GHKPM Daily episode discussion thread #72 - Page 48

After reading some reviews I am in dilemma why some are saying Virat has nothing for Pakhi, I mean she got his support,trust and everything basic that's foundation of a relationship even when he was in good terms with Sai and Sai could never get it no matter what she does.

Now coming to him showing his force on Sai (which should NOT be equated with showing rights obviously) twisting arm even of your legally wedded wife to the extent that it imprints fingers on the wrist is DOMESTIC ABUSE.

(Reviewers are requested to put a trigger warning before comparing something like domestic abuse to passionate love,at first it isn't expected secondly it definitely triggers many atleast PPL I know.)

Coming to Virat not showing so called passion to Pakhi which indirectly is an abuse,of course he won't hurt her, HE NEVER DID, I am sure we all are aware of it after 600+ episodes.

I wonder if this is claimed as passion then I wonder why we hailed Virat for arresting a boy in valentine's episode who was claiming to die for love of a girl? Virat showing his passion while hurting Sai physically and that guy showed his passion by emotionally blackmailing???

It's easy to justify right?

(I FIND BOTH DISGUSTING !!!)

ITV HAS SURELY REDUCED PEOPLE'S EXPECTATIONS FROM LOVE 😆that out of everything major hurting while showing so called rights is only factor left to define love,if you hurt means you love😬 who cares about trust,support, sufferings etc

Passionate in love is something beautiful to define,not such ugliness,real ones show it while caring even instead of hurting to the extent person can't recover from it.

Tho it's nice to see some being hopeful over sairat because they are endgame (tho I doubt),my favourites are one who are in for making fun of everything they show🤗

(Of course not questioning the opinions, you can have any,it's just opinions triggers when read without warning 👍🏼)

Originally posted by: Weekend_firefly

After reading some reviews I am in dilemma why some are saying Virat has nothing for Pakhi, I mean she got his support,trust and everything basic that's foundation of a relationship even when he was in good terms with Sai and Sai could never get it no matter what she does.

Now coming to him showing his force on Sai (which should NOT be equated with showing rights obviously) twisting arm even of your legally wedded wife to the extent that it imprints fingers on the wrist is DOMESTIC ABUSE.

(Reviewers are requested to put a trigger warning before comparing something like domestic abuse to passionate love,at first it isn't expected secondly it definitely triggers many atleast PPL I know.)

Coming to Virat not showing so called passion which indirectly is an abuse,of course he won't hurt her, HE NEVER DID, I am sure we all are aware of it after 600+ episodes.

I wonder if this is claimed as passion then I wonder why we hailed Virat for arresting a boy in valentine's episode who was claiming to die for love of a girl? Virat showing his passion while hurting Sai physically and that guy showed his passion by emotionally blackmailing???

It's easy to justify right?

(I FIND BOTH DISGUSTING !!!)

ITV HAS SURELY REDUCED PEOPLE'S EXPECTATIONS FROM LOVE 😆that out of everything major hurt is only factor left to define love,if you hurt means you love😬 who cares about stuff.

Tho it's nice to see some being hopeful over sairat because they are endgame (tho I doubt),my favourites are one who are in for making fun of everything they show🤗

(Of course not questioning the opinions, you can have any,it's just opinions triggers when read without warning 👍🏼)

Virat clearly said I was trying to MOVE ON but my past came infront of me.

Still he don't have anything for pakhi?

Today's virakhi scene explains why they are made for each other.

They have so much understanding, respect between each other. They have long long conversations without any exhibitions.

When he can understand pakhi insecurities and assure her firmly then why didn't he never assured sai like this when he was supposed to be in love with her.

Respect, sensitiveness, trust, protectiveness, he has all these for pakhi.

Did any action of him implies he has any of these for Sai?

Even vanraj was angry and burning in jealousy when he saw anupama with anuj. Does it means he loves anupama?

I honestly don't have problem with shipping. It's about one choices.

But when I read indirect justifications for virat's abusive actions, it triggers.

I remember people saying no sai---rat if virat chooses, he choosed pakhi.

After that no sai -----rat if he marries pakhi.

He married.

Now hoping for him to not consummate his marriage with pakhi.

How standards for ml fallen. Even he consummates with pakhi, I can imagine people saying he consummated because of jealousy for Sai so he loves only Sai.

Pakhi was called cheap names for kissing virat who is her husband.

But people can't see how virat emotionally and physically leading her on.

Today he assured her that she will always be his wife.

If he has something for Sai, then isn't it emotional cheating? He is lowkey started two timing already.

