Twin sister of Anupama - Page 5

Originally posted by: surabhi01

I want to ask one thing Har cheej mein anupama hi sabse pehle kyon pehal kare ki jaise anupama ko yeh kehna chahiye ki main milne nahi aa sakti hoon shah house mein tum log chaho to mere Ghar milne aa sakta

Means jsaari expectations anupama se kyon ki anupama ko yeh karna chahiye anupama ko yeh nahi karna chahiye

Kya baaki log vanraj baa toshu pakhi ka koi farz nahi ? Un logon esponsibility nahi banti hai ?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

My again point Har cheej mein saari expectations anupama se kyon

Yahan yeh baat nahi ki hum anupama se khuch bhi nahi except karna chahiye

But my point is that ki whole expectations anupama se kyon

Conclusion of your point is ,

sensible baato par NO kehne ka kaam Maa he Karti hai when it comes to mother and children.

Lol I can’t imagine my mother is not saying me NO for sensible points 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol and more I can’t imagine ki koi meri mamma ko yeh bole ki sensible point par NO bolne ka kaam Tum he kyun karo apne children ke liye !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol I can’t imagine except me , dusre rishtedar iss baat ko samaj kar mere bacche ko NO bole but I can’t say NO! Period.

Isko expectation nahi bolte , parenting bolte hai 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol You are a don or what, to be scared of you, I have newly created an ID on this forum as I’m a new member. Earlier I just used to read all the discussions to see if everyone is agreeing with my views or I’m the crazy one as Anupama (the show) used to infuriate me with what the cvs have done. So it was good to know majority have the same views. Relax and don’t assume things :)

I had a create an id because only members can reply and I couldn’t resist myself because of your Anupama defense so I had to put forth my option that’s all.

Surabhi, forgiving someone again and again when they don’t even say sorry or actually realise their mistake and keep going back for them to make the same mistake is not being a good human. This is what is so wrong and makes woman tolerate all kinds of nonsense in the name of being a good human, mother, wife etc. saying the word “sorry” doesn’t suffice, if you see a person again and again doing the same thing and treating you like absolute crap and not even apologising (maybe very rarely they say the word sorry but don’t follow it up) you don’t keep going back to them saying she doesn’t keep grudges. That’s not ego, it’s basic self respect. And why go back to be insulted and hurt repeatedly?

I am not saying Anupama is a bad person. But her decision to “forgive” these shah family people only to be insulted again and again shows a very very bad message. Nothing has changed, she’s gone to a new house but still she is treated worse than a servant. Don’t you feel so angry when Pakhi baa toshu and all even speak? How can she not feel, when they are talking to her? It’s a major lack of self respect, which is what we don’t like

also I already told you you can support Anupama all you want, never said she’s a bad person. But don’t support all the wrong things or decisions that she makes. At the end of the day they claim to be a serial that shows women empowerment and a message so they have to do it in a right way.

You keep saying why should Anupama not give Bhashan show is hers etc, you are not getting the point. She can give all the Bhashan and more if it actually leads to something. normally when such incidents happen either through the dialogue or through actions, at some point people learn and there is some gradual change at least. Kavya changed even without any Bhashan. But what about others? Again and again Anupama gives a speech about how it’s V and Toshu’s fault and not hers or kinjals, one whole episode goes and next episode they again repeat it is all Anupama’s fault and then whole cycle repeats. Where is the progress, what is the use of those speeches!

You only said the show is about Anupama so it’s about her journey, so she should understand the difference between family who loves her and family who can never love her but only use her (like baa and toshu). Baa gives her so many badduas, says things we can’t even bear to repeat and she goes back and calls her Maa? How is this possible surabhi how is this being a good person; you are encouraging your own abuse.

Anyway want to clarify it’s nothing personal, you are absolutely entitled to your view but just that it’s good to support someone but not to the extent where you don’t see anything wrong with what they do and justify everything. In fact it’ll be better to recognise that Anupama is wrong in this sense so that they hopefully change that part about her and make her grow more. :)

By the way, what kind of question is har expectation Anupama se kyun?? She herself puts the expectation on herself to go there, do all their work, get insulted, feel horrible come back, go back do the same thing on repeat. Those people are not well wishes, they use her and throw her and treat her like a servant. In that scenario who is expected to stand up for themselves and put their foot down? Forget Anupama, in a general scenario like this? Who can stand up for a person other than themselves? You can’t expect the abusers to.

So u join forum just fight with me

Aapko bare mein bahut Pata Hai ?

Yes I will support anupama .u r no one tell me to whom should I support or not

Keep ur nonsense and ur lectures to urself

And yes main aagey bhi anupama ko support karoongi

To tumhare nonsensical post mere liye maayne nahi rakhta

And where I scare u .u r fight with me u r personal attacking me And u r saying that i am scaring u isss bada to koi joke na ho sakta

Yes saari expectations anupama se kyon

Omg Surabhi, I literally said in my message that you have every right to support who you want, I just said don't support the wrong things! This is a forum, it's for discussion and debate, I didn't agree with you and told you, where am I fighting with you? You keep saying you can have your opinion and when I tell you mine I'm fighting with you? I didn't join to fight with you, I wanted to express my views so I joined. And I didn't say you scared me, please read my messages. I said why will I create another ID for you, I'm not scared of you.

Where in one line did I personally attack you? Or talk about you? Please tell me. I spoke about your views on a particular issue with logical points and what I felt. I only spoke about Anupama and what I felt she's doing wrong and about the situation. I didn't abuse you or attack you or even talk about you for that matter. In fact you said I am talking nonsense and I should stop and my post is "nonsensical", and you are personally talking about me whereas my discussion was limited to points of the show. Anyone can see that.

Even I'm watching the serial so I thought you would understand my point, it was my mistake. I shouldn't have replied or even tried to have a normal debate with you. Very sorry, I won't engage with you at all anymore. Thanks. Have a good day.

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

That would be totally awesome👏

That last point will be the best😆

I remember watching Silsila where Kunal was the one who cheated on Mauli, his wife, with her best friend. Many years later, he came back. His second wife had died till then and he had a kid. He lost his memory and returned to the phase where he hadn't met his second wife yet and was with Mauli. Mauli at this time was going to be married to a wonderful guy and used to meet him behind Kunal's back. Kunal thought she was cheating on him and would utter dialogues like "itni sundar shadi mein koi kisi ko dhokha kaise de sakta hai"🤣

That was a treat to watch😆but then he got his memories back and didn't care what he had realised in that memory loss phase

So, even if Anupama loses her memory and haina a few realisations, I hope they don't latest only till she regains her memory. I want her to slap herself for all the idiocy

I know that there was a show called silsila but didn't watched it because it was mainly based on infidelity.

But watching anupama doing this would be a treat.

Specially when she will rebuke her past self for treating Anuj like shit.