Tum meri biwi ho aur vinu ki mumma - Page 40

Originally posted by: sadiltl

No I didnt read your post fully. I read the first line that you wanted to know Virat's PoV and tagged you. You responded by saying I am doing 'behas' so clarified I am not.

@roch has good intentions towards me so she came in my defence.

Sorry to cause MU, by not reading your post fully.

“mein apse behaas nahin kar raha hoon bas jana chatha hoon ki apke vichar “

AAP bhi janti hain ki mein aapke bare mein kya soch tha hoon iss liye Maine woh share kiya jo mein yaha kisike saath nahiin kiya . Iss ke aage mein kuch nahiin Kehna chatha hoon .

Roch ne pheli baar nahiin kiya yeh hain . Hamesha kiya hain . Woh sirf muje target karthi hain . Chod digeye sab apne friends ko support karthe hain jo sahi hain unko nahiin warna Roch ko kehte ki woh galat hain . Aapko iss mein pull nahiin karna chatha . Mein bas dukhi hoon iss forum ke members par jo aise log ko positive manthe hain jo dusro ko judge karthe hain toh . Aisa laga kisko mere yeha hone se acha nahiin laga .

Agar Roch sirf aapko support karne athi toh MU ke baad sorry kehti par nahiin kiya . Woh aapko support ke aad mein muje target kiya hain . Aapko in sab mein pull kiya hain .

Originally posted by: JinglesRead

Agar Roch sirf aapko support karne athi toh MU ke baad sorry kehti par nahiin kiya . Woh aapko support ke aad mein muje target kiya hain . Aapko in sab mein pull kiya hain .

Bhai maaf kardo galti hogayi, i shall be careful next time.

But Sadhika is one of those you looks at characters only and gives her view. The way she view the story and explains has always been positive. Hence stated the same.

@Sadhika - apologies didn't mean to cause this mess. Next time will restrict my responses to your posts only.

Originally posted by: Roch

Bhai maaf kardo galti hogayi, i shall be careful next time.

But Sadhika is one of those you looks at characters only and gives her view. The way she view the story and explains has always been positive. Hence stated the same.

@Sadhika - apologies didn't mean to cause this mess. Next time will restrict my responses to your posts only.

Mein apne bare mein baat kar raha tha ki mein disagree karke argue nahiin kar raha hoon bas aapke ke pov samaj na chatha hoon . Sadhika ko kuch nahiin kaha . Padne mein MU thi kyunki himdi mein likha tha . Khair chodo explanation bhi kisko dene jo phele hi man bana liya ki mein yaha logo ko parishaan karne atha hoon .

Originally posted by: msin

That’s the exact thing

in real life a Virat Sai marriage can never survive .. there is too much volatility.. passion love but zero trust or communication., it’s a recipe for disaster plus they are unlucky for each other ..

Plus Virat hardly cares for Sai during her pain period .. Sai has been a lot more relaxed without him in her life .. if she had told Savi some truth about her father .. life would have been a lot better for both of them

It mostly ends in divorce .. with one or both settling later with a tamer duller partner

So true, I feel in real life a marriage that lacks passion but has strong trust respect and communication will survive better.

N here its not even passion from Virat side if it was he would not be hurting her at slightest adversity. His behavior post miscarriage takes passion part out. If he really loved Sai he would have said you matter to me not baby n stood by her. That was a big blow to his character. There was no MU they were at all time high n he behaved that way? I wont even call it love forget passion.

What his behavior suggests is that he wants to gain control over Sai. Someone mentioned that show Saubhagyavati Bhava where ML was obsessed n abusive. Virat is milder version of that. As soon as things are not his way he goes insane. Sai should trust him, understand him, stand by him, tolerate his unreasonable promises n bear the burnt. But he cant support her when she was being slapped infront of her or when she lost a child!

There are people who can not break free from such marriage but here Sai has been able to do that. She did it again n again but was brought back by him or his family with some manipulation only to face worst that previous event.

They really should not make Sai end up with him.

I saw Anu auntie last week- one thing she and Vanraj said was — If you realize you made a mistake then you say sorry, but Toshu doesn’t even agree that it was a mistake .

Why I wrote this is V is not even realizing he made a mistake by letting P meddle in their life, bailing her out for a crime. V still blames Sai for everything. So when there is no realization then there is no sorry.

Sais point being you don’t even put your wife and kid before your family and crimes … he didn’t take a stand that day top it off he was ruthless.

I read folks indicating Sai should tell V the truth about Savi. How do you approach a person who after finding out she was alive is being so rude and angry. Top it off he is married with a son. Sai being Sai from her perspective if she informs now it will ruin Vs happy family and Savi is not going to get a father who would belong only to their family. V is not going to be shared between two families. So why would Sai reveal the truth now to V. He has decided to stay angry, character assassinated Sai again, moved on with P, worst of all he still doesn’t think P did anything wrong during surrogacy or meddled. Not sympathizing with Sai but she is right. She will bear all the pain but not let Savi go through the pain of seeing her baba married another woman and her painting of family with Sai and V isn’t happening.

Originally posted by: Coolmeg

I saw Anu auntie last week- one thing she and Vanraj said was — If you realize you made a mistake then you say sorry, but Toshu doesn’t even agree that it was a mistake .

Why I wrote this is V is not even realizing he made a mistake by letting P meddle in their life, bailing her out for a crime. V still blames Sai for everything. So when there is no realization then there is no sorry.

Sais point being you don’t even put your wife and kid before your family and crimes … he didn’t take a stand that day top it off he was ruthless.

I read folks indicating Sai should tell V the truth about Savi. How do you approach a person who after finding out she was alive is being so rude and angry. Top it off he is married with a son. Sai being Sai from her perspective if she informs now it will ruin Vs happy family and Savi is not going to get a father who would belong only to their family. V is not going to be shared between two families. So why would Sai reveal the truth now to V. He has decided to stay angry, character assassinated Sai again, moved on with P, worst of all he still doesn’t think P did anything wrong during surrogacy or meddled. Not sympathizing with Sai but she is right. She will bear all the pain but not let Savi go through the pain of seeing her baba married another woman and her painting of family with Sai and V isn’t happening.

During shruthi case , Sai didnot trust him after seeing all the proof, but even than V made her suffer and she had to say sorry for the mistake V did, now he is not trusting her by just him assuming things , when things clear up will he say sorry, and even if he did why should sai forgive him ? She should behave the same way he did to her during Sh time.

but we all know Vankar would never do that even this time he will make V mahan and again will make S say sorry to that nalayak husband of her.

V character graph has gone so low that people think Komolika of KZK is far better than him, Next he can be nominated for best villan / negative character instead of ML category

Originally posted by: Coolmeg

I saw Anu auntie last week- one thing she and Vanraj said was — If you realize you made a mistake then you say sorry, but Toshu doesn’t even agree that it was a mistake .

Why I wrote this is V is not even realizing he made a mistake by letting P meddle in their life, bailing her out for a crime. V still blames Sai for everything. So when there is no realization then there is no sorry.

Sais point being you don’t even put your wife and kid before your family and crimes … he didn’t take a stand that day top it off he was ruthless.

I read folks indicating Sai should tell V the truth about Savi. How do you approach a person who after finding out she was alive is being so rude and angry. Top it off he is married with a son. Sai being Sai from her perspective if she informs now it will ruin Vs happy family and Savi is not going to get a father who would belong only to their family. V is not going to be shared between two families. So why would Sai reveal the truth now to V. He has decided to stay angry, character assassinated Sai again, moved on with P, worst of all he still doesn’t think P did anything wrong during surrogacy or meddled. Not sympathizing with Sai but she is right. She will bear all the pain but not let Savi go through the pain of seeing her baba married another woman and her painting of family with Sai and V isn’t happening.

I agree with this .. how do you forgive someone who is not even understanding where he went wrong ..and why should Sai risk it with Savi

@jingles...

I don't want to criticize you. Just replying to your comment. I told you some days back that we are on a different planes.

I am surprised by the opening line of your first comment ki V ke fans ki kami mehsoos ho rahi hai. The reason we interact on this thread and not on EDT is because most of us (including me and Sadhika have been previously indirectly called as blind V fans). We see his character and write long reviews which are taken as support of his abusive behaviour 🙈🙈

That said, I mentioned this to you other day too.

You are giving too much weightage to V-P shaadi and V ke words.

Even in the whole episode, the focus is on that one dialouge, sure... it's important and it changes things. But you also need to read what he doesn't say. Does he himself looked convinced when he said this? No... he said that in anger. What about rest of it that he said to P? Does any of this suggest that he is ready to move on? No... he is not...

And now as per new spoiler if Sai comes and stays in CN, will he, knowing she is alive???

Also, if he was indeed ready to move on, then it negates everything that has been shown post leap. 3 weeks worth of episode cannot be flipped for one line.

And VC is man of pakki zabàn according to him... but the experience of past 600 episodes says, that he does exactly opposite of what he says.

He himself is manipulative but he also gets easily manipulated. So he will be influenced by other factors to not live up to that promise.

Secondly, The marriage is invalid. Bas show main kisi ki complaint ki jarurat hai... and it will break.

Thirdly, agar usne P ko bol diya ki Haan mere man main feelings hai Sai ke liye to aage episodes kaise banenge??? Kyunki filhaal P to positive hai na... she should technically leave him. So this is all to just extend the drama.

Also notice that he doesn't clarify to P if he still has feelings for Sai. He avoids the question. Agar nahi the to clearly bol deta.

So yeah... that dialouge is worse, but don't just focus on it. Read and absorb other stuff from the episode as well.

I have noticed that this happens if you just read WU and not see the actual episode. Things get lost. Mannerisms and behaviour changes how a dialogue is delivered and what it means.

Half of the people here do not watch and come and just rant.

The episodes are not as bad as they seem.

Negative predictions is fine... but my suggestion wouldbe to look at them as V and P... not Aish and NB and don't go overboard. If you keep negative ideas in mind, it spoils the viewing experience because our mind notices only that.

Baki for the sake of this track, as I have said earlier... V is not important currently... it's a P vs Sai story. Montage ke hisab se. He is just there in the background and has no real contribution.

Don't fret over him. Look at the story in broader context.

Anyway, ye log ek din pehle script likh Rahe Hai. Detailing ki ummeed Kam rakhni chahiye.

Hope this is fair enough explanation for your doubts.

That's where there is an inconsistency in Sai's character. For the kind of things V & P did, Sai should have got a divorce from V and got custody order for Vinu & restraining order against P.

She was going for the same effectively when she went into incognito mode...which I fully support.

But then V comes back, blames her for whatever transpired. Yet it looked like she would have melted had V not been married. Where is character consistency?Even yesterday she never mentioned about P's crime and how V supported it. They have conveniently shifted the narrative to V-P-S romantic knot.

Nothing in this show makes any sense - neither the plot nor the characters. Audience also needs to have amnesia.