Originally posted by: LoveHC
I agree completely. She’s assuming that what has been status quo in the past will continue now also. He should by default understand her. Without asking too many questions/too much evidence.
But my only question is - is Abhimanyu an astrologer/does he have divine powers to know things every time without being told/indicated to him? Isn’t it a little unreasonable to expect understanding every single time from him after making no changes in your own behaviour?
I myself hate to take any one leads stand and will call out whoever is wrong - so I called out Abhimanyu yesterday when he was totally wrong to get media.
But Akshara also won’t be spared where she is wrong. I know Abhimanyu’s insecurities are totally wrong. But may I ask - doesn’t Akshara already know about these insecurities that Abhimanyu has? Isn’t she aware of them? After Manish heart surgery - Abhimanyu told her I feel hurt when u choose family over me. During their card Pooja Abhimanyu told her - I’m afraid you’ll leave me for family. And he never asked her to keep him above them - just equal. I know he is totally misunderstanding now, but from his point of view - his insecurities didn’t get cleared fully. So now - she chose Kairav as per him.
Akshu’s love has always been in actions. She isn't vocal. But because she also does not communicate at the right times the signals get criss-crossed.
She has considered Abhi and his family as her own. Despite everything that has happened we see in the pre-cap she went to go check on his mother. Isn't loving the family also an extentions of loving your partner? At the very least giving consideration because you see them as your own?
Akshu is stuck between a brother she knows is innocent and her husband's family wants to seek justice. Why wouldn't she try and help Kairav get cleared of his charges? Abhi is doing his part as a brother to get justice for Anisha. But just because she did so doesn't mean she doesn't love Abhi any less. Akshu left for Abhi just that Kairav just so happened to come along.
And she is aware she said it herself that she knows this year apart Abhi probably thinks I left because of Kairav when that is not the case. This is where we already pointed out she should have spoken up in my previous post. Speaking up would easy Abhi’s insecurities - Akshu hasn't made the connection, communication will easy insecurities of my husband. But the 🤬 writers want to hold that reveal for whatever reason to probably give more sympathy for the ML because he is in the dark and he is making decisions he has no idea how bad the consequences are. His family is manipulating him.
So I am not really sure what we are discussing anymore. Both are right and wrong. Both have a habit of doing their own thing and then expecting the other to understand where they are coming from. I am not here to declare who is worse than the other. I am simply stating what I see of both and their problems. Doesn't mean I want to dump on Abhi nor dump on Akshu. It is simply the state of things.
We have to see if the writers will actually close the track of Abhi’s insecurities and Akshu learning to speak up. It's the same thing. Neither of these characters have learned to do these things. Their growth has been super slow. Abhi doesn't blow up as much as he does before. He will quietly sit there and just leave. Akshu is giving it back to strangers and is completely whatever to her sister now.
Edited by iheartChai - 3 years ago
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