Originally posted by: DiamondLife
Hi Reva
Since we are having healthy discussion...thought of sharing some POV..
All the pre marriage efforts and sacrifice of him, Ak acknowledged his love, sacrifice (he puts his self respect at stake at police station) and not only that..she supported him and chose him in the temple fiasco, later all the time even slowly or instantly (when police took him)
But here, he is completely neglecting and thrashing her sacrifice..questioning her love and not trusting her at all ????
I want some light on this 😳..Did I misunderstand somewhere??
no yaar bela.. what u r saying is not wrong. Yes, she supported him at police station. But before that (pre confession), it took a while and multiple rejections for her to come on the same page as him. She put him through a wringer before accepting his love. (And I am not saying she was wrong to do so). That time she was heavily influenced by arohi and her family (or let’s say her insecurities regarding loosing arohi to acceptance of abhi’s love). I am saying that eventually, slowly but surely, even this guy will come on the same page as her wrt her sacrifice. That realization should come. We have to wait patiently for it. But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love her (atleast imo). Right now, he is heavily under the influence of his insecurities and his toxic family, he is in dark regarding so many things that taiji and parth have done, regarding Kairav’s innocence- all these things are clouding his brain. His love is there but his trust suffered such a massive blow when akshu left without saying anything, that even after knowing what she did was for him, he is not able to accept. He always wanted her to keep their love, (not him) as her priority. He is not able to digest that she left their love for his hand. He doesn’t understand that in a way, she did all this for her love only. He thinks she did it since it’s her habit to sacrifice her love for other people / other things.
My point is, yes his love is flawed and not perfect- but that doesn’t mean his love is not worth fighting for..
even in real life, we (I mean me) usually decide whether a person is good or bad after weighing in all the goods and bads in them because no one is perfect, and no one is all good things only. We are all flawed and we accept the other person along with his/her flaws.
now it’s up to akshu whether she is okay with this flawed abhi and flawed abhi’s love or not. I am of the opinion that it’s still worth fighting for. (My opinion)
Even if she wants to choose herself - it’s fine, she will not be wrong- but that is not a decision she should take in anger or just because he sent those papers. That decision of not being with him should come from within her, because she really truly wants it. Otherwise, it’s like she is repeating the same mistake as him in anger and impulsiveness, which at this point- I think she is.
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