Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD
My patience is running thin these days. The show has now become a pain in the ass.
Barkha advised Kinjal to divorce Toshu. What will BB gain by this divorce? If Kinjal divorces Toshu, she will permanently move to KM. Does BB want Kinjal in KM? The makers are showing BB as evil just for the sake of it.
Toshu asks V why he punished him for the crime that he also committed. He asks whether one-night stands are worse than an 8-year-long affair. Toshu says that he is planning to do something that will punish all three of them (V, Anu, and him). V gets scared.
Useless Kinjal runs to Anuj for help. She says that Pari is choking. Anuj falls while trying to get up. When Anu returns to her house, she sees Anuj lying on the floor while Pari is crying. She is in a conundrum. She goes to the kitchen, heats masala, and runs to the living room. She keeps the heated masala over Pari's belly, gives an ice bag to Anuj, and feeds CA water. CA's headmistress calls Anuj. She says that CA's admission has been cancelled because her fees were not paid in due time. Anu breaks down. She blames herself for being a bad wife, a bad mother, and a bad dad.
Anuj calms a restless Anu and puts her to sleep. Kinjal decides to leave but Anuj says that it will hurt Anu. Anuj caresses Anu's hair while she is talking about her responsibilities in her sleep
Precap: Baa wants to take Kinjal and Pari home. She says that Anu will surely break Kinjal's home. a big fuss regarding Kinjal in the KM house.
Anu should take economics classes and read the chapter "Division of Labor" carefully. She needs to hand over some of her chores to other people. Her constant urge to manage everything is putting everyone's lives in danger. I can't believe Anuj had to put her to sleep today. She is very energetic when she is in Shah's house, but she is always tired and sleepy in KM. Why can't she prioritize her husband's health over everything else and cut off that toxic family for a few days?Don't tell me. Since Anuj tells her to go to Shah's house, she has no choice. She can strictly say "no" to him. Anuj has not been sick for years. It's only a month. Why is it so hard for her to ignore other things for a couple of months? Her granddaughter is just 4 days old. She can play with her for the rest of her life. Anu is getting on my nerves these days. Oh, and 4-day-old babies cannot hold anything.
Hallelujah finally she accepted that it's her fault, (being sarcastic here, we all know it's not her fault but why she carries that guilt laden pot on her head is beyond me) if she had shared/split responsibilities this would not happen but nahi.... Hume to Mahaan devi banana hai.
Who does this? Has she not heard the African proverb " It takes a village to raise a child" be it Arya, Anu, kinju pakhi there has to be a support system SHE alone cannot do it..
Thank God finally bheje mein aaya 'meri vajah se' now hopefully she can stop guilt tripping herself and start taking help, and build a support system - where you have a network of people that can provide you with practical or emotional support.
if makers thru the show are portraying condition of Indian women then it is a sad state of affairs, there is too much pressure on women to hold the fort!
The mindset of women needs to change only then society will change!
Anupamaa needs a class in home economics, time & resource management, networking and planning. if after 25 yrs of running shah household she still can't manage, she has definitely failed.
Precap was nauseating, again if this is what current culture in India is -its a shame. Baa portraying current society says crores of women go thru such situations where men have affairs doesn't mean kinju needs to divorce her husband 🤔🤔 she needs to come back and move on😡🙄🙄
Totally repelling, should young women be following such belief system in 2022? I hope Baa gets befitting reply tomorrow.
Edited by V_ka_attitude - 2 years ago
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