It amazes people want such two timer to end up with fl because end game is fixed and fl loves ml.

I understand people have sentiments over favourite pair. But atleast don't try to justify ml behaviour.

Triggering part should definitely be taken into concern there are many silent readers too,also I know point of views keep on changing just to see the pair surviving somehow (may be we can't understand such attachment with pair).

Also I think going this way it's injustice to character Pakhi because her emotions,hurts and needs aren't valued just like character Virat instead she is declared as negative, pathetic human straight away😆

Tho I dislike both Virat and Pakhi,people with same characteristics.

Originally posted by: Weekend_firefly

Triggering part should definitely be taken into concern there are many silent readers too,also I know point of views keep on changing just to see the pair surviving somehow (may be we can't understand such attachment with pair).

Also I think going this way it's injustice to character Pakhi because her emotions,hurts and needs aren't valued just like character Virat instead she is declared as negative, pathetic human straight away😆

Tho I dislike both Virat and Pakhi,people with same characteristics.

Desperately want her to be negative.

Same people finding positive in virat's actions even when he is acting shit. Like finding his passion for Sai in him manhandling her, questioning her character.

If virat says only u r my wife to pakhi then he is doing out of anger on sai, it's all sai for him.

But when pakhi used samrat to make virat jealous, she was called characterless and cheater.

How both are different?

Yup 💯 tho she isn't saint either but definitely victim of biasness when it comes to analysing 😆because she isn't part of the pair I am sure people won't like Virakhi fans or even Pakhi fans justifying her.

Again I don't mind opinions against any character until n unless they trigger me or someone else to the level that I have to log in and write big paragraphs which I avoid generally.

Abuse is the term English has given to use for what Virat has done today even emotionally,ITV

is already normalising miseries in the life of woman who takes stand for herself and many others things people don't have to add up to it.

(I will rest it here🤗❤️)

I understand that people were trying to find a "positive" but now it has got to the extreme where they are essentially defending abusive behavior but if they are called out they add a disclaimer that they don't approve of Vs actions and then class others as being too negative. People make predictions but tell others not to do so. I find it mind boggling to read some of the comments on SM and other places. You can only provide a pov for a character when you think they are redeemable. Explaining Vs actions in my mind is utterly stupid. There's nothing to explain. He just needs to be called out as inappropriate with no prefix/suffix to qualify it. Abuse isnt passion. Anger and rage isn't possessiveness/jealousy. Marriage under any circumstances isn't to be taken lightly.

People's standards of V keeps dropping and theres no end to the amount of leeway he gets. Yet Sai gets called out for any minor indescretion also.

Even after he has married pp what is there to root for Sairat. Nothing about his actions has demonstrated his commitment or love to Sai. He has himself said out loud that pp is his biwi and he regards her as Vinu's mother even though she is the least maternal person ever. Anything she does is dhong. Pp has no sympathy because she is a criminal and she chose all this for herself in full consciousness.

I don't who made this but it just made my day 🤣🤣🤣

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7TqnHrBAQ6M

Originally posted by: Nja91

I understand that people were trying to find a "positive" but now it has got to the extreme where they are essentially defending abusive behavior but if they are called out they add a disclaimer that they don't approve of Vs actions and then class others as being too negative. People make predictions but tell others not to do so. I find it mind boggling to read some of the comments on SM and other places. You can only provide a pov for a character when you think they are redeemable. Explaining Vs actions in my mind is utterly stupid. There's nothing to explain. He just needs to be called out as inappropriate with no prefix/suffix to qualify it. Abuse isnt passion. Anger and rage isn't possessiveness/jealousy. Marriage under any circumstances isn't to be taken lightly.

People's standards of V keeps dropping and theres no end to the amount of leeway he gets. Yet Sai gets called out for any minor indescretion also.

Even after he has married pp what is there to root for Sairat. Nothing about his actions has demonstrated his commitment or love to Sai. He has himself said out loud that pp is his biwi and he regards her as Vinu's mother even though she is the least maternal person ever. Anything she does is dhong. Pp has no sympathy because she is a criminal and she chose all this for herself in full consciousness.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

I don't who made this but it just made my day 🤣🤣🤣

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7TqnHrBAQ6M

Epic 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Blurb is shockingly up. Looks like the parallel of Sai-V for Sai bday will now happen to give unprofessional duo SS- Pp bday nautanki will start today. Blurb says V leaves and learns about pp birthday. So i guess we will have to be prepared for more cringe of him planning his "wife's birthday". Ugh. 🤢😡 i want both of them to be miserable forever. They dont deserve even a second of peace and happiness.