Episode discussions # 3 important note pg 60 - Page 24

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Really? It has increased then🥳

it's a prediction😳

Originally posted by: Red_eyes94

it's a prediction😳

Is trp out or not? Thursday toh trp aati haina?

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Is trp out or not? Thursday toh trp aati haina?

is baar ek din late aayegi... maine dekha ek ig page pe..

Yaar bechari stand to tab le jab use clear ho dev bhi same feel karta ho.

Originally posted by: Telly_Addict

are yaar ladki ko papa ne emotional blackmail kiya hoga na after all the syapa she had done.. to kahi to apni galti ji saja bhugatni hogi to bas yahi tareeka najar aaya unke pappa ko..

i think this NRI will convince her dad abt the job.. ke jab shaadi honi hi hai tab tak job kar lene do.. obviously HP wont be able to spill the reason why he cant let her do the job but would be damad ki baat jarur manenge..

on side note..

the difference this boy and Dev treated her is so drastic.. Dev was encouraging supportive and this boy is all "bas dekhti rahogi"

i hope Dev ho aas paas.. bhale hi coincidentally aa jaye.. but please... and cause its the same cafe he came with Vidhi he may come cause missing her badly...

I don't understand what is Vidhi doing man. I understand she can't tell about Dev as she doesn't know what Dev thinks and all lekin yeh shadi ki baat toh avoid kar sakti haina?Not only does she not like him, but she doesn't want to settle abroad.

On one hand she caresses Dev's coat like that and on the other hand she is meeting another guy. Sorry but it's showing her in a really bad light. Hosakta hai HP ne zor dia ho phir bhi. I mean either she should be stern with herself and forget Dev if she intends to follow her father and can't go against him. But if she really wants Dev why is she agreeing to meet the guy? She can't depend on the prospective grooms being bad all the time. Kab tak continue karegi aisa? What if the NRI guy says yes?

The problem is Vidhi mein voh awareness hi nahi hai ki what she wants or what she wants to do. I am not telling overnight she should become a rebel. But she has to become strong by taking baby steps. Firmly turning down the rishta would be the first step. She can tell she doesn't want to settle abroad so don't want to meet the guy. Right now she is coming across as someone who is just going with the flow.

Did u hear any convo in the video? I couldn't hear anything, just saw them sitting.

I don't want to Dev to be there yaar. He will just get sad. Agar voh jealous hua toh bhi kuch nahi karega amd kuch kia bhi toh Vidhi khud firm nahi hai toh koi fayda nahi

Vidhi needs to get through this herself. Dev shouldn't be her savior everywhere.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

I don't understand what is Vidhi doing man. I understand she can't tell about Dev as she doesn't know what Dev thinks and all lekin yeh shadi ki baat toh avoid kar sakti haina?Not only does she not like him, but she doesn't want to settle abroad.

On one hand she caresses Dev's coat like that and on the other hand she is meeting another guy. Sorry but it's showing her in a really bad light. Hosakta hai HP ne zor dia ho phir bhi. I mean either she should be stern with herself and forget Dev if she intends to follow her father and can't go against him. But if she really wants Dev why is she agreeing to meet the guy? She can't depend on the prospective grooms being bad all the time. Kab tak continue karegi aisa? What if the NRI guy says yes?

The problem is Vidhi mein voh awareness hi nahi hai ki what she wants or what she wants to do. I am not telling overnight she should become a rebel. But she has to become strong by taking baby steps. Firmly turning down the rishta would be the first step. She can tell she doesn't want to settle abroad so don't want to meet the guy. Right now she is coming across as someone who is just going with the flow.

Did u hear any convo in the video? I couldn't hear anything, just saw them sitting.

I don't want to Dev to be there yaar. He will just get sad. Agar voh jealous hua toh bhi kuch nahi karega amd kuch kia bhi toh Vidhi khud firm nahi hai toh koi fayda nahi

Vidhi needs to get through this herself. Dev shouldn't be her savior everywhere.

Mujhe to kabhi kabhi ye lagta hai isse pyaar to ho gya hai magar uske kya karna hai kuch pata nhi hai. By chance agar Dev bhi pyaar karta aur iske liye stand leta ye ladki to uski izzat ki band baja deti kyunki isse to stand lena hi nhi aata na apne liye, na apne future ke liye. Even if she doesn't know what is in Dev's heart to apne future ke liye stand lo kaho ki mujhe abhi nhi karni shaadi mujhe padhai karni hai. But nhi ye to do naav pe sawaar hai mann mei kuch hai kar kuch rhi hai.sapne kissi ke dekhti hai date pe kissi aur ke saath. Irritate karne lagi hai mujhe ye abto. Ye madam 21yrs ki hai. Kya seedhe ande se nikal kar 21ki ho gai kuch nhi dekha aas paas tv pe. 😡

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Yeh Vidhi bilkul bhi serious nahi hai Dev ke baare mein🤔🤣 matlab on one hand she says papa aap galat ho shadi mein sirf pyar zaruri hota hai blah blah and on the other hand goes to meet the NRI guy. If he says yes, what exactly does she plan to do?

Originally posted by: carljung

Mujhe to kabhi kabhi ye lagta hai isse pyaar to ho gya hai magar uske kya karna hai kuch pata nhi hai. By chance agar Dev bhi pyaar karta aur iske liye stand leta ye ladki to uski izzat ki band baja deti kyunki isse to stand lena hi nhi aata na apne liye, na apne future ke liye. Even if she doesn't know what is in Dev's heart to apne future ke liye stand lo kaho ki mujhe abhi nhi karni shaadi mujhe padhai karni hai. But nhi ye to do naav pe sawaar hai mann mei kuch hai kar kuch rhi hai.sapne kissi ke dekhti hai date pe kissi aur ke saath. Irritate karne lagi hai mujhe ye abto. Ye madam 21yrs ki hai. Kya seedhe ande se nikal kar 21ki ho gai kuch nhi dekha aas paas tv pe. 😡

Exactly!! Why can't she say she doesn't want to get married now. Voh chodo voh yeh rishta jo use pasand nahi hai voh bhi mana nahi kar paa rahi. Its morally wrong on her part to keep dreaming about Dev like that and then also meeting other guys. And if she is meeting other guys atleast apne mann ko samjha le ki Dev ke sapne dekhna thik nahi hai. She isn't doing either. I understand she might be confused about Dev but the least she can do is give herself some time to think over things properly. But she is like jo jaise chal raha hai chalne do. Thoda time toh maang sakti hai na apne parents se? And agar utna bhi nahi karsakti toh how is she going to face them in future?

Thats why I don't want Dev to realise his feelings for her now. First she needs to become strong and firm. Makers ko Vidhi ke character arc pe dhang se focus karna chahiye. Jabse Dev se pyar hua hai aisa lagta hai nashe mein hi ghum rahi hai madam tab se

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Exactly!! Why can't she say she doesn't want to get married now. Voh chodo voh yeh rishta jo use pasand nahi hai voh bhi mana nahi kar paa rahi. Its morally wrong on her part to keep dreaming about Dev like that and then also meeting other guys. And if she is meeting other guys atleast apne mann ko samjha le ki Dev ke sapne dekhna thik nahi hai. She isn't doing either. I understand she might be confused about Dev but the least she can do is give herself some time to think over things properly. But she is like jo jaise chal raha hai chalne do. Thoda time toh maang sakti hai na apne parents se? And agar utna bhi nahi karsakti toh how is she going to face them in future?

Thats why I don't want Dev to realise his feelings for her now. First she needs to become strong and firm. Makers ko Vidhi character arc pe dhang se focus karna chahiye. Jabse Dev se pyar hua hai aisa lagta hai nashe mein hi ghum rahi hai madam tab se

@bold bas dito yahi hai humara thought abt her character progression.

she needs to learn to differentiate between Infatuation that she is having now vs Love that she tinks she feels for Dev... pahle usko samjhana jaruri tab jake Dev ko samajh aana chahiye he has something for her.

I havnt watched todays episode. Its gonna be heartbreaking to watch...should I?