and he used it and imagine what title I got in my college ms. Organic chemistry. Because I put my all effort just to impress him🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

Somewhere my sir knew my crush on him and he used it and imagine what title I got in my college ms. Organic chemistry. Because I put my all effort just to impress him🤣

OMG...that must be horrible at that time.. must be embarrassing too...

and you know what.. Vidhi is damn daring. Dev is the only person other than her family who is so important for her and she must be knowing if she tells him abt her feelings he can create distance between them or may be cut ties too... and she is risking it too.

She is risking such big thing on her life.. the only helping hand, only motivator, only suport system she has in life... and she isnt even thinking what she will do if Dev goes away from her... thats typical of her age...she isnt thinking for sure just full of feelings...

this girl is daring beyond any words.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

OMG...that must be horrible at that time.. must be embarrassing too...

Na na.little bit🤣because at some point my whole focus went to chemistry and I quite started challenging his logics in front of whole class and touch wood he start praising me a lot.so I get overtime very easily because I like people who are more intelligent than me🤣.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Why? Kya hua utna dhamakedaar nahi tha kya? I didn't watch the episode properly so no idea😆

After waht Vidhi did in precap voh kuch bhi karsakti hai🤪 I won't surprised if she puts some challenge to him🤣

He will deny his feelings

Then she will say alright ab 24 hours mein yeh hua then you have feeling for me 🤣

Vaise ab dev iski potential groom ki matching, shaadi preparation mein help karega

Originally posted by: Scissor

Bandi possessive hai...to apne dev sir ki Saari smell aur feelings le legi fir degi🤣

Wahi to 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Scissor

Na na.little bit🤣because at some point my whole focus went to chemistry and I quite started challenging his logics in front of whole class and touch wood he start praising me a lot.so I get overtime very easily because I like people who are more intelligent than me🤣.

that looks like pretty good way to over come.. i would have stopped going to college in embarrassment

my real life crushes werent known to world (being an introvert it would have been my death for sure) just me and my crush... and ended up giving me heartbreak.. 😆 🤣 😂

but its now good looking back in time and how everything happened then helped me in learning to read people's intentions more than their actions... 😎😎

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

Just another observation based on the precap and why i loved confrontational Vidhi

i loved the precap and reason is below...

i dont think its guilt tripping on her part? why..

if a girl is confused abt the mixed signals fellow boy is sending all this while in the name of her being "a good employee" why cant she just ask upfront abt the feelings ?

if Dev has no feelings for her he can simply say "No i dont have feelings for you. And everything i did was simply as a mentor in office. But still you select the groom as per your choice" as he used to say her always.. abt job, new job, be in this office etc...

yes it would break her heart but it will be one time.. or may be a month she would cry to sleep but she will realize it once she grows up more. and might cut ties with him too (which he surely cant handle)

and if he has feelings (even an iota.. but is scared abt the age difference thing) that too he should put out in words "Vidhi yes i do like you but you know we have a very big age difference and ur dad isnt someone who would allow us to be together, so can you please forget abt us"

that again would hurt but at least she would know the reason Dev behaves hot n cold time to time. She cant live in confusion forever. if he is not into her or cant see a future together its better to break her dreams now so that she can move on.. she is 21 and can have another man who loves her more than she love Dev....

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Dev not wanting to hurt her is itself a sign that she is not just another employee for him.. was he worried about Kanika when he was blaming her ? it was Yogesh who gave the money to the waiter but Dev blamed it all on Kanika cause she called HP to come get Vidhi.

She was his friend longer than he knows Vidhi.. but he dint trust Kanika enough to go to the club or ask waiter about the mastermind and suspended her.

Yes he would have done the same for another employee as he did for Vidhi.. but he never trusted anyone else as he trusts Vidhi. Thats clear difference in his behavior towards Vidhi and other employees (even his friends) and its this that confuses Vidhi.

And why her seeking truth.. seeking answers in black and white is guilt tripping.. when him being overly concerned/caring is confusing that girl so bad...

When Dev is way too old to know what a typical 21 year old teenager would feel and behave in those early years for their crush.. and he must be knowing how to handle her.. but here he isnt, he cant.. it simply means he feels for something but unable to muster up the courage to tell her cause he is scared he would fall deeper than he cant even handle.... or she would leave which also he cant handle.

Vidhi to him is what fire to a moth.

he is scared this fire can burn him so he wants to stay away from her but always end up around her.

Thats not how anyone can pursue love by being on fence always. He has to take some decision.

Ye point bilkul sahi hai magar vidhi ne words wrong use kiye ki "mere dil mei kya hai wo aap jante hai lekin phir bhi mei usse haa keh dungi sirf aapke kehne par"

Isko aise bhi to keh sakti thi ki "mere dil mei kya hai wo aap jaante hai par jab tak aapke dil mei kya hai mujhe pata na chal jaaye, mei shaadi ke liye haa nhi kahungi"

Originally posted by: carljung

Ye point bilkul sahi hai magar vidhi ne words wrong use kiye ki "mere dil mei kya hai wo aap jante hai lekin phir bhi mei usse haa keh dungi sirf aapke kehne par"

Isko aise bhi to keh sakti thi ki "mere dil mei kya hai wo aap jaante hai par jab tak aapke dil mei kya hai mujhe pata na chal jaaye, mei shaadi ke liye haa nhi kahungi"

I know right.. her word choice wasnt appropriate for the moment... but kal dekhte.. humari pagali filam kya naya kaand karti hai